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Is being a pilot a good job?

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thecatislying · 09/04/2025 17:30

One of my nephews is looking into it. We can find all the official info about the ways to qualify, time it takes, how to do it, salary expectations, what the job is like, etc, but we don't know anyone who has done this job, or even who knows someone who has done it.

Nephew is practical, reliable, very good at maths an science, gets good grades. Not really enjoying school, doesn't like writing, not thrilled about the idea of 4 more years at university so exploring other ideas.

If you have personal experience of either being a pilot or know someone who is one, what's your thoughts? Is it a good job to have?

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notimagain · 13/05/2026 06:59

mjf981 · 12/05/2026 23:47

Its barotrauma from the air pressure changes. My Dad actually developed tinnitus after a plane ride from it - diagnosed by an ENT.

He said he sees it regularly, and is apparently more common if you fly with an URT infection.

Edited

Ah, I'd agree flying with a URT infection can cause all sorts of problems such as barotraumas, especially in unpressurised aircraft and some high performance types the military use.

OTOH because in this context we're dealing with mass transportation and the general public will fly with sniffles and colds the pressurisation systems in airliners are designed so that in normal flying cabin pressure changes should be relatively benign (it's still not great if you insist on flying with a serious head cold).

I'm sure if you fly for long enough it'll cause some hearing loss (some flights decks, especially on some older aircraft were loud) but how hearing loss over a career compares with other industries, don't know.

Certainly most people I worked with over multiple decade flying careers retired with functional hearing..

I'm not sure it's something that should put people off flying for a living, but hearing protection has to be taken seriously.

backinthebox · 13/05/2026 11:28

@Damnloginpopup go on then - explain how operating a 340 ton, 600mph piece of machinery (filled with people who can’t leave and who behave in more ways than you could imagine) through complex weather patterns and even more complex political situations is like bus driving? Earlier this year I had a full aircraft of passengers all going to a very lovely holiday destination, when I had a rather mad half hour where I to decide which to prioritise - trying to avoid turbulence, the passenger who I had been told had just passed out and needed us to contact a doctor, the proximity to a war zone that meant my main navigation system had just been stopped from working whilst flying through a narrow stretch of airspace which needed precise navigation and made all the busier because everyone else was also flying in it to avoid the war zones/weather/etc, or the very, very unusual thing I had just encountered and needed me to act immediately (which I cannot discuss further because it went to the highest levels of security for debate as to what exactly it was. But trust me - it was a rather serious thing!) And in the middle of this we had crew changeover, because on long flights we carry 3 or 4 pilots to ensure everyone is well rested. But crew changeover can be a busy time as we have to brief the incoming crew member to bring them up to speed on everything they need to know about the flight progress. And this was all happening at around 3am body clock time. This sounds just like driving a bus! 🙄

@Bjorkdidit I am not the same person as notimagain. I know where they worked, but not who they are and that’s probably the best way. There are quite a few pilots on here, not all of them announcing the fact they are pilots, because believe it or not many of them first came here for the parenting advice!

@mjf981 I have not come across any colleagues with tinnitus, nor am I aware it is a common problem with pilots elsewhere. Where I work it is standard to wear ear defenders when checking the outside of the aircraft to protect against jet engine and other machinery noise, and we use active noise cancelling headsets in the cockpit. We are taught in flight training how to ‘clear our ears’ if we encounter any pressure in our ears from changes in air pressure, however in normal flying conditions we would not experience sudden or dramatic changes in air pressure that would have such an effect, we aim to climb and descend gradually in order to preserve passenger comfort. We have a medical every year during which the doctor visually inspects our eardrums, and a hearing test every 2 years which is compared against previous years to check for any subtle changes in hearing. It is a well exercised privilege not to fly when you have any concern that you may have a cold or other respiratory tract or sinus infection in order to protect against any risk of long term damage to your hearing. It is possible to get tinnitus as a result of barotrauma, but it is not something widely prevalent among pilots - we are very aware of situations that could lead to risk (as described above) as a result of our Human Factors training (something else bus drivers don’t do!) and take steps to avoid it. Now, if you were talking about bad backs from sitting down in one position for extended periods of time carrying out the same small repetitive movements over and over, or risk of skin cancer from sun exposure both on the flight deck or downroute, or risk of digestive issues or tropical diseases encountered in farflung places, we all know someone with all of those things! But not so much hearing damage.

