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Thread 23 Starmer - Reflux Remedy

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DuncinToffee · 06/05/2025 20:44

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dontcallmelen · 09/05/2025 15:42

Wars cast long shadows
my parents were war babies, my paternal grandfather did join up have no idea what regiment or where as it wasn’t really spoken about
My mums two older brothers fought one came back one died in North Africa not sure about my maternal grandfather he died when I was about two.

itsgettingweird · 09/05/2025 16:01

littledrummergirls · 09/05/2025 14:38

My parents were post war babies, and with df being in the military I never heard many personal stories.
Dh grandad was on the Gosport ferry, though so quite possibly at Dunkirk.

Thank you all for sharing.

I live not far from the Gosport ferry now!
It’s still running!

Piggywaspushed · 09/05/2025 16:16

Not a military family really but my maternal grandfather was a US marine so the war wasn't over for him by some stretch.

Interested in this thread?

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rockstarshoes · 09/05/2025 16:21

My FIL was in Bomber Command! One of the lucky ones!

bentneckwine1 · 09/05/2025 16:41

My gran was born in 1920 in Scotland and wanted to be a WRNS in the war - back then you needed your dad’s permission to join and he said no.
He got her war work instead- sewing hammocks for sailors.

My grandad was a flying boat pilot who never talked about the war- until I was at secondary school doing history and he let me record him talking about the war.

They got married after the war

Saucery · 09/05/2025 17:04

Thank you for all your personal stories about relatives who had a role in WW2 Flowers

I had one Grandad who worked in a protected occupation in the NW and one who fought in North Africa. The latter never really spoke about his service, apart from one or two lighthearted stories. One Granny made parts for Lancaster Bombers after the factory she worked in was diverted from the mundane household objects it produced.
We have been showing the children at school old photographs of VE Day celebrations and asking telling them age appropriate things about what it must have been like. They have been very thoughtful and sensible at what can be a very <ahem> excitable time of year with SATs and trips and fine weather etc.

Spandauer · 09/05/2025 17:43

My DF was in the navy in WW2. I believe it was an aircraft carrier in the Med. I know he went to Alexandria. He was an engineer and chief petty officer. My DM joined up as soon as she was 18 (1943) - in the WAAFs based in Prestwick Airport in Scotland on communications/teleprinters and was involved in the D-day stuff as it was an airbase for allied forces.

LittleBowSheep · 09/05/2025 18:59

cardibach · 09/05/2025 11:33

My dad was a Radar Technician in the RAF, served mainly in North Africa and Palestine. He only really talked about the camaraderie and funny moments, but I’m sure it was a difficult time. He was away from home for the whole 5 years which must have been hard on his parents too. He’d had a tough childhood anyway, in a mining village in South Wales (born 1921 so the whole general strike etc). Despite being a grammar school boy he had to leave school at 14 due to financial hardship and went to live in a chapel boys’ home in London where he worked as a bicycle delivery boy for a greengrocer. The RAF recognised he was quite clever and trained him in radar, then his CO recommended him for teacher training in his discharge papers and he never looked back. Totally changed his life and prospects.
He died a few days short of his 97th birthday.

Following on from my previous post, my Dad joined RAF in North Africa at RAF Blida. He later trained as a Radar Technician after the war.

cardibach · 09/05/2025 19:08

LittleBowSheep · 09/05/2025 18:59

Following on from my previous post, my Dad joined RAF in North Africa at RAF Blida. He later trained as a Radar Technician after the war.

If he’d done it during, he could have been trained by my dad…his ability in training recruits was how he got the teacher training recommendation.

LittleBowSheep · 09/05/2025 19:47

cardibach · 09/05/2025 19:08

If he’d done it during, he could have been trained by my dad…his ability in training recruits was how he got the teacher training recommendation.

It was definitely after the war. My Dad couldn't speak a word of English when he joined but could speak many other languages which is why the RAF took him in. He learnt English after the war and pestered them relentlessly to re-muster to Radar Technician.

littledrummergirls · 09/05/2025 20:27

My df was slightly behind yours, and army rather than airforce, but he worked with cymbeline radar.

