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Brigette macron hits Emmanuel

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Stressedout150 · 26/05/2025 12:38

has anyone seen this on the news?! What do we all think, it’s all a bit bizarre

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TheAutumnCrow · 26/05/2025 19:40

YourAmplePlumPoster · 26/05/2025 19:17

I'm just saying that these days the teacher would have been sacked for a consenting relationship between two adults. If Madame Macron is to be believed, they didn't sleep together until he was in his 20s and she didn't leave her husband until 10 years later.

What are you even on about??

FamilyPhoto · 26/05/2025 19:41

AliasGraced · 26/05/2025 16:13

He wasn’t a child or underage so how do you work that one out?

He was 15.
A child.

Botpotty · 26/05/2025 19:44

I have just watched the clip and initially of course I concentrated on Macron however on rewatching I think alot more has gone on, look at the poor lady in the hi-vis vest her clothing is ripped on her shoulder and it's all bloody.

Something went down and it wasn't good.

Sometimeswinning · 26/05/2025 19:45

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Yes. If only more people ignored this behaviour. Luckily being called a racist on mumsnet means nothing.

OneQuickMauveBiscuit · 26/05/2025 19:48

Illegally18 · 26/05/2025 19:34

I'm also in my 60s , and I remember it well. But you forget that it was a different era, and the mind set of the time was completely different. We'd had years of people banging on about sexual freedom, female sexual freedom, gay sexual freedom, and teenage sexual freedom.And while it caused a stir, it was considered alright. My question about Bill and Mandy is, what on earth did they talk about? And if I remember correctly, there was a a march to be able to have sexual relations with children from the age of nine. Infantile sexual freedom!

Not long ago there was another campaign to make paedophilia normalised, they even made a flag. There was also NAMBLA, weren’t they the 80s?

It’s utterly sickening that society is ever in a position where paedophiles feel comfortable enough to go public. I’d set fire to the lot of them.

But there are still lots of people who have admitted to such crimes and they’re still famous and people don’t bat an eyelid. Steven Tyler is another. Anthony Kiedis. Elvis. Jerry Lee Lewis (yeah he was arrested etc for various crimes but never condemned for his 13 year old wife)

Hoppinggreen · 26/05/2025 19:49

Botpotty · 26/05/2025 19:44

I have just watched the clip and initially of course I concentrated on Macron however on rewatching I think alot more has gone on, look at the poor lady in the hi-vis vest her clothing is ripped on her shoulder and it's all bloody.

Something went down and it wasn't good.

She wasn't on the plane, she opened the door.
You can see that she witnesses the slap/punch and doesn't quite know what to do

Bobnobob · 26/05/2025 19:51

Birdsinginginthetrees · 26/05/2025 14:22

Just imagine if this was Melania and Trump. The press would have a field day.

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The press ARE having a field day

BreezyBertha · 26/05/2025 19:52

That was not accidental nor was it trying to tidy his face, it looks like something someone would do when they really wanted to punch someone but pushed their face instead. Unlikely it was the first time either with doing in public (staff on the plane) and not enough self control to even stop herself despite the plane doors opening and press outside.

Looks like Macron is obviously in a very dysfunctional relationship and there probably still is a psychological power imbalance from when they got together. No 15 year old boy is consciously capable and mature enough to conduct a romantic relationship with a 39 year old married mother of 3, a teacher! He is younger than her eldest son and the same age as the other one.

I wonder who is actually governing France if he is in a relationship like that.

Yupal · 26/05/2025 19:54

Botpotty · 26/05/2025 19:44

I have just watched the clip and initially of course I concentrated on Macron however on rewatching I think alot more has gone on, look at the poor lady in the hi-vis vest her clothing is ripped on her shoulder and it's all bloody.

Something went down and it wasn't good.

As @Hoppinggreen has said that person wasn’t on the plane. But also her clothing isn’t ripped or bloody, it’s the orange reflective on her shoulder.

ohdelay · 26/05/2025 19:56

YourAmplePlumPoster · 26/05/2025 18:10

What concerns about a 30 year old enduring relationship subjected to pressures by being in the spotlight? Why don't you mind your own business?

Beggars belief that this is the take you've gone with. She is an abusive nonce. The fact the victim is minimising it and has undergone it for 30 years doesn't matter. There is no justification for what we have all seen and I don't understand the need for people to make one.

AliasGraced · 26/05/2025 19:56

Bobnobob · 26/05/2025 19:51

The press ARE having a field day

It wasn’t even mentioned on the 6 o’clock news.

YourAmplePlumPoster · 26/05/2025 19:57

Remember when Melania slapped Trump's hand away on some trip. All the rumours swirling around about Starmer and "rent boys." I don't think mumsnetters should stoop to the level of the gutter press.

2025willbemytime · 26/05/2025 20:00

TheWisePlumDuck · 26/05/2025 15:19

No married couple I know has a row that involves physically shoving the other.

It is abusive. Whichever sex partner is doing it.

Mind you, not exactly a shocker that a predatory woman is abusive aswell. She was a 40 year old married teacher, he was a teenager. No mentally put together woman without serious issues pursues a teenager for a seirous relationship when she is that age.

