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Is Prosecco an acceptable gift?

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DonnaSueWeloveyou · 10/05/2025 20:47

Just that. I have no idea what’s currently in or out of fashion for a smallish present.

The recipient is definitely someone who drinks alcohol.

All opinions gratefully received, thank you!

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Flossingisforteeth · 11/05/2025 19:33

Oh, I hope so otherwise my friends and I have been giving each terrible gifts for years!

Mumtobabyhavoc · 11/05/2025 19:39

My go to gift is a bottle of cheap but cheerful, a wedge of nice brie, a good baguette, a punnet of strawberries and a nice bit of chocolate with a thank you card.

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Mumtobabyhavoc · 11/05/2025 19:40

Cynic17 · 11/05/2025 18:31

I think the difference is that Prosecco is a generic "no thought" (even tacky) gift, and that's why I would be embarrassed to give it to anyone.
Really, if you are giving anyone a gift, use a bit of thought and actually consider what the person would like.

Only if the recipient is a wine snob.

Mumtobabyhavoc · 11/05/2025 19:44

if you receive a bottle of sparkling not to your particular liking make mimosas or Bellinis etc instead! 😊😋💡

CaptainMyCaptain · 11/05/2025 19:44

I'd like it.

Letsummercommence · 11/05/2025 19:52

ArtichokeAardvark · 10/05/2025 21:39

Hate prosecco, and lots of other people do too. It's always telling when the bottle tombola at our local fete is 50% prosecco, everyone donates it with a sigh of relief. Go for cremant which is closer to taste to champagne (it's the same grapes but made in Burgundy or the Loire, so can't be called champagne) but isn't any more expensive than prosecco.

Sorry but this is affectation . Every country has its own fizz made with specified grapes in specified regions. Prosecco, Cava, Cremant are all good quality, decent fizz made in a traditional method ( as opposed to being cheap wine with bubbles added Lambrusco style)
Or there are New World bubbles .

You couldn’t guess which of them anyone would prefer and quality wise they are on par.

getahhtmapub · 11/05/2025 22:06

Cloudy Bay Pelorus is also excellent.

twilighteaser · 11/05/2025 22:44

Decent Prosecco is around £20 a bottle and it should be Valdobbiadene Prosecco, then it's worth giving. Prosecco uses the Cremant method. If you want an Italian wine using the Champagne method, then go for a Trento Metodo Classico.

DonnaSueWeloveyou · 12/05/2025 08:31

rainbowunicorn · 11/05/2025 12:09

It is a perfectly fine gift OP. Mumsnet is full of people that like to pretend they are better than everyone else. They do that by coming on threads like this to tell the OP how awful their choice of gift is and how they would never allow it to pass tbeir lips. You will find them using language such as vile and tacky often with accompanying the emoji. They pop on threads where pandora bracelets are mentioned as well.
They just make themselves look a bit daft to be honest.
I'm sure whoever you are buying the gift for will appreciate you thinking of them.

Thank you!

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DonnaSueWeloveyou · 12/05/2025 08:32

Anewuser · 11/05/2025 12:12

I’m amazed that so many people can get offended by someone giving a token gift.

Surely, you’ve been brought up to say ‘thank you’ and accept with grace.

If you don’t like something, pass it onto someone who will and make their day.

I’m not a drinker, have never used olive oil and dislike smelly cheese. But if anyone was kind enough to give me a gift, I would always show appreciation.

OP you sound lovely and I’m sure your giftee will be grateful for your sentiments.

Thank you, I hope so!

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DonnaSueWeloveyou · 12/05/2025 08:35

CottageGoblin · 11/05/2025 13:49

Prosecco is a great gift if you know the recipient definitely drinks (which OP has said is the case)
Cremant and champagne are also decent choices for a gift.

white or red wine can be tricky, as not everyone likes ALL kinds of white or red etc.

Cheese and olive oil ARE good gifts but are a little bit more dependent on someone being a foodie and appropriate storage.

I think it’s fine to say “I don’t like Prosecco etc” but as a one off gift, it’s completely fine. Gifts don’t always have to be non generic or extremely thoughtful or one of a kind. That’s not why we give gifts

Thank you!

I love your username by the way!

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DonnaSueWeloveyou · 12/05/2025 08:38

Flossingisforteeth · 11/05/2025 19:33

Oh, I hope so otherwise my friends and I have been giving each terrible gifts for years!

LOL!

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DonnaSueWeloveyou · 12/05/2025 08:39

Mumtobabyhavoc · 11/05/2025 19:39

My go to gift is a bottle of cheap but cheerful, a wedge of nice brie, a good baguette, a punnet of strawberries and a nice bit of chocolate with a thank you card.

Sounds lovely, but would be too much for this situation.

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Delatron · 12/05/2025 08:40

Gosh the OP asked for help. I don’t think anyone is saying they are better than anyone else by giving her a few other suggestions such as Cremant or Cava. I only discovered Cremant a few years ago - it’s delicious, less sugary than Prosecco but a similar price point.

