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If you say “afters” to mean dessert or pudding…

189 replies

BottleBlondeMachiavelli · 26/04/2025 22:20

….where are you, your parents and/or grandparents from?

Is it a class thing, or a regionalism, or fairly neutral?

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Cattenberg · 26/04/2025 22:54

My parents say it and they both grew up in Devon. One is from a working class background, the other middle class.

TheodoraCrumpet · 26/04/2025 22:54

Scottish family. We said afters.

ElizaMulvil · 26/04/2025 22:55

Of course it's afters ( possibly dessert too I admit, at a pinch).
Pudding is a specific form of afters as in rice pudding, treacle pudding, sponge pudding etc. (long time refugee in Yorkshire from Manchester.) How can ice cream, strawberries eg be a pudding!

MrsEndeavourMorse · 26/04/2025 22:56

Afters in Sunderland although we never actually did afters in our family

DoAWheelie · 26/04/2025 22:56

I'm from Liverpool and say afters. Been here several generations.

Hotandbothered222 · 26/04/2025 22:56

After here, in Scotland. I always thought pudding was only said in England.

Scampuss · 26/04/2025 22:57

North Kent and it was afters.

Wtafdidido · 26/04/2025 22:57

NI it was always puddding

Jollyjoy · 26/04/2025 22:58

Hotandbothered222 · 26/04/2025 22:56

After here, in Scotland. I always thought pudding was only said in England.

Ive never heard ‘afters’ in Scotland and only pudding!!

Tisfortired · 26/04/2025 23:00

We say afters and we are from different areas of Greater Manchester but both very working class towns.

Phase2 · 26/04/2025 23:01

south west and always pudding (even if a yoghurt)

Wishihadanalgorithm · 26/04/2025 23:02

I was thinking about this the other day. I grew up in the West Midlands and it was always “afters” but I haven’t used the is word for years.

B0D · 26/04/2025 23:04

We always said pudding at home (never dessert) but I heard others say afters at school.

I might have to reinstate this!

mathanxiety · 26/04/2025 23:06

Wtafdidido · 26/04/2025 22:57

NI it was always puddding

Dublin, and always pudding.

soupyspoon · 26/04/2025 23:07

I say afters. From South London

Also say tea for tea. But lunch for lunch. Im half posh

DinaofCloud9 · 26/04/2025 23:08

Cheshire here and always afters.

Why are you asking?

BottleBlondeMachiavelli · 26/04/2025 23:08

ElizaMulvil · 26/04/2025 22:55

Of course it's afters ( possibly dessert too I admit, at a pinch).
Pudding is a specific form of afters as in rice pudding, treacle pudding, sponge pudding etc. (long time refugee in Yorkshire from Manchester.) How can ice cream, strawberries eg be a pudding!

Makes perfect sense to me!

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BottleBlondeMachiavelli · 26/04/2025 23:10

DinaofCloud9 · 26/04/2025 23:08

Cheshire here and always afters.

Why are you asking?

I was getting unreasonably (inwardly) irritated by DH saying “pudding” about twelve times in three minutes. (We having a debate about who was hungry and whether the fresh raspberries would last another day.)

So I started thinking about it, and our family use of “afters” and couldn’t pin it down.

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alexdgr8 · 26/04/2025 23:12

It was the only term among everyone I knew when growing up. London burbs Middlesex.
Esp at school.
We didn't have it at home except high days and holidays so no particular word for it.
I like it. It's so serviceable. Does exactly what it says.
6Self explanatory.
Bit like front room.
I love these traditional terms.

BottleBlondeMachiavelli · 26/04/2025 23:12

So those who have stopped saying “afters” do you all say “dessert” now?

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Eleph42 · 26/04/2025 23:13

Liverpool!

BottleBlondeMachiavelli · 26/04/2025 23:13

alexdgr8 · 26/04/2025 23:12

It was the only term among everyone I knew when growing up. London burbs Middlesex.
Esp at school.
We didn't have it at home except high days and holidays so no particular word for it.
I like it. It's so serviceable. Does exactly what it says.
6Self explanatory.
Bit like front room.
I love these traditional terms.

Exactly! Very serviceable.

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cariadlet · 26/04/2025 23:13

I used to say afters when I was growing up. Childhood in the Midlands but mum and dad both from South Wales.

Violinist64 · 26/04/2025 23:14

We said pudding at home or sweet if we were trying to be posh. At school dinners, it was strictly afters - Norfolk.

frecklejuice · 26/04/2025 23:15

East London and always called it afters, met my husband and moved to Kent now it’s pudding!