Slightly outing, I was recently given a treadle singer sewing machine in good working order. It had been in their family since new, and used in the first world war for making uniforms for the troops. In the second world war, they used it to turn curtains from bombed out houses into children's clothes. I feel very fortunate to be the current caretaker of a small piece of history.

PickAChew · 09/05/2025 21:56

littledrummergirls · 09/05/2025 20:27

My df was slightly behind yours, and army rather than airforce, but he worked with cymbeline radar.

Slightly outing, I was recently given a treadle singer sewing machine in good working order. It had been in their family since new, and used in the first world war for making uniforms for the troops. In the second world war, they used it to turn curtains from bombed out houses into children's clothes. I feel very fortunate to be the current caretaker of a small piece of history.

Those machines are still in demand, in good condition, as they sew anything!

placemats · 10/05/2025 08:44

PandoraSocks · 09/05/2025 11:06

Agree, such moving stories. Thanks everyone for sharing. ❤️

I agree and am just catching up with them all.

DuncinToffee · 10/05/2025 10:07

A stark reminder that wars have not ended

🇫🇷🇬🇧🇩🇪🇵🇱🇺🇦🇺🇸

Macron, Tusk, Starmer and Merz issued a joint statement in which they claim that their trip to Ukraine has a joint message with the United States to the Kremlin - to agree to a complete ceasefire lasting 30 days without preconditions.

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Willowkins · 10/05/2025 15:01

My Mum and Dad both lived in London. Mum was evacuated during the Blitz but Dad was a bit older so stayed behind.
He told us the story of how one night he could hear the explosions getting closer and closer. The streets either side of his were hit but his was spared.
He was called up in 1943 and fought in the brutal Battle of Monte Cassino. Some of his friends died right next to him
He probably had PTSD, which explains so much of how he was, but it was not understood at that time.

cardibach · 10/05/2025 16:42

Who do they think they are? Bannon says "It is shocking to me that a guy could be selected to be the Pope that had had the Twitter feed and the statements he's had against American senior politicians," and says we should ‘expect friction’ between the Pope and Trump.
I mean…I don’t even know where to start with that.
Maga says Pope Leo may be American, but he's not 'America first' www.bbc.com/news/articles/clyglw20lg2o

DuncinToffee · 10/05/2025 17:26

Pakistan is saying that the UK Foreign Secretary, David Lammy, played a key role in the ceasefire process."

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Saucery · 10/05/2025 17:40

Good luck going up against the Catholic Church, 🙄

itsgettingweird · 10/05/2025 17:51

DuncinToffee · 10/05/2025 17:26

Pakistan is saying that the UK Foreign Secretary, David Lammy, played a key role in the ceasefire process."

That’s good. And even better it’s been posted world wide!

PandoraSocks · 10/05/2025 17:53

DuncinToffee · 10/05/2025 17:26

Pakistan is saying that the UK Foreign Secretary, David Lammy, played a key role in the ceasefire process."

Oh, he'll be ridiculed by certain people as usual.

Rummly · 10/05/2025 17:54

PandoraSocks · 10/05/2025 17:53

Oh, he'll be ridiculed by certain people as usual.

Happy to oblige.

Saucery · 10/05/2025 17:55

He’s a pretty good Foreign Secretary. I think you have to be quietly tough but surface emollient and he appears to have mastered that.

LlynTegid · 10/05/2025 17:55

A great uncle was a WW2 submarine commander, who died at sea and is remembered on the Portsmouth War Memorial. Went there for the 11 November commemoration three years ago, found his name.

PandoraSocks · 10/05/2025 17:55

Ceasefire broken already it seems. That will be Lammy's fault I guess.

Saucery · 10/05/2025 17:59

PandoraSocks · 10/05/2025 17:55

Ceasefire broken already it seems. That will be Lammy's fault I guess.

Of course. But critics will not be able to name anyone who could have done it better.