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Anyone else gutted about reform ? Feels like it’s going to turn very trump here

218 replies

ShrunkInTheWashAgain · 03/05/2025 07:19

In this country soon

OP posts:
PandoraSocks · 03/05/2025 13:19

sparrowflewdown · 03/05/2025 13:03

I am happy that Reform have made gains across the country.

They have won a few hundred council seats. It is very little in the wider scheme of things- for example, the greens have a couple of hundred seats more across the UK than Reform. Plus the turn out was very low.

Reform has a long way to go, despite Farage's crowing. It may be that they go on to more success, but it is not a given by any means.

Allseeingallknowing · 03/05/2025 13:22

PandoraSocks · 03/05/2025 13:19

They have won a few hundred council seats. It is very little in the wider scheme of things- for example, the greens have a couple of hundred seats more across the UK than Reform. Plus the turn out was very low.

Reform has a long way to go, despite Farage's crowing. It may be that they go on to more success, but it is not a given by any means.

Edited

Whether you like Reform or not, there’s no doubt that this victory is of seismic proportions, no matter how much people play it down!

PandoraSocks · 03/05/2025 13:30

Allseeingallknowing · 03/05/2025 13:22

Whether you like Reform or not, there’s no doubt that this victory is of seismic proportions, no matter how much people play it down!

IMHO the only thing seismic event right now is the inflation of Farage's ego!

We won't know for a few years yet whether this truly is a seismic event in British politics. I obviously hope it is a blip. Next year's elections might give some sort of additional pointer.

EasternEcho · 03/05/2025 13:37

lljkk · 03/05/2025 08:39

When was there a period when "The country was working" ?
How did you know it was working, and who was it "working" for?

Genuine question.

1940s & 50s when there was war & rationing?
1960s when food took a high percentage of household income & "No blacks or Irish" signs were common
1970s when there were rolling power blackouts & rubbish on the streets ?
1980s when Thatcher is blamed for attacking the miners and privatising too much?
1990s when we had "Cash for Questions"
2000s .... is this the golden decade?
2010s: Austerity, anyone?
Presumably not the 2020s...

If the US is anything to go by, the nostalgia is for the time when it was ok to be openly racist.

AppUser · 03/05/2025 13:41

Flewaway · 03/05/2025 07:27

No. It’s a sign of how people feel
tje country is not working. And it’s not.

People have lost trust in political parties and rightly so. Politicians fail to talk honestly and directly, and have failed to prevent the country getting into the mess it is in. Many of these problems were preventable, or at least needed not to be this bad.

Reform is not the problem. The problem is what I have just outlined. That is what needs fixing.

Reform is not the solution either. But I suppose people are fed up and have limited other options.

Walrusdress · 03/05/2025 13:42

I am so happy, I can already feel my anxiety at what's happening to our country decreasing and I feel much more hopeful.

Nanny31 · 03/05/2025 13:45

Bloody brilliant!

TooManyCupsAndMugs · 03/05/2025 13:45

I agree they are awful but as one political commentator pointed out, they have never actually run anything before. It's far easier to shout criticism from the sidelines, so this is their big chance isn't it? RUN something, show us what they can do. I don't think they'll make a great job, if NF performance as an MP is any indication!

MrsSkylerWhite · 03/05/2025 13:47

Not really. Hopefully the next 4 years will show just how useless the councillors are in the - very few - councils where Reform have taken control.

redboxer321 · 03/05/2025 13:48

Not gutted because not surprised. Became gutted long ago. I've lost all hope for humanity.

mum2jakie · 03/05/2025 13:50

MrsSkylerWhite · 03/05/2025 13:47

Not really. Hopefully the next 4 years will show just how useless the councillors are in the - very few - councils where Reform have taken control.

Problem is, my LA is one of the guinea pig Reform authorities so we get to benefit from Reform playing at bloody politics!

Wacqui · 03/05/2025 13:50

It's more proof that people are fucking stupid, in my opinion.

tinyspiny · 03/05/2025 13:52

We are in an area where Reform have taken the county council and when I checked they won our ‘borough’ as well , I’m not surprised and I doubt it will make any great difference to me as aside from bins / roads I’m not a big user of local services but it does make you think about the mentality of the people who live around you .

GildedRage · 03/05/2025 13:55

@SilverButton you need to YouTube Marc Carneys first press conference (yesterday) he’s presenting himself as very centrist vs “left”.
Trumps influence wasn’t a left right issue it was a request for a calm strong presence. The Conservative Party’s leader although presenting great ideas is too volatile and aggressive (like a small yappy dog) and not the right personality to take on Trump.
The vote was for Marc Carney not the party which recognizing the strong conservative appeal have totally shifted from the left.

