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Anyone else gutted about reform ? Feels like it’s going to turn very trump here

218 replies

ShrunkInTheWashAgain · 03/05/2025 07:19

In this country soon

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frozendaisy · 03/05/2025 10:35

anyolddinosaur · 03/05/2025 09:03

Disappointed - yes, but not surprised. When people are suffering they want to protect what they have. They dont see Labour as protecting the poor, the Tories obviously wont, hardly anyone understands what the Lib Dems are about and they dont support women, the Greens are a joke, obsessed with trans rights - so they see Farage as speaking for them. If he ever gets into power they'll soon see the difference between words and actions.

Fortunately we dont have a general election for years and anyway more of the population vote then than in council elections. Just do what you can to support the economy because if people dont see an improvement in living standards and in the NHS then Reform will continue to thrive.

@frozendaisy people can be asset rich - a house they've lived in for years - and cash poor. Downsizing isnt always as easy as you might think if it means leaving your support network. I have a relative in this position, although his house, which he cant maintain, is not so expensive that there will be a capital gains tax liability if left to children. If he had no children even a modest home attracts CGT.

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Asset rich/cash poor, but many working today have no hope of asset rich just cash poor. He wants to keep all of his house, for his children perhaps, but what none of his children can give him some fuel money or he saved nothing towards his own old age?

This is the personal clinging to everything that creates high housing costs and inequality for younger generations.

No generation after that man will get the standard of living he got, they were the very lucky generation, not their fault they did what was expected and asked of them at the time, but to not acknowledge that, to be prepared to vote for anyone as long as they get their WFA back, to me is greedy and mean towards those coming up behind them.

Release equity from your rich asset if you didn’t save for a pension.

An economy based on children inheriting a house is an economy built on sand.

Nunaluna · 03/05/2025 10:36

And I’ve also seen a massive rise in far right online content. My internet habits haven’t changed so I’m sure it’s deliberate. Only this morning an AI video of Farage in a speedboat sinking channel dinghies and the passengers drowning popped up in my newsfeed

Nunaluna · 03/05/2025 10:37

frozendaisy · 03/05/2025 10:35

Asset rich/cash poor, but many working today have no hope of asset rich just cash poor. He wants to keep all of his house, for his children perhaps, but what none of his children can give him some fuel money or he saved nothing towards his own old age?

This is the personal clinging to everything that creates high housing costs and inequality for younger generations.

No generation after that man will get the standard of living he got, they were the very lucky generation, not their fault they did what was expected and asked of them at the time, but to not acknowledge that, to be prepared to vote for anyone as long as they get their WFA back, to me is greedy and mean towards those coming up behind them.

Release equity from your rich asset if you didn’t save for a pension.

An economy based on children inheriting a house is an economy built on sand.

Agree completely. People moan about disrespecting the elderly but they show v little concern for anyone else, and have pulled up the drawbridge behind them

frozendaisy · 03/05/2025 10:40

Nunaluna · 03/05/2025 10:36

And I’ve also seen a massive rise in far right online content. My internet habits haven’t changed so I’m sure it’s deliberate. Only this morning an AI video of Farage in a speedboat sinking channel dinghies and the passengers drowning popped up in my newsfeed

And he will be out on Thursday, in a pub, surrounded by his security, waving a pint around with a Union Jack tie thinking he’s the reincarnation of Churchill.

Onwardsandupwards2025 · 03/05/2025 10:42

People are tired of uncontrolled immigration - this is what happens when other parties refuse to do anything about it. Blokes on boats with iPhones, coming from places where there is no war/famine. Men claiming to be teenagers so they can’t be sent back and are sent to a British school with full beards and eye wrinkles 😂 my OH is a teacher in an inner city secondary. Criminals let in to commit crime here. We have enough of our own criminals, we don’t need more!

Insertfootnote · 03/05/2025 10:43

No. It's brilliant.

frozendaisy · 03/05/2025 10:45

Insertfootnote · 03/05/2025 10:43

No. It's brilliant.

Ok fair enough let’s see how brilliant these Reform led councils are.

yodoho · 03/05/2025 10:46

frozendaisy · 03/05/2025 08:27

If you try and change too much, too quickly the financial markets get jittery and investment stops because of uncertainty.

Look what is going on with the New York stock exchange with Trump adding, subtracting tariffs willy nilly, thinking he can play big man role play with the World Economy.

People who have investments can play these uncertainties and still remain wealthy whilst many little peoples pensions tank.

Who do Reform benefit?

There is a meanness threading through our society right now, a oneupmanship, where people will be happier as long as they have more than groups of people they don’t like.

The young males are veering towards the right politically the young females to the left, the chasm opening between them will create a complex social situation.

There is a lack of compassion with Reform that’s depressing.

But they are not in power (yet maybe) even though people might be acting like they are.

I cannot deny that I am relieved we only have x4 years left for both our teens to get to the end of education (up to 18), and reassured a bit, that we have family private health insurance covered for at least 10. I also know feeling like this doesn’t bode well for a potential future.

Because if Reform get into power you can bet your husband’s car that they won’t take the NHS or teaching staff with them.

Sunny uplands they are not.

Very well said. I would add to the oneupmanship that people will also cut off their noses to spite their faces.

They’re ignoring their crumbling economic position but will be gleeful if they can “send them back” or stick the boot into somewone else, because of course that will lead to no more social issues at all and the “extra money” will be redistributed fairly among society (sarcasm)

dogcatkitten · 03/05/2025 10:46

Hopefully it's just a protest vote and people will be more reflective at the next general election. In some ways I agree with shaking the tree and see what falls out. The main parties have been much of a muchness for years. Can anyone tell Labour policies from Conservative ones? Perhaps they will all get the wake up call they need and present some good solid policies that address people's concerns about the country.

driedgrasses · 03/05/2025 10:47

Insertfootnote · 03/05/2025 10:43

No. It's brilliant.

