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Would you claim csa after 15 years?

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101hiccups · 10/05/2025 15:22

Would you claim csa in the situation. Dd is coming up 15. There has not been any contact with her father since i was pregnant. She has never met him.

He is married with a child. I wouldn't want to course any upset .

Dd tried to contact him via Facebook 3 times over the past year. No reply.

OP posts:
HateThese4Leggedbeasts · 12/05/2025 07:27

Yes I would claim.

Sunshineandgrapefruit · 12/05/2025 07:41

Be careful. He may start to interfere in your life. I would rather have freedom from that.

NewMrsF · 12/05/2025 11:05

Sunshineandgrapefruit · 12/05/2025 07:41

Be careful. He may start to interfere in your life. I would rather have freedom from that.

CMS don’t pass on your details so if she doesn’t want any contact with him she doesn’t have to

GoodCharl · 12/05/2025 11:24

I wonder if this will cause a lot of upset if hes not been truthful to his current family? It might be a shock tbh. I do think you should claim, should gave done it 15 years ago. But the fact hes ignored DD from fb contact suggests hes keeping it hidden

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