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Thread 23 Starmer - Reflux Remedy

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DuncinToffee · 06/05/2025 20:44

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Evenstar · 11/05/2025 15:23

@ilovesooty at least he didn’t bite the vet! One of my children loved the Mog books and there was one called Mog and the Vee Ee Tee where she ran amok at the surgery and bit the vet!

ilovesooty · 11/05/2025 15:27

Evenstar · 11/05/2025 15:23

@ilovesooty at least he didn’t bite the vet! One of my children loved the Mog books and there was one called Mog and the Vee Ee Tee where she ran amok at the surgery and bit the vet!

I suppose I should be grateful he didn't do that! However he has to go for his vaccinations and full health check at the end of the month. As he's in the Pet Club that will involve bloods. His appointment is in the afternoon and he has to starve all day. He will be Very Cross.

ilovesooty · 11/05/2025 15:30

I see the benefit bashing and unpleasant comments about mental health have caused one poster to ask for her thread to be removed. I'm not normally much in sympathy with OP s requesting that but I don't blame her. Some posters are just horrible.

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itsgettingweird · 11/05/2025 16:44

BestIsWest · 11/05/2025 10:20

I’m all for increased pay for carers, we really should be valuing the work they do much more highly. Instead they’re classed as unskilled workers (looking at you Alastair Campbell).

That’s the problem with a lot of jobs - they are seen as a vocation and therefore the pay is considerate with being unskilled.

Yet to manage medications, patients with dementia, moving and handling etc it’s a highly skilled job that it does take a certain type of person to do - but they aren’t low skilled - they just have a patient and caring personality.

itsgettingweird · 11/05/2025 16:50

MsJinks · 11/05/2025 11:00

Nearly all my mum's carers were here on a visa - and they can no longer bring dependents with them, so not sure why it would be an issue now, as I think that was a concern for people.
I am massively in favour of increasing all carers' pay - they get round it by calling it 'social' care, which to my mind is making tea, washing, etc - when mainly they're delivering/administering meds, checking and dealing with pressure sores, assisting with mobility, dealing with extremely poorly or even extremely aggressive clients etc etc. The hours, split type shifts in the community and actual appalling ,pay as you don't get paid for travel between homes, is unattractive to nearly everyone. They deserve respect, better conditions and better pay.
Direct council carers do I believe have slightly better conditions in that they might work 7am to 1pm and get paid for the full 6 hours but agency will only get pay for the times in a client's house.
Councils sub contract to agencies but without cutting corners agencies can't make enough income to run effectively- yes they should have integrity and are checked, but managing it properly is barely possible.
The council were forever telling me that my mum could have 15 minutes calls not 30, or one carer not 2, to try save cash on her contract - lot of arguing to maintain her safety and well-being. She paid btw - over £2k /month for 4 daily calls. The agency she last had were fantastic right through to the difficult end - the council had though just changed the set up and this agency lost out to be one of the council's companies as some big company from elsewhere was cheaper- I'm glad my Mum was never changed to a less caring model really.
Our council's recent proposals, alongside scrapping good local agencies (to save money) were dire and I've written to MPs and the council to no response - but I imagine it's worse for carers and clients now - so sad.
Anyway, I can't imagine we will ever fill carer roles without immigration- even with pay rises it would have to be huge to attract people and then councils won't be able to pay - so what will happen? Less care available? I guess they will remain a shortage occupation in reality though.

Yes. A lot of carers are only paid for the time they are at someone’s property and caring.

So an 8 hour day could mean 6 hours pay. It’s not acceptable in my eyes.

Carers should be paid for the shift and inclusive of travel time and either be paid a good amount of expenses or have company cars. Care work is undervalued too much and that’s created this mess. As piggy said nobody aims for care work now as a career and yet it should be valued as a career the same as nursing. There’s a lot of training and responsibility.

PandoraSocks · 11/05/2025 16:58

I made the mistake of switching on LBC, where some utter fool of a caller was saying that unemployed people should be forced to take jobs as carers or lose their benefits.

I switched to radio three.

PandoraSocks · 11/05/2025 17:00

@ilovesooty Little Tennyson is a tyke!

itsgettingweird · 11/05/2025 17:18

ilovesooty · 11/05/2025 15:30

I see the benefit bashing and unpleasant comments about mental health have caused one poster to ask for her thread to be removed. I'm not normally much in sympathy with OP s requesting that but I don't blame her. Some posters are just horrible.

I think I know which one you mean. The OP was taking everything on board and thanking posters despite some being extremely rude and querying everything and almost felt like they were trying to catch her out.

Notonthestairs · 11/05/2025 17:39

PandoraSocks · 11/05/2025 16:58

I made the mistake of switching on LBC, where some utter fool of a caller was saying that unemployed people should be forced to take jobs as carers or lose their benefits.

I switched to radio three.

I see this trotted out a lot on MN.

Care work treated as a punishment.

Saucery · 11/05/2025 17:51

Notonthestairs · 11/05/2025 17:39

I see this trotted out a lot on MN.

Care work treated as a punishment.

Cos it’s ’low skilled’. All ‘low skilled’ workers should go on strike, all at once and we’ll see how much difference that makes across the country. No care work, no bins emptied, no service in shops, cafes or restaurants, no TAs in the classroom inc 1:1s…….

itsgettingweird · 11/05/2025 18:16

Notonthestairs · 11/05/2025 17:39

I see this trotted out a lot on MN.

