FB just reminded me that 14 years ago I had my first mastectomy. I was so worried about not being seen as a "whole " woman. I altered what I wore, bought expensive prosthesis and bras.
Now 14 years later with no boobs i can honestly say that I feel freer. I wear what I want. Also no one either notices or cares I have no boobs.
Don't dress for others, wear what makes you happy!