@XelaM the cost of flight training is high, but not actually much higher than uni costs these days (we’re estimating it’ll cost our children around £60k to attend uni, with 3 years of not actually having a proper career while they study. Flying training is around £110k, but the course I did was a year in length and I don’t think it takes any longer now.) It is possible to do a commercial pilot’s course without a degree - the requirement when I joined was for a minimum of 2 A Levels at grade C or above. There are various sponsorship programs around now that will pay these costs up front but that tie you into that employer for some years (as naturally they want to recoup the benefit of the training costs.) Normal people (like me - very average background, very average education, not wealthy family at all) can find a way in but the competition is tough. The cost of education would not put many students off, for example, a medical degree which comes with 5 years of fees and living expenses, an inability to work a part time job because the course requires at least 5 years of focus, and actually a very complex route from medical degree graduate to actually being a working doctor. What is different is that anyone with the cash can pay their way into flying school, but you can’t just buy your way into medical school. So as a result it is often assumed that flying is a rich person’s job where being a doctor is a clever person’s job. This is not the case. I trained with people and work with people from a huge range of backgrounds, and who have taken an interesting variety of routes into their airline career. I’m currently working with a bunch of blokes who all came in via a prior military career. I’ve flown with other pilots who before flying have been cabin crew, doctors, nurses, teachers, sales reps, accountants, builders, or straight from school. Strangest previous jobs include an archaeologist, a bin man, a Ministry of Sound DJ, a blacksmith and a snooker hall manager. Not necessarily a rich person’s job, although it is certainly easier if you have money (isn’t everything though?) But definitely competitive to get into and even more so if you want someone else to pay for it.

Damnloginpopup · 13/05/2026 15:51

@backinthebox Unfortunately I don't know any bus drivers I could ask...😁

Hook, line, sinker, apologies (I was being a bellend)

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backinthebox · 13/05/2026 16:07

@Damnloginpopup apology accepted, and thank you. I had a friend once who at every opportunity would tell me and anyone else in hearing distance all I did was press the autopilot button and the computer did it all. She was an accountant and got really upset when I said in reply that her job just involved doing sums and most of that could be done on a calculator. (I know it is not!) And yet she was unable to stop herself telling anyone else in the pub I just pressed a button. Not a friend any longer!

notimagain · 13/05/2026 17:09

I think what's not widely realised by the general public is there's a lot more to operating an aircraft than just the left/right up/down, faster/slower stuff.

You'd expect a student pilot aiming to move into the professional world (civil or mil) to have the 2D/3D aspect sorted, at least in general terms, in well sub a hundred hours...after that it's mostly about building up capacity and e.g. decision making skills with a view to managing flights and all that goes with them.

The sort of busy scenario @backinthebox described on a flight is slightly extreme but anyone who has flown professionally will tell you they've had days at the office like that, with lots of spinning plates to deal with.

The trick is not to let the customers know, but of course doing that succesfully then leads to the "autopilot does all the work" myth.

fartotheleftside · 13/05/2026 17:22

backinthebox · 13/05/2026 11:28

@Damnloginpopup go on then - explain how operating a 340 ton, 600mph piece of machinery (filled with people who can’t leave and who behave in more ways than you could imagine) through complex weather patterns and even more complex political situations is like bus driving? Earlier this year I had a full aircraft of passengers all going to a very lovely holiday destination, when I had a rather mad half hour where I to decide which to prioritise - trying to avoid turbulence, the passenger who I had been told had just passed out and needed us to contact a doctor, the proximity to a war zone that meant my main navigation system had just been stopped from working whilst flying through a narrow stretch of airspace which needed precise navigation and made all the busier because everyone else was also flying in it to avoid the war zones/weather/etc, or the very, very unusual thing I had just encountered and needed me to act immediately (which I cannot discuss further because it went to the highest levels of security for debate as to what exactly it was. But trust me - it was a rather serious thing!) And in the middle of this we had crew changeover, because on long flights we carry 3 or 4 pilots to ensure everyone is well rested. But crew changeover can be a busy time as we have to brief the incoming crew member to bring them up to speed on everything they need to know about the flight progress. And this was all happening at around 3am body clock time. This sounds just like driving a bus! 🙄

@Bjorkdidit I am not the same person as notimagain. I know where they worked, but not who they are and that’s probably the best way. There are quite a few pilots on here, not all of them announcing the fact they are pilots, because believe it or not many of them first came here for the parenting advice!

