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How much to pay 14yo neighbour to feed cat once a day for a week while we're away?

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TropicofCapricorn · 26/04/2025 10:18

Hi, how much do you think is sensible for them?

Come in, one sachet, one scoop of biscuits, top up water. Only needs one time a day.

£20?

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TropicofCapricorn · 26/04/2025 18:14

QuiteUnbelievable · 26/04/2025 18:07

Water fountain.

Gosh this has turned out mean hasn't it.
I'd be so grateful to pay a measly 5 per day and be able to have kitty at home in her comforts....

It's okay, I can do it for £0 a day. No bother.

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Olaeverybody · 26/04/2025 18:15

I think £5 a day is reasonable and as for “organise themselves”, it does mean they have to actually have some outdoor clothes on and interrupt whatever they’re doing. Sounds like it’s sorted anyway.

Seafloral · 26/04/2025 18:15

Excellent, all sorted then.

TropicofCapricorn · 26/04/2025 18:16

Seafloral · 26/04/2025 18:05

Ah so cat can come and go front and back, not just off into the fields like you said earlier when you were so sure that's where they do their business. There's another post from a gardener complaining about cat poo in their garden, maybe you can explain the rational to them of not having a litter tray which forces cat's to go outside often in other people's gardens. I'm sure they'd have a great discussion with you.

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Not can't go out the front through the cat flap... Can just get to the porch.

That other poster isn't my neighbour.

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TropicofCapricorn · 26/04/2025 18:19

IfYouPutASausageInItItsNotAViennetta · 26/04/2025 13:25

It's not just the (lack of) distance, though; it's having to be somewhere for a certain time/period every day - presuming that your cat needs/likes the routine of having the day's food at a certain time and it can't just be at any old time that suits, otherwise Tiddles will get anxious/annoyed/hungry?

My FIL (in his retirement) used to be expected to give his DS a lift to work and back every day; then later, take and fetch his (the DS's) kids to and from school. None of those trips took all that long - and you might well say that a retired person has the whole day free to himself, with just half an hour or so taken out of all of that free time every day; however, it meant that he had to give up going out to the pub to meet his friends for a couple of pints, as he was going to be driving later. He couldn't have full days out anywhere or even do any job at home that couldn't fit in between the two daily trips. That half an hour a day massively dominated and spoiled his entire day.

I also don't get the comment asking where else a 14yo would be but at home? Surely that's the prime age for most young people to want to be out and about with their friends, going into town or doing other fun things during their free time? It's much, much older people like me who now want to be at home all the time in my free time and have no desire to be gallivanting around everywhere!!

Giving some one a lift to and from work every day is not the same as a teen walking across a drive and feeding a very easy cat once a day for 6 days. He still has the entire rest of the day to see his friends, even with this extremely time consuming task.
. But never mind. Other neighbours will do it.

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stampin · 26/04/2025 18:23

Gotta love MN. Cat's Protection will be paying you a visit soon OP.

saraclara · 26/04/2025 18:35

CurlewKate · 26/04/2025 18:05

What would you pay a grown up? That.

Does anyone pay their adult next door neighbour to pop in and feed their cat? We never have. We just brought them goodies from our holiday. But then I do favours for them too. Isn't that what neighbours do?

ilovesooty · 26/04/2025 18:54

TropicofCapricorn · 26/04/2025 17:51

So what? My cat comes and goes as it pleases...

"So what"? You really are rude. You said you didn't have a litter tray and no one you know has one. I was merely pointing out that some people do and there are reasons for that choice.

TropicofCapricorn · 26/04/2025 18:59

ilovesooty · 26/04/2025 18:54

"So what"? You really are rude. You said you didn't have a litter tray and no one you know has one. I was merely pointing out that some people do and there are reasons for that choice.

Ok, but people are making out I'm wrong and a bad cat owner etc

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MoistVonL · 26/04/2025 19:59

Ddakji · 26/04/2025 12:41

£5 a day for 5 minutes equals an hourly rate of £60 an hour. To feed the neighbour’s cat.

No wonder so many kids enter the workplace with such unreasonable expectations.

It’s not about how long it takes, it’s about the commitment, which means not going out, not sleeping over at a mates, being reliable. Checking the food is being eaten and the cat is ok.
That costs a fiver a day

“Hourly” rate is irrelevant because there is no world in which the 14 year old bounces from cat feeding job to cat feeding job getting 12 done in an hour.

Changeissmall · 26/04/2025 20:06

£30 and a giant toblerone.
Interesting responses. I initially thought £50.

I know my neighbour pays another neighbour’s 12 yr old £5 a day for watering plants when she’s away.

