Hi! Just asking for opinions really and what to do
so I have known this woman from since school a very long time ago & we have casually been in touch sporadically for a few years since about 2022 I wanna say? We chatted quite a lot but at arms length. Now I am a person who is old fashioned- i believe for a true authentic friendship people need to meet up at least once or twice at least! We discussed very briefly meeting but she had a lot on with family issues and I did too i was in a controlling relationship which has now ended. The beginning of this year she was blowing a bit hot & cold and posting selfies captioning her bestie with another woman like a trophy which I found a little bit childish and it stung a bit because I felt we were building a friendship. I tried to talk to her and get to know her but then she would stop replying or be busy. I stopped speaking to her and she never made any effort to reach out. That was JANUARY this year. Fast forward to this morning and I receive a text from her. “Oh hi xx”
whats with the oh? Bit odd… i give it the benefit of the doubt and speak to her pleasantly. The fishy thing is she said this best mate of her and herself have fallen out so im wondering if I am the place holder Til they sort things? I asked her if she could call tonight after work she said no then she said she had to go. She hasn’t been active online since then and I know she’s at work which is fine but it’s so jarring when you are trying to build a genuine friendship with someone and stuff like this happens. Do you think im wasting my time? Is she a Time waster?
thanks xxx