I've recently started seeing a new guy and things are going well. He suggested a night away and I agreed, i was initially lookingforward to it. We chose one with a spa, I was a little anxious and I thought the spa would help me relax. Anyway as soon as he booked it my anxiety has gone up. I haven't spent the night away with anyone before and I keep worrying about everything. Will I snore? Will I accidentally fart? Will he hear me in the toilet from the bedroom? Performance anxiety too. My anxiety is now making me feel sick. My thoughts are irrational but I just can't control them. What should I do. I called the venue and they said there is no cancellation on spa stays so he'd lose the money. It was £260 so quite a lot and it was me who chose this place. I do want sex just worried about spending the night. What should I do?