@mjf981 I have not come across any colleagues with tinnitus, nor am I aware it is a common problem with pilots elsewhere. Where I work it is standard to wear ear defenders when checking the outside of the aircraft to protect against jet engine and other machinery noise, and we use active noise cancelling headsets in the cockpit. We are taught in flight training how to ‘clear our ears’ if we encounter any pressure in our ears from changes in air pressure, however in normal flying conditions we would not experience sudden or dramatic changes in air pressure that would have such an effect, we aim to climb and descend gradually in order to preserve passenger comfort. We have a medical every year during which the doctor visually inspects our eardrums, and a hearing test every 2 years which is compared against previous years to check for any subtle changes in hearing. It is a well exercised privilege not to fly when you have any concern that you may have a cold or other respiratory tract or sinus infection in order to protect against any risk of long term damage to your hearing. It is possible to get tinnitus as a result of barotrauma, but it is not something widely prevalent among pilots - we are very aware of situations that could lead to risk (as described above) as a result of our Human Factors training (something else bus drivers don’t do!) and take steps to avoid it. Now, if you were talking about bad backs from sitting down in one position for extended periods of time carrying out the same small repetitive movements over and over, or risk of skin cancer from sun exposure both on the flight deck or downroute, or risk of digestive issues or tropical diseases encountered in farflung places, we all know someone with all of those things! But not so much hearing damage.

@XelaM the cost of flight training is high, but not actually much higher than uni costs these days (we’re estimating it’ll cost our children around £60k to attend uni, with 3 years of not actually having a proper career while they study. Flying training is around £110k, but the course I did was a year in length and I don’t think it takes any longer now.) It is possible to do a commercial pilot’s course without a degree - the requirement when I joined was for a minimum of 2 A Levels at grade C or above. There are various sponsorship programs around now that will pay these costs up front but that tie you into that employer for some years (as naturally they want to recoup the benefit of the training costs.) Normal people (like me - very average background, very average education, not wealthy family at all) can find a way in but the competition is tough. The cost of education would not put many students off, for example, a medical degree which comes with 5 years of fees and living expenses, an inability to work a part time job because the course requires at least 5 years of focus, and actually a very complex route from medical degree graduate to actually being a working doctor. What is different is that anyone with the cash can pay their way into flying school, but you can’t just buy your way into medical school. So as a result it is often assumed that flying is a rich person’s job where being a doctor is a clever person’s job. This is not the case. I trained with people and work with people from a huge range of backgrounds, and who have taken an interesting variety of routes into their airline career. I’m currently working with a bunch of blokes who all came in via a prior military career. I’ve flown with other pilots who before flying have been cabin crew, doctors, nurses, teachers, sales reps, accountants, builders, or straight from school. Strangest previous jobs include an archaeologist, a bin man, a Ministry of Sound DJ, a blacksmith and a snooker hall manager. Not necessarily a rich person’s job, although it is certainly easier if you have money (isn’t everything though?) But definitely competitive to get into and even more so if you want someone else to pay for it.

I think a lot more people would train to be pilots if they could access normal student loans to do so, like medical students can.

backinthebox · 13/05/2026 17:40

fartotheleftside · 13/05/2026 17:22

I think a lot more people would train to be pilots if they could access normal student loans to do so, like medical students can.

The problem is, a student loan is for a university degree. An APTL (the required qualification to commence an airline pilot career) is not a university degree. You can’t study it at university. So a degree loan is not available. I don’t know how student pilots get loans these days, but I do know there is a known route to obtaining finance. I haven’t looked into it because I am much closer to the end of my career than the beginning! A keen wannabe pilot though would have found out exactly how to do it. There are busy forums out there (Pprune being the main one) that discuss this in great detail. Lack of finance is not what would hold many young people back, but lack of knowledge as to how to access finance could. It is one more step that must be overcome. As the saying goes - It’s not easy, if it was easy everyone would be doing it!

XelaM · 13/05/2026 19:39

@backinthebox and @notimagain Thank you! Absolutely fascinating and I think no normal person thinks pilots just press the autopilot. We literally put our lives in their hands and it is one of the most respected professions out there!

Sadly, the autopilot myth was disproved a long time ago when that Russian pilot allowed his son to steer the commercial plane full of holidaymakers for a few minutes killing everyone on board 😰

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