Care work treated as a punishment.

Yes it pisses me off more than most things.

It just solidifies people opinions that it’s an unskilled job for people who can’t do anything else.

when the reality is it takes a really special person to care for someone else’s loved one as if they are their own.

Piggywaspushed · 11/05/2025 18:20

PandoraSocks · 11/05/2025 16:58

I made the mistake of switching on LBC, where some utter fool of a caller was saying that unemployed people should be forced to take jobs as carers or lose their benefits.

I switched to radio three.

I'm pretty sure I saw this as an OP yesterday, except it was 'volunteering'.

BestIsWest · 11/05/2025 19:05

Yes I saw that too and swiftly ignored.

itsgettingweird · 11/05/2025 19:44

Some sort of government funded volunteering scheme wouldn’t be a bad thing.

but it would be to gain experience - so maybe 6 months of volunteering where you earn a UC/ job seekers top up. Support people to take a different career path or get into work.

But don’t punish those who can’t work into forced free labour or labour you think is beneath you.

PandoraSocks · 11/05/2025 20:08

BestIsWest · 11/05/2025 19:05

Yes I saw that too and swiftly ignored.

I am glad I didn't see that. Might have been banned.l!

Alexandra2001 · 12/05/2025 07:46

DuncinToffee · 11/05/2025 10:28

The unskilled worker label is so damaging

Yep just listened to Chris Philp dong the same on R4, "They need just a short amount of training..."

Thats BS, my DD did care work whilst at Uni, she did the 2 weeks online and shadowing stuff but it was probably 6 months in before she could handle most of situations, they issue prescrip meds, have to be able to spot infections, confusion, work with physio's and OTs and have a great dela of empathy, something that cannot be "trained"

Salaries need around a £2 per hour up lift, people leave to work in a pub or a supermarket but its considered womens work, so that wont happen.

Perhaps a Social Care collective insurance scheme, all pay in, regardless of whether we claim or not.

This has been suggested before but no one will do it :(

BIossomtoes · 12/05/2025 08:27

After seeing what happened to Theresa May it’s not really surprising that no political party will go anywhere near it. The backlash over WFA is bad enough - and that’s just £150. Everyone wants reform until it affects them, just watch all those people who want NI extended to pensioners change their minds when they reach pension age. I think it’s a good idea but it would be political suicide.

Alexandra2001 · 12/05/2025 08:51

BIossomtoes · 12/05/2025 08:27

After seeing what happened to Theresa May it’s not really surprising that no political party will go anywhere near it. The backlash over WFA is bad enough - and that’s just £150. Everyone wants reform until it affects them, just watch all those people who want NI extended to pensioners change their minds when they reach pension age. I think it’s a good idea but it would be political suicide.

Well yes that may be so but the current situation is causing great suffering to the elderly and others who need SC.

I think a guaranteed scheme that means peoples houses will not be sold to pay for care could work & been seen as a positive, whether Starmer could market it as such, is another matter!!

WFA was just plain stupid, having a cut off of around 11k for additional help was never going to work... putting pensions into IHT has not caused similar problems for the Govt but is a significant increase in death duties... why? because it affects only the better off.

A scheme where we all participate, inc those on benefits, a nominal amount, is the way forward... obviously imho!!

bombastix · 12/05/2025 09:02

Just watched the immigration press conference with the PM. Quite an assured performance but in the end it will be about whether migration figures go done, and there is less competition for jobs.

I did like the argument that the idea that migration equals economic growth has been tested to destruction; contrary to all the Treasury ideals it’s clearly not done anything of the kind over the last five years.

The thing with Starmer is that message cutting through. The anxiety making “barbarians are at the gate” narrative of Reform definitely does

Alexandra2001 · 12/05/2025 09:08

The problem Labour have is this speech will be seen as a response to Reform, so Reform Lite!

Should have been announced earlier.

Also, without changes to how growth is calculated ie migration automatically increases growth, the incentive is to have more and more, not less.

LlynTegid · 12/05/2025 09:10

I agree, the headline figure on net migration is really all that Labour will be judged on.

DuncinToffee · 12/05/2025 09:11

Immigration is already falling, down a third in 2024.

The DM is already showing that Labour's anti immigration rhetoric won't make the slightest difference.

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bombastix · 12/05/2025 09:12

Yes the timing is poor, agree.

The Treasury was mentioned by a journalist as being the source of “migration equals growth”. They have made this argument to every PM since Blair, because this was cheaper than training up UK workers. Starmer is the first PM in my lifetime to have rejected it. If this comes with improved training and working conditions for my fellows then I will be very pleased.

Last one remains to be seen, of course.

Alexandra2001 · 12/05/2025 09:16

The Mail will never be happy with Labour....

Yep headline figure is all that matters, i'm surprised Labour don't make more of the Tory policies on migration... you can bet they would in Starmers position.

The problem is, Labour cannot make business increase training etc etc there seems to be a belief that UK workers are lazy and foreign ones are not... this is nonsense of course but will business improve their home grown training and start giving people already here, a chance?

bombastix · 12/05/2025 09:20

I think that is the point. Business will not have this release valve.

If UK citizens have employment and better working conditions then Reform will crumble. People who are making reasonable money are not usually obsessive about others coming to the UK. People with insecure employment, low wages and competing against new entrants are. It’s these people who are new Reform voters.

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