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One word in English you don't like

171 replies

Alondra · 28/04/2025 12:46

Mine is "appropriately". It's commonly used by people explaining their thinking or belief, without giving consideration that the word has different meaning to millions of people with different cultures around the world.

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wordywitch · 28/04/2025 16:34

‘Mouthfeel’ makes me want to gag, I hate it.

’Preggo’ for a pregnant person makes me homicidal as well 😤

Inextremis · 28/04/2025 16:37

Curated, as in 'a curated ear'.

Kardamyli2 · 28/04/2025 18:03

Alondra · 28/04/2025 14:41

It's a word often refer to style. People often use it in English to judge how a woman looks/dresses/behaves by saying "she" looks appropriate. I've never seen it applied to a man.

I can honestly say I've never heard anyone say ""she" looks appropriate". Do you mean people whose first language is not English say this?

DissDissOrDiss · 28/04/2025 18:28

Yummy unless said by a parent trying to persuade a small child to eat. Uttered by anyone else, it makes me shudder and want to scream ‘you are a grown adult! Converse like one!’.

I also hate ‘we’ when saying whether someone does or does not like something. ‘We love cheese on toast’ or ‘We love telly in our house’. Speaking in one voice is nauseous.

Hollyaddy · 28/04/2025 18:32

I have many. Very intolerant 😕

Ginnel. Northern word for a small alleyway
Hollibobs
Hubby
Other half ffs
Cheeky 'anything'
Moist
We are pregnant

I'm sure I will think of more very soon

DissDissOrDiss · 28/04/2025 18:35

TheNightingalesStarling · 28/04/2025 15:54

Belly, particularly when describing pregnancy. But also when used to mean stomach to a lesser extent.

I KNEW there was a word I’d forgotten!

Belly! It’s just awful, so uncouth. I really judge when I hear or read it.

Hollyaddy · 28/04/2025 18:38

DissDissOrDiss · 28/04/2025 18:35

I KNEW there was a word I’d forgotten!

Belly! It’s just awful, so uncouth. I really judge when I hear or read it.

Oh me too. An adult saying Belly ache. Just no.Ffs you have stomach ache.

YesYesAllGood · 28/04/2025 18:48

I’m going to go for another one. ‘Cute’ when referring to a grown-up or something belonging to a grown-up. A cute guy. Cute clothes. 😣

Abracadabra12345 · 28/04/2025 19:14

Snog

Abracadabra12345 · 28/04/2025 19:17

DissDissOrDiss · 28/04/2025 18:28

Yummy unless said by a parent trying to persuade a small child to eat. Uttered by anyone else, it makes me shudder and want to scream ‘you are a grown adult! Converse like one!’.

I also hate ‘we’ when saying whether someone does or does not like something. ‘We love cheese on toast’ or ‘We love telly in our house’. Speaking in one voice is nauseous.

Re the “we” - I cringe when a couple says that while looking around in a property programme, “we don’t like…” without consultation, and not big things but tiny, when they are clearly speaking for their partner

Mistyglade · 28/04/2025 19:20

I associate moist with cake so don’t get the fuss.

Mistyglade · 28/04/2025 19:21

SlightlyJaded · 28/04/2025 16:14

Veggies
Hollibobs
Hubby
Hubster
Crimbo

Anything that sets out to make an existing word sound 'fun'

Also, hard agree with Goblet and Pamphlet

Adding 'Methinks' on the basis that anyone uses it is a first class knob.

All of these.

Mistyglade · 28/04/2025 19:23

Ethelflaedofmercia · 28/04/2025 15:21

Pussy. I think anyone uses that is a rotter.

See also panties 🤢

RipleyJones · 28/04/2025 19:28

Phlegm

Men using ‘Sir’ when talking to select other men as in a compliment. 🤢

Like - used as a filler rather than descriptor or comparator

Naice - as used on MN

Limerance - as used on MN

Indie schools - rather than private or public

Picky bits

Agree holibobs / Hubbie / hubster / moist

RipleyJones · 28/04/2025 19:30

Abracadabra12345 · 28/04/2025 19:17

Re the “we” - I cringe when a couple says that while looking around in a property programme, “we don’t like…” without consultation, and not big things but tiny, when they are clearly speaking for their partner

We got pregnant.. we had a baby 🙄🤢

DissDissOrDiss · 28/04/2025 19:33

Abracadabra12345 · 28/04/2025 19:17

Re the “we” - I cringe when a couple says that while looking around in a property programme, “we don’t like…” without consultation, and not big things but tiny, when they are clearly speaking for their partner

Completely agree. I find it both controlling and twee. Awful.

Clearinguptheclutter · 28/04/2025 19:34

Close

only in the context of it being humid though. otherwise it’s fine

Clearinguptheclutter · 28/04/2025 19:35

Abracadabra12345 · 28/04/2025 19:17

Re the “we” - I cringe when a couple says that while looking around in a property programme, “we don’t like…” without consultation, and not big things but tiny, when they are clearly speaking for their partner

Similarly when someone more senior at work says “we should do x” when she’s basically telling me what I need to do

SwimBikeRunBake · 28/04/2025 19:38

Hiddenmnetter · 28/04/2025 16:18

This is an interesting one- you’re absolutely right in the context of misogyny, but does the word as such bother you or the connotation? As in, does it bother you that “the steel mill had the foundries fired up to separate the slag from the ore?”

It's not offensive used soley in this context, but because it's been used in the news recently with regards to steelworks and the need to "let the slag run off", on some comedy panel shows this has been followed with phrases like "like in a Jilly Cooper novel" or "like a bad hen do".
It's as if it is OK and even funny to use the word in a derogatory way if it's a play on words.

IridescentRainbow · 28/04/2025 19:46

ruethewhirl · 28/04/2025 12:57

Tasty. I don’t know why but I just HATE it. Good job I’m not a food critic though, as I also detest ‘flavoursome’. 😄

I agree! Also hate hubby! And slightly different Mumsnet contributors who write ‘Ddog’ why??

LudvillasCave · 28/04/2025 19:47

pump 😖

IridescentRainbow · 28/04/2025 19:47

Also hate ‘we are pregnant’ . No, you’re not both pregnant.

AnnPerkins · 28/04/2025 19:50

Yummy

specifically when spoken by an adult 😣

StrictlyAFemaleFemale · 28/04/2025 19:51

IridescentRainbow · 28/04/2025 19:47

Also hate ‘we are pregnant’ . No, you’re not both pregnant.

Also "fell" pregnant. It's so passive - take some ownership!

I think I need to step away from the thread because I'm actually getting wound up.

LudvillasCave · 28/04/2025 19:52

RipleyJones · 28/04/2025 19:28

Phlegm

Men using ‘Sir’ when talking to select other men as in a compliment. 🤢

Like - used as a filler rather than descriptor or comparator

Naice - as used on MN

Limerance - as used on MN

Indie schools - rather than private or public

Picky bits

Agree holibobs / Hubbie / hubster / moist

Edited

Men using ‘Sir’ when talking to select other men as in a compliment. 🤢

Hahaha I have complained about this in the past, it’s so cringeworthy 😆

Also 🙄 whenever I see people earnestly discussing ‘limerence’. In 20 years, have only ever seen it used on mumsnet