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BF going away with friends this weekend

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Halfweight · 25/04/2025 10:04

Something he'd organised before we got together (6mths ago).

I have plans with my friends

I'm looking forward to the weekend, genuinely want him to go and have fun, am feeling no anxiety at all about his lads weekend or what he might get up to. We had a lovely lay-in 😉 before he went this morning, he'll call later and probably send me some photos of what they're up to while they're away. I'll enjoy getting some bits done in my garden and seeing friends.

I know, it's how it should be, but he's made me feel so secure, it's creating an unexplainable warm feeling for me....

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333FionaG · 25/04/2025 14:05

Well I wasn’t expecting this! How lovely. Enjoy your weekend.

mne13 · 25/04/2025 14:31

My new BF (8 months) has gone on a week away with the lads this week doing a hobby and booked before we got together and I am feeling the same! It's a world away from how I have felt in previous relationships!
I have plans myself and we have plans for the next couple of weeks when he returns so it's all good!
Lovely to hear Star

Halfweight · 25/04/2025 14:40

mne13 · 25/04/2025 14:31

My new BF (8 months) has gone on a week away with the lads this week doing a hobby and booked before we got together and I am feeling the same! It's a world away from how I have felt in previous relationships!
I have plans myself and we have plans for the next couple of weeks when he returns so it's all good!
Lovely to hear Star

That's exactly where we are. Loads to look forward to and enjoying time we have together, rather than stressing about not getting "enough".

As it should be obviously, but it hasn't always happened for me.

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