There was a study done on doctors who suffer from domestic abuse. One of the reasons they felt they couldn’t speak up about what was happening to them was the stigma attached to being a doctor, a professional who should be in control, be able to handle life, and have a certain income, being abused.
Now imagine you are a man in a position of power. Already you’re on the back foot as a man. Now imagine you’ve been groomed for decades and you’re in a serious position of power.
You can keep dismissing the fact he can’t be abused but that clip shows a level of violence towards him from his wife. It may be a one off, they may play it down, but using violence towards your partner is always abuse, no matter the reason. We don’t need to compare situations, abuse is always wrong.
Men can be abused, people with money can be abused, people in powerful positions can be abused. To say it can’t be true because he has money or his position is doing a serious disservice to victims of abuse and it’s a dangerous position to take.
Once is already too many times.