I have a first hearing for child arrangements in July in what will be a hellish process. I have lost about 25kg since I left my husband and currently a size 12/14 which I haven’t been in decades. Weight loss has slowed recently but I hope this will continue until I reach a healthy bmi (I’m now overweight rather than obese). I’m finding it hard to know what to wear in general for so many reasons. I’m used to hiding myself, but my body has changed now and I don’t feel the same shame.
im looking for a clean, nicely tailored black suit that I can use for work too (I do go to court for work relatively frequently) but not sure where to go, what to look for. I just want classic - impactful. I want to show I am there for business. He won’t even see it, as there will be special measures due to DV, so it’s not about ‘showing him’ how I’m doing, it’s for me. I’d say I would spend up to £300 if necessary but any advice on where to look, what to go for would be hugely appreciated. I’m not even sure what size to get, still struggling a little with accepting that my size has changed.