You have bought a ticket to go to a show it’s miles Away we are talking three hours plus and your friend is going too but she’s now come down with stomach bug as it’s happened very close to the day we were going poor thing she’s had to cancel and feels so guilty that I cannot go either and wants to give me the money for my wasted ticket, what would you do, I don’t think that’s necessary she can’t help being ill , what do others do in this situation