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If you say “afters” to mean dessert or pudding…

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BottleBlondeMachiavelli · 26/04/2025 22:20

….where are you, your parents and/or grandparents from?

Is it a class thing, or a regionalism, or fairly neutral?

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Crinkle77 · 26/04/2025 22:22

I'm from West Lancs and say afters. My dad was born and bred in the same area but my mum was from South Wales.

BottleBlondeMachiavelli · 26/04/2025 22:24

Crinkle77 · 26/04/2025 22:22

I'm from West Lancs and say afters. My dad was born and bred in the same area but my mum was from South Wales.

Do you thinking cake from your mum or your dad?

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HouseCaptain · 26/04/2025 22:26

I think “afters” is a working class north west thing.

suburburban · 26/04/2025 22:27

dad used to say afters, from London

Mama05070704 · 26/04/2025 22:29

I was born in East London and growing up, we called it ‘afters’

BottleBlondeMachiavelli · 26/04/2025 22:31

Yes my dad said it, born in London during the war.

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Headingtowardsdivorce · 26/04/2025 22:31

We called it Afters when I was growing up. Both of my parents are from Lancashire.

Fooshufflewickjbannanapants · 26/04/2025 22:31

Yorkshire and afters here.

BottleBlondeMachiavelli · 26/04/2025 22:31

BottleBlondeMachiavelli · 26/04/2025 22:24

Do you thinking cake from your mum or your dad?

“Think it came…” is what I was trying to say.

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SmallSoupcon · 26/04/2025 22:32

From Bristol, dad Welsh. Always said afters - I didn't realise other people said pudding until I went away to uni!

Magicmonster · 26/04/2025 22:33

We said afters in the Channel Islands when I was growing up. Your post has only just made me realise we don’t say it anymore!

Bigearringsbigsmile · 26/04/2025 22:33

Liverpool
Call it afters

MustDust · 26/04/2025 22:34

Manchester. It's the dessert after your evening meal which is called tea, just to be clear.

BottleBlondeMachiavelli · 26/04/2025 22:34

That’s quite a national spread. Although no Scottish or NI cases yet.

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ChompandaGrazia · 26/04/2025 22:34

I think I said afters as a child. We didn’t have it often though. West Country. We had breakfast, lunch and supper as a further point of discussion.

BottleBlondeMachiavelli · 26/04/2025 22:34

MustDust · 26/04/2025 22:34

Manchester. It's the dessert after your evening meal which is called tea, just to be clear.

😊

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Babyonion · 26/04/2025 22:42

Yes, always called it afters.
I’m from Essex. And I guess I grew up working class.

NCTDN · 26/04/2025 22:44

Another person who had just realised we no longer say it. West Lancashire also, and we definitely have it after TEA Grin

ShamrockShenanigans · 26/04/2025 22:47

East London/Irish family here and we've always said afters.

I wouldn't say pudding unless we were having an actual pudding.

Illbefinejustbloodyfine · 26/04/2025 22:48

Afters in Sheffield.

Crinkle77 · 26/04/2025 22:52

BottleBlondeMachiavelli · 26/04/2025 22:24

Do you thinking cake from your mum or your dad?

To be honest I don't know which side of thd family it came from.

ErrolTheDragon · 26/04/2025 22:53

My parents said ‘afters’ - she was from Lancashire, he was from Yorkshire. But I think school dinners had ‘afters’ too, that was in Essex.

crossstitchingnana · 26/04/2025 22:53

From East Anglia, said “afters”. Definitely working class.

RenoDakota · 26/04/2025 22:53

Used to say afters when growing up in Norfolk.

JockyWilsonsaid · 26/04/2025 22:54

South Wales. It was afters unless we had company and then it was pudding or dessert.