JunkShopper · 03/05/2025 14:02

BeNiceWhenItsFinished · 03/05/2025 13:18

And I thought it was just the US that was full of fuckwits.

Reform are a single issue party who just swept the board in elections for county councils - a level of government that has no power whatsoever to do anything about that issue.

That tells you all you need to know about how fuckwitted our own home grown fuckwits are.

anyolddinosaur · 03/05/2025 14:02

@frozendaisy You really dont get it. Yes saved as much for old age as anyone who was on low wage could do. Therefore not eligible for pension credit or winter fuel allowance as marginally above the cut off and equity release has already been used to some extent - and that is generally a mistake. Too proud to accept help from kids if offered, you cant force help onto someone.

There are people living on 50p above pension credit levels because of their past savings but you are full of bitterness because they own a house - by house sharing. Maybe you should try that.

MrsSkylerWhite · 03/05/2025 14:07

Allseeingallknowing · 03/05/2025 13:22

Whether you like Reform or not, there’s no doubt that this victory is of seismic proportions, no matter how much people play it down!

It has 8 councils. There are 317 in England. Not what I’d describe as seismic.

MrsSkylerWhite · 03/05/2025 14:08

mum2jakie · 03/05/2025 13:50

Problem is, my LA is one of the guinea pig Reform authorities so we get to benefit from Reform playing at bloody politics!

Sorry. Hopefully your neighbours will see sense in the next few years.

TheHerboriste · 03/05/2025 14:08

Shudacudawuda · 03/05/2025 08:07

People are just desperate for change, can't blame them for that.
If you are OK with the status quo then you're in a more privileged position than most.
I don't think for one second that Reform hold the answers, but it might make people sit up and listen which is a good thing.

The trouble is that like trump, they can do permanent damage very quickly.

Neemie · 03/05/2025 14:12

I am very worried about it but I’m not surprised. Everyone feels poor and miserable and they are looking for something to make them feel better. There is a lot of po-faced lecturing from wealthy middle class politicians which goes down like a lead balloon. Reform are blaming foreigners which is a strategy that is popular the world over.

Fleetheart · 03/05/2025 14:12

LemonWaffle · 03/05/2025 08:26

No, not really OP. I doubt many people think they're particularly great candidates - the whole thing was a protest vote. In my area we have a labour run council and they are useless. Really terrible - schoolchildren could run a better council.

The action now for anyone who is genuinely concerned is to make Labour (or whoever your preferred political party is!) start listening to people and find out why they are voting Reform. They will not all be racists or whatever else they're called here. I imagine most of them are just normal people seeing their public services run into the ground by incompetent councils.

This is a wake up call. Labour et al should ignore at their peril or they will suffer at the ballot box at the next GE.

this is absolutely it. Immigration is a big concern in this country and that’s why Reform do so well. People feel like they are answering the real concerns. This government needs to actually do something about some of these concerns that are affecting ordinary people. Even in leafy hertfordshire there are hotels being turned into places for asylum seekers to stay- this just upsets everyone and turns them into Reform voters! Why aren’t they tackling our immigration concerns. I’m a left leaning liberal and will never vote reform but I do see a lot of things being mishandled. Yes the Conservatives started it, but is it being addressed?

GeorgianaM · 03/05/2025 14:16

This is why people are voting for Reform -

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14669083/town-convulsed-fear-male-migrants-arrived-hotel.html

Labour is an abomination and the Conservatives are not much better, both cheeks of the same arse.

GertieLawrence · 03/05/2025 14:21

It reminds me so much of a colleague who spouted off about voting Brexit at every opportunity. “We need to stop ‘them’ coming to OUR country and using OUR NHS! The hospital is bloody full of foreign nurses and doctors from the Philippines and India too”

She lives in a three bed council property alone with her partner. Two sons in their thirties live in council properties with their partners, five kids between them with different mothers. All on benefits. All smokers. How she didn’t see the irony (or that the Philippines and India are actually not in Europe, but who the bloody hell else would want to work in our hospitals anyway) left me stunned, but this is what we are up against.

She probably believes that Farage’s plan to bat the migrant boats away to France is flawless.

HelloClouds · 03/05/2025 14:26

I blame the social media algorithms. If you click on an article or video relating to migrants you’ll be fed more and more of this stuff. So many people see the world only though the prism of social media these days. It’s so damaging and as far as I can see it’s irreversible.

Allseeingallknowing · 03/05/2025 14:27

MrsSkylerWhite · 03/05/2025 14:07

It has 8 councils. There are 317 in England. Not what I’d describe as seismic.

Over 600 councillors! There would have been more if all had held elections.