I also think it’s helpful to point out that Prosecco has fallen slightly out of fashion (not that it matters really) due to its over popularity. However, any gift is thoughtful and I’m sure the recipient would always be grateful. The OP asked and quite a few people mentioned other ideas. If she wants to stick to Prosecco then I’m sure that will be well received.

Plumedenom · 12/05/2025 08:48

hopsalong · 10/05/2025 21:46

Not in my book. Find it a sad gift. No real thought, and if I have to drink it I spend the whole time thinking how frothy and sweet and flavourless it is. You can buy much better white wine for the same price. Or just do it properly and get a bottle of champagne. The Waitrose own brand one is good and about £25, less when they have a sale. Champagne is always a brilliant gift.

Or get a nice box of chocolates.

What are you drinking? If it is sweet, it is not real prosecco. Choose one labelled Conegliano Valdobbiadene Superiore Prosecco DOCG. Decent prosecco is dry and some are very dry. Clearly in the UK there are wine trends, and prosecco is going out of fashion. What people really mean is they have been drinking the same drink for years and they are bored of it. Fair enough, buy a bottle of Franciacorta if you want bubbles, buy Cremant if you are sick of Italian wine, buy a nice bottle of Amarone and never look back at white wine....but for goodness sake, there is no need to disparage every prosecco ever made. It makes you seem pretty ignorant about wine.

Delatron · 12/05/2025 08:52

I am not doubting there are some very good Proseccos and we’ve all been drinking the crap versions. You have to be pretty knowledgeable to get a good one I think. So it’s a bit risky for me. Whereas I tend to like most Cremants.

It’s a bit like when Chardonnay went out of fashion as we were all drinking the crap Australian ones when actually there are some very lovely Chardonnays out there.

Ridingthespringwave · 12/05/2025 09:02

I have to say it’s really horrible when people accuse you of snobbery if you don’t really like the cheap supermarket Prosecco (only saying that as I have had some of the expensive drier stuff and liked it a lot more). I normally just say a cheery thank you for it and either regift it or open it for everyone and I will drink it myself but not enjoy it much, but I appreciate the thought. But I DID tell my mother as she had developed a habit of buying it for me for celebrations, and I suggested she get cava or cremant instead as I like both. She was fine with that but my sister has taken it as an insult against her and now produces pink sweet prosecco on every possible occasion with barbed comments about how it all tastes the same to her and she’s not a snob. It’s just a drink and I don’t have a sweet tooth. It’s not a moral judgement on anyone who likes it. There are various grapes I don’t like and I don’t think expressing an opinion on those draws this level of defensiveness, although when chardonnay was hugely popular, it probably would have done.

Anyway, it’s fine as a gift. Like anything else you give to someone you don’t know hugely well, it might not be to their taste but it’s easily regifted or shared with others. Cremant and champagne aren’t to everyone’s tastes either, and some wine drinkers dislike anything fizzy. Just pick one and I’m sure the thought will count.

Plumedenom · 12/05/2025 09:06

Letsummercommence · 11/05/2025 19:52

Sorry but this is affectation . Every country has its own fizz made with specified grapes in specified regions. Prosecco, Cava, Cremant are all good quality, decent fizz made in a traditional method ( as opposed to being cheap wine with bubbles added Lambrusco style)
Or there are New World bubbles .

You couldn’t guess which of them anyone would prefer and quality wise they are on par.

Prosecco does not use the traditional method, it uses the Charmat/tank method, which makes it fruiter and fresher. If you want an italian wine that uses the traditional method but is fruiter than champagne, then you need to buy franciacorta. By this point we are wildly off topic and in reality, most people would be happy to drink anything!

Plumedenom · 12/05/2025 09:09

Delatron · 12/05/2025 08:52

I am not doubting there are some very good Proseccos and we’ve all been drinking the crap versions. You have to be pretty knowledgeable to get a good one I think. So it’s a bit risky for me. Whereas I tend to like most Cremants.

It’s a bit like when Chardonnay went out of fashion as we were all drinking the crap Australian ones when actually there are some very lovely Chardonnays out there.

Edited

Let me put it this way....if you are paying 8-10 pounds, it is not a very good prosecco, as I live in Italy and even for me a decent prosecco is 8-9 euros a bottle in the supermarket.

Delatron · 12/05/2025 09:14

Plumedenom · 12/05/2025 09:09

Let me put it this way....if you are paying 8-10 pounds, it is not a very good prosecco, as I live in Italy and even for me a decent prosecco is 8-9 euros a bottle in the supermarket.

Yes I agree. For that price point there are other options.

getahhtmapub · 12/05/2025 21:37

I don’t like Prosecco much but I would not be offended (who the hell is offended by a drinkable gift?) or disappointed with it as a gift. It’s certainly not undrinkable and I’m a bit of wine snob. I would accept with grace and I’d happily drink it as it comes or as a Aperol Spritz or I’d keep for a garden party/emergency wine situation.

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