Ddakji · 26/04/2025 20:22

MoistVonL · 26/04/2025 19:59

It’s not about how long it takes, it’s about the commitment, which means not going out, not sleeping over at a mates, being reliable. Checking the food is being eaten and the cat is ok.
That costs a fiver a day

“Hourly” rate is irrelevant because there is no world in which the 14 year old bounces from cat feeding job to cat feeding job getting 12 done in an hour.

What? Of course you can go out or have a sleepover, what on earth are you talking about? It’s feeding a bloody cat. Stick a daily reminder in your phone, job done. If it’s an hour or two later than yesterday, so what?

Arfidisathing · 26/04/2025 20:22

Get a grip @TropicofCapricorn!

TropicofCapricorn · 26/04/2025 21:18

Arfidisathing · 26/04/2025 20:22

Get a grip @TropicofCapricorn!

I'm fine, it the people saying I'm exploiting a child, making him miss out on seeing his friends, getting him to be responsible for my entire house and saying I'm somehow neglecting my cat that need the grips!

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TropicofCapricorn · 26/04/2025 21:19

MoistVonL · 26/04/2025 19:59

It’s not about how long it takes, it’s about the commitment, which means not going out, not sleeping over at a mates, being reliable. Checking the food is being eaten and the cat is ok.
That costs a fiver a day

“Hourly” rate is irrelevant because there is no world in which the 14 year old bounces from cat feeding job to cat feeding job getting 12 done in an hour.

On what planet does spending 5 minutes putting food out for a cat mean he can't go out for the entire day or sleep over at his mates house?

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OlderGlaswegianLivingInDevon · 26/04/2025 21:26

One sachet of cat food a day, plus some dry food biscuits - no wonder cat scoffs it down in less than 3 minutes
He is starving !
I suppose cat supplements it's diet with mice etc, from the fields that he poos in...

saraclara · 26/04/2025 21:43

OlderGlaswegianLivingInDevon · 26/04/2025 21:26

One sachet of cat food a day, plus some dry food biscuits - no wonder cat scoffs it down in less than 3 minutes
He is starving !
I suppose cat supplements it's diet with mice etc, from the fields that he poos in...

What? That's exactly what my cats ate. The last of them died after 21 happy and healthy years of always available and unlimited dried food

Lookingtomakechanges · 26/04/2025 21:45

A fiver a day. It’s a responsibility and your cat is worth it.

TropicofCapricorn · 26/04/2025 21:54

OlderGlaswegianLivingInDevon · 26/04/2025 21:26

One sachet of cat food a day, plus some dry food biscuits - no wonder cat scoffs it down in less than 3 minutes
He is starving !
I suppose cat supplements it's diet with mice etc, from the fields that he poos in...

😂 they're supposed to be hungry at meal times,like we are. The cat isn't under.weight and has exactly the right amount of food.

It probably does supplement it's diet, but it's in their nature to hunt, so it probably better it eats the mouse than kills it for no reason.

So what if it poos in a field that it might catch it's food in? It's not eating the poo

People are mad on MN

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TropicofCapricorn · 26/04/2025 21:54

Lookingtomakechanges · 26/04/2025 21:45

A fiver a day. It’s a responsibility and your cat is worth it.

Nobody is getting paid anything.

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TheHerboriste · 26/04/2025 21:57

I hope that’s £20 a day, not for the whole week!

TheHerboriste · 26/04/2025 21:58

BatchCookBabe · 26/04/2025 11:32

Better to be off your rocker, than be a sour and grabby tight-fisted miser, who is prepared to use and take advantage of a teenager, by paying them barely fuck-all for looking after your pet whilst you swan off on your hols!

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This.

TheHerboriste · 26/04/2025 21:59

TropicofCapricorn · 26/04/2025 21:18

I'm fine, it the people saying I'm exploiting a child, making him miss out on seeing his friends, getting him to be responsible for my entire house and saying I'm somehow neglecting my cat that need the grips!

You are.

TropicofCapricorn · 26/04/2025 22:00

TheHerboriste · 26/04/2025 21:57

I hope that’s £20 a day, not for the whole week!

Yes, I'm going to hand over £140 to a 14 year old. You got it right. Because the job is ever so hard and really is a huge task for him. He has to walk 10m, put some food down and walk the entire 10m back home. Of course he deserves to be paid one hundred and forty British pounds for that very involved task.

Don't worry. He'll actually end up with £0. Because the other neighbour will do it instead for free.

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Lookingtomakechanges · 26/04/2025 22:01

TropicofCapricorn · 26/04/2025 18:14

It's okay, I can do it for £0 a day. No bother.

Not sure what the point of your thread was, if you don’t want or need the original question answered!