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How much to pay 14yo neighbour to feed cat once a day for a week while we're away?

308 replies

TropicofCapricorn · 26/04/2025 10:18

Hi, how much do you think is sensible for them?

Come in, one sachet, one scoop of biscuits, top up water. Only needs one time a day.

£20?

OP posts:
FortyElephants · 26/04/2025 12:31

crackofdoom · 26/04/2025 11:49

Yes, but they also have to make sure they're available for that time, you can't just calculate the actual 10 minutes they spend in the house. Plus, as stated above, OP will probably be expecting them to alert her about any problems.

My excellent 15 year old catsitter gets £5 a visit, and for that she walks 15 minutes up the hill and 15 minutes back (Although she's got quite a round in the village at peak holiday time, so she may be doing another couple of pets on the way). She let me know when my greenhouse door got smashed in a gale, and she and her dad cleared it up for me, bless her.

They are 14! Where else are they going to be. And 'alerting about any problems' will 100% be delegated to the mum! Honestly

Ddakji · 26/04/2025 12:32

Seafloral · 26/04/2025 12:27

"Survived" 🙄Bravo!

You do know that “fed once a day” means leaving out enough food for 24 hours, yes?

Seafloral · 26/04/2025 12:35

TropicofCapricorn · 26/04/2025 12:29

Grow up.

The cat is happy and healthy and loved. Just gets all its days food in the morning.

I think it's you that actually needs to grow up and start being responsible, not leaving your cat to be looked after for a week by a 14 year old lad for £20. Cat's Protection recommend a cat is fed at least twice a day.

Pigeonqueen · 26/04/2025 12:35

All cats should have access to a litter tray even if they rarely / never use it. If they are unwell or frightened by something outside they will want to use an indoor tray, even if it’s a one off. It’s a basic requirement of having a cat.

I wouldn’t be happy with leaving my cat being visited once a day but my cat is very friendly and clingy. He spends more time indoors with me than out and would be very lonely being left like that.

MoistVonL · 26/04/2025 12:36

Going rate here for the past few years has been £5 per visit. DD and her l friends have been doing it for lots of families within 5 minutes walk. It started with one neighbour and word of mouth meant they had cat feeding duties practically every other weekend.

A fiver a day for your pet to be fed is reasonable.

£20 for the week is pretty stingy.

Ddakji · 26/04/2025 12:37

Seafloral · 26/04/2025 12:35

I think it's you that actually needs to grow up and start being responsible, not leaving your cat to be looked after for a week by a 14 year old lad for £20. Cat's Protection recommend a cat is fed at least twice a day.

I’ve fed cats for 3 weeks where I went in once a day. Not once when I came in the next day were the dishes licked clean. There was always enough food and water.

FortyElephants · 26/04/2025 12:37

Pigeonqueen · 26/04/2025 12:35

All cats should have access to a litter tray even if they rarely / never use it. If they are unwell or frightened by something outside they will want to use an indoor tray, even if it’s a one off. It’s a basic requirement of having a cat.

I wouldn’t be happy with leaving my cat being visited once a day but my cat is very friendly and clingy. He spends more time indoors with me than out and would be very lonely being left like that.

Rubbish. Cats that have a cat flap don't need a litter tray. My cat has never shat in my house, not once. He's more than capable of doing it outside. I don't want him to use a litter tray; why would I provide one?

MrsSkylerWhite · 26/04/2025 12:37

Same as you’d pay anyone of any age.

FortyElephants · 26/04/2025 12:38

Seafloral · 26/04/2025 12:35

I think it's you that actually needs to grow up and start being responsible, not leaving your cat to be looked after for a week by a 14 year old lad for £20. Cat's Protection recommend a cat is fed at least twice a day.

Wet food once a day and enough dry food for two meals is absolutely fine. Most cats will top up with fresh wildlife if they are hungry. They are pretty good at getting their own food.

Seafloral · 26/04/2025 12:39

Ddakji · 26/04/2025 12:37

I’ve fed cats for 3 weeks where I went in once a day. Not once when I came in the next day were the dishes licked clean. There was always enough food and water.

Well you can put a mountain of food down can't you? Of course they won't eat it all, it's probably gone off.

