When does the pain and sadness end

[mumoftwoboys321]

Recently come out of a long term relationship that I thought was good and solid only to find out he was cheating on me for months
trying my best to find a way forward where it doesn’t play on my mind constantly but really struggling anyone have any suggestions on ways to put one’s self back together and get over the heartbreak

Keep busy. Don't sit and dwell. Look after your health. See friends, family. Do the things you've always wanted to. It will get better.