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Instagram algorithm - Is he looking at other girls

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Gifgaf · 18/04/2025 18:50

I was on DH instagram just for pure curiousity (my fault for looking - I know!) anyway went in the 'for you' page and it was full of half naked girls and girls of a particular look. I am sure I know the answer already but does that mean he's been engaging and interacting with those kind of pages and images ?

Nothing shows up on his likes or comments and he doesn't follow them but that page is FULL of them.

He's been making me feel really insecure for a while now which he never used to before and now all I can think is well this is what you must really like then, no wonder he makes me feel a certain way.

Unpopular opinion a married person should not be viewing anything of that nature, it's so incredibly disrespectful. I am actually quite hurt if that is what he's been doing. I really want to say Men ain't shit but I know there's good ones out there.

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Stripeyanddotty · 18/04/2025 22:54

I once looked at a dog rescue page. Now that is all I get. No idea how to stop it.

TheWildZebra · 18/04/2025 22:58

My instagram is full of hunky Australian rugby players after falling into a scroll-trap. About as far from my DH as it could get! But he knows I look at it and have a good giggle. I think I’ve teased him about any women he’s followed on his page.

i wouldn’t get too worked up about it. If you’re worried, maybe try to understand why you feel insecure /what it’s triggering in you?

HarryBlackberry1 · 18/04/2025 23:33

I'm not sure how it works. My 'for you' page is full of Tom Hardy and Cillian Murphy, yet I genuinely haven't searched for them. Odd.

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