Can you explain to me how it's 'brilliant'? These people have no experience, no/low education, are probably racist and have no idea about how local government actually works.

Can you explain how these are positives and what do you think will happen?

queenofwandss · 03/05/2025 10:53

Reform are a symptom but not the cause. Labour need to pivot sharpish.
If they had stepped aside and worked together with others, as the left parties did in France to stop Le Pen, then Reform wouldn’t have won in my area.

I have always voted, even in “minor” elections, but am at a loss now as to who represents me.

If I could leave the country then I would!

Insertfootnote · 03/05/2025 10:53

driedgrasses · 03/05/2025 10:47

Can you explain to me how it's 'brilliant'? These people have no experience, no/low education, are probably racist and have no idea about how local government actually works.

Can you explain how these are positives and what do you think will happen?

How do you know they are all uneducated or inexperienced? You sound very bigoted. People who didn't go to posh school or who haven't worked in government before are all allowed to participate in local affairs you know. These people have been democratically voted in because the electorate are fed up with open borders among many things. Maybe try to have some insight into why people might have a different view from you rather than throwing around lazy accusations of 'racism'.

dogcatkitten · 03/05/2025 10:56

It's the continual drip feed of nastiness that you can't escape, and you can't help but be influenced by it in some way. Our brains are wired to accept things we hear repeated and repeated. A not so subtle form of brainwashing. Keep rebuffing it or they win. Very often when they tell you about some horrific thing that 'proves' their conspiracies, if you actually look it up they are pretty wide of the truth, but many people just accept it as written. I have often added a post with the actual facts with links. But then you see exactly the same rubbish posted by someone else somewhere else...

Waitingforspring77 · 03/05/2025 11:09

Nope, I'm chuffed they got in 😁

scalt · 03/05/2025 11:35

dogcatkitten · 03/05/2025 10:56

It's the continual drip feed of nastiness that you can't escape, and you can't help but be influenced by it in some way. Our brains are wired to accept things we hear repeated and repeated. A not so subtle form of brainwashing. Keep rebuffing it or they win. Very often when they tell you about some horrific thing that 'proves' their conspiracies, if you actually look it up they are pretty wide of the truth, but many people just accept it as written. I have often added a post with the actual facts with links. But then you see exactly the same rubbish posted by someone else somewhere else...

This. Just like the constant drip drip drip of Covid propaganda. “People will die. People will die. Virus. Variant. Vaccine. Hands face space. Don’t kill granny. People are dying. Superheroes wear masks, do you?”

marmaladeandpeanutbutter · 03/05/2025 11:38

The drop feed of nastiness indeed-don’t forget that Reform and their ilk will post it anonymously to stir up hatred. Don’t be manipulated by them.

Fundays12 · 03/05/2025 12:08

lljkk · 03/05/2025 08:41

People have voted for reform because they are unhappy and don't feel the government are listening to them.

When did the national govt (ever) do a good job at making people happy, and listen to the people (well)?

I don't think recent govts are different (worse). I reckon voter expectations have changed.

They haven't but there is a huge unrest in parts of the country just now.

Mass immigration with no homes available for people already living in those areas has caused massive problems and no real action about how to deal with it plus the removal of pensioner cold weather payment and I think some of this is a protest vote.

Ilovetowander · 03/05/2025 12:16

I think it's an indication of disappointment and dissatisfaction with the main parties. We have 14 years of Tory government which started with austerity which was grim followed by some relatively good times, followed by covid and then a mess. We had the promise of a Labour party who would change things, and stick to their promises and very quickly they have done things that they said they wouldn't and gone back on promises they made. I don't blame people voting for Reform (we did not have elections where I live) I think saying Reform are racist and extreme right wing is quite insulting. Everyone is entitled to their vote and deriding such a large percentage of the population is not helpful, I think just as in Brexit there are many who do not admit to voting for Reform due to such negative comments and that isn't right.

EasternStandard · 03/05/2025 12:17

I thought Labour would lead to increase or a win for Reform so not a surprise rn

BurntBroccoli · 03/05/2025 12:38

SilverButton · 03/05/2025 08:23

The thing I don't understand is that the anti-Trump effect pushed Canada to the left in the recent elections and seems expected to do the same in Australia. Why didn't the same thing happen here?

I think the Trump stuff has happened to recently. The cult of Reform took off in 2015 and massively so since last July (when Labour got in).

Anyone on local Facebook groups could see what was happening.

BurntBroccoli · 03/05/2025 12:52

Nunaluna · 03/05/2025 10:36

And I’ve also seen a massive rise in far right online content. My internet habits haven’t changed so I’m sure it’s deliberate. Only this morning an AI video of Farage in a speedboat sinking channel dinghies and the passengers drowning popped up in my newsfeed

This is most definitely happening. There is money being pushed into this and it’s terrifying.

sparrowflewdown · 03/05/2025 13:03

I am happy that Reform have made gains across the country.

ChompandaGrazia · 03/05/2025 13:06

sparrowflewdown · 03/05/2025 13:03

I am happy that Reform have made gains across the country.

Why? What is it you hope they will do?

EasternStandard · 03/05/2025 13:10

SilverButton · 03/05/2025 08:23

The thing I don't understand is that the anti-Trump effect pushed Canada to the left in the recent elections and seems expected to do the same in Australia. Why didn't the same thing happen here?

Fair question. It’s because we have a different issue to Canada and Aus. The former wants to retaliate on tariffs, we haven’t, Labour want a deal and Aus has resolved the trafficking issue already.

And other Labour policies probably.

BeNiceWhenItsFinished · 03/05/2025 13:18

And I thought it was just the US that was full of fuckwits.