TY78910 · 26/04/2025 12:40

FortyElephants · 26/04/2025 10:28

£5 for no more than 10 minutes work for a 14 year old? That's not a good precedent to set for a child of that age! They will barely get that per hour once they start working

tbh it’s not about setting a precedent, it’s a ‘job’ - you’re giving a kid a sort of ‘car wash on your local estate for pocket money’ kind of thing. £30 these days is nothing, you can’t get a video game or a branded figurine for that. That kid arguably also needs to be available for this cat twice a day, when he could be going off with his mates in the afternoon.

Ddakji · 26/04/2025 12:41

MoistVonL · 26/04/2025 12:36

Going rate here for the past few years has been £5 per visit. DD and her l friends have been doing it for lots of families within 5 minutes walk. It started with one neighbour and word of mouth meant they had cat feeding duties practically every other weekend.

A fiver a day for your pet to be fed is reasonable.

£20 for the week is pretty stingy.

£5 a day for 5 minutes equals an hourly rate of £60 an hour. To feed the neighbour’s cat.

No wonder so many kids enter the workplace with such unreasonable expectations.

Ddakji · 26/04/2025 12:42

Seafloral · 26/04/2025 12:39

Well you can put a mountain of food down can't you? Of course they won't eat it all, it's probably gone off.

In a single day? Don’t be silly.

BrokenTeapots · 26/04/2025 12:43

I'm paying someone £60 for 4 days but they are registered through a pet sitting service, insured and will spend 15-30 minutes playing with the cat. They will also deal with litter tray.

Therefore, for an informal arrangement, £20 to a teenage kid is fine in my eyes. It also gives you scope to be more generous in the future if he does a good job - you can't go back to lower rates once you do higher!

TropicofCapricorn · 26/04/2025 12:44

Seafloral · 26/04/2025 12:35

I think it's you that actually needs to grow up and start being responsible, not leaving your cat to be looked after for a week by a 14 year old lad for £20. Cat's Protection recommend a cat is fed at least twice a day.

Okay. Thanks for that.

Feel free to call cats protection

OP posts:
Francilene · 26/04/2025 12:45

Ok

Seafloral · 26/04/2025 12:45

Ddakji · 26/04/2025 12:42

In a single day? Don’t be silly.

There's pet owners, and there's responsible pet owners.

BookShark · 26/04/2025 12:45

DS (15) gets £30 for this, but that's for doing morning and evening, administering medication and cleaning out the bowls, plus watering plants. He's quite happy with it but it does force him to get up when he would rather have a lie-in during the holidays, so I do think you need to acknowledge that. If the one feed per day can be at any time, and is genuinely no more than squeezing out the pouch, £20 is probably fair enough.

TropicofCapricorn · 26/04/2025 12:46

TY78910 · 26/04/2025 12:40

tbh it’s not about setting a precedent, it’s a ‘job’ - you’re giving a kid a sort of ‘car wash on your local estate for pocket money’ kind of thing. £30 these days is nothing, you can’t get a video game or a branded figurine for that. That kid arguably also needs to be available for this cat twice a day, when he could be going off with his mates in the afternoon.

Again... People making up imaginary scenarios. It's once a day.

OP posts:
Ddakji · 26/04/2025 12:47

Seafloral · 26/04/2025 12:45

There's pet owners, and there's responsible pet owners.

I’m such a responsible pet owner than the rescue centre that we got our first cats from was more than happy to give us more. And I’m going to posit they know more about both responsible cat ownership and me personally than you do.

IAmNeverThePerson · 26/04/2025 12:47

£20 would be the rate here

Illbefinejustbloodyfine · 26/04/2025 12:47

I have a regular arrangement. For a weekend (sat am, pm, Sunday am) I give £20. For monday pm to Friday a.m I give £40.. for a full week prob £50.

doodleschnoodle · 26/04/2025 12:48

This thread is bonkers and I am here for it Grin Enjoy your holiday, OP!

Seafloral · 26/04/2025 12:48

Ddakji · 26/04/2025 12:47

I’m such a responsible pet owner than the rescue centre that we got our first cats from was more than happy to give us more. And I’m going to posit they know more about both responsible cat ownership and me personally than you do.

Which is why feeding twice a day is what they recommend.

Pigeonqueen · 26/04/2025 12:49

FortyElephants · 26/04/2025 12:37

Rubbish. Cats that have a cat flap don't need a litter tray. My cat has never shat in my house, not once. He's more than capable of doing it outside. I don't want him to use a litter tray; why would I provide one?

Just because you don’t want the hassle of occasionally cleaning out a litter tray doesn’t make it okay for you not to offer one for your cat.

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