Sounds like oh she can't help it..

placemats · 26/05/2025 20:01

Big laugh at my post @SalfordQuays

Clearly you don't care about abuse.

Uricon2 · 26/05/2025 20:02

YourAmplePlumPoster · 26/05/2025 19:57

Remember when Melania slapped Trump's hand away on some trip. All the rumours swirling around about Starmer and "rent boys." I don't think mumsnetters should stoop to the level of the gutter press.

This is absolutely nothing like those instances and you know it. I don't understand your keenness to defend this woman, either for her inappropriate relationship with a child or shoving her husband in the face in front of cameras.

placemats · 26/05/2025 20:03

YourAmplePlumPoster · 26/05/2025 19:57

Remember when Melania slapped Trump's hand away on some trip. All the rumours swirling around about Starmer and "rent boys." I don't think mumsnetters should stoop to the level of the gutter press.

I remember when Melania looked disgusted at a kiss given by Trump.

Edited clip.

placemats · 26/05/2025 20:05

Bobnobob · 26/05/2025 19:51

The press ARE having a field day

Twitter and Gbnews isn't the press.

YourAmplePlumPoster · 26/05/2025 20:05

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5128gap · 26/05/2025 20:07

ZoggyStirdust · 26/05/2025 19:05

So any successful woman with power should be able to simply leave their abuser with ease? And those that don’t? Can’t?

In all the years I've worked supporting women to leave abusive relationships, I've never met one who was the president of France. That is the level of power, privilege and autonomy I'm talking about. So it's no use drawing false parallels with women who are not amongst the most powerful people in the world. Women encounter all types of barriers to leaving abusive men. The lack of a viable alternative option is typically high on the list. The damage to their self esteem and confidence is also a common factor. As is a genuine fear for their life and the lives of their children. It's ridiculous to suggest the president of France is in a comparable situation. If he had deep seated pyscological issues preventing him leaving that have somehow escaped the scrutiny of those who surrounding him, then that is a great shame. However he would still not face anywhere near the challenges typically faced by an ordinary woman in an abusive relationship.

Clafoutie · 26/05/2025 20:09

Botpotty · 26/05/2025 19:44

I have just watched the clip and initially of course I concentrated on Macron however on rewatching I think alot more has gone on, look at the poor lady in the hi-vis vest her clothing is ripped on her shoulder and it's all bloody.

Something went down and it wasn't good.

I don’t think that’s the case? I think it is just her uniform, and she looks to be part of the airport staff at Hanoi greeting the plane?

OneQuickMauveBiscuit · 26/05/2025 20:10

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There have been lots of dramas about domestic violence. I recall one on the BBC many years ago. There have also been lots of true crime documentaries about domestic violence that has led to murder.

All forms of abuse are abhorrent. None are acceptable. Same as no form of child abuse or grooming are acceptable.

Including any potential domestic abuse between the Macron’s.

OneQuickMauveBiscuit · 26/05/2025 20:15

5128gap · 26/05/2025 20:07

In all the years I've worked supporting women to leave abusive relationships, I've never met one who was the president of France. That is the level of power, privilege and autonomy I'm talking about. So it's no use drawing false parallels with women who are not amongst the most powerful people in the world. Women encounter all types of barriers to leaving abusive men. The lack of a viable alternative option is typically high on the list. The damage to their self esteem and confidence is also a common factor. As is a genuine fear for their life and the lives of their children. It's ridiculous to suggest the president of France is in a comparable situation. If he had deep seated pyscological issues preventing him leaving that have somehow escaped the scrutiny of those who surrounding him, then that is a great shame. However he would still not face anywhere near the challenges typically faced by an ordinary woman in an abusive relationship.

There was a study done on doctors who suffer from domestic abuse. One of the reasons they felt they couldn’t speak up about what was happening to them was the stigma attached to being a doctor, a professional who should be in control, be able to handle life, and have a certain income, being abused.

Now imagine you are a man in a position of power. Already you’re on the back foot as a man. Now imagine you’ve been groomed for decades and you’re in a serious position of power.

You can keep dismissing the fact he can’t be abused but that clip shows a level of violence towards him from his wife. It may be a one off, they may play it down, but using violence towards your partner is always abuse, no matter the reason. We don’t need to compare situations, abuse is always wrong.

Men can be abused, people with money can be abused, people in powerful positions can be abused. To say it can’t be true because he has money or his position is doing a serious disservice to victims of abuse and it’s a dangerous position to take.

Once is already too many times.

saraclara · 26/05/2025 20:17

I can only assume that those minimising this have only seen a still photo of her hands on his face. It beggars belief that anyone can watch that video clip and say that it was a joke/wiping something off his face.

Everyone from the airport staff to Macron himself looks awkward and as if they don't know what to do. There's no reason for that if it wasn't an angry push.

Youdontseehow · 26/05/2025 20:17

asnever · 26/05/2025 13:32

He realises it's been seen - awkward😬

Yeah….the jaunty wave once he clocked that.

RellieAngst · 26/05/2025 20:25

I have a 15 year old son. He is a child.

Some 39 year old teacher honing in on him would be criminal. She’s an abuser then and now.