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What would you do in this situation?

31 replies

sad34 · 04/04/2025 12:30

Had a great first date with a guy. He was keen, arranges a second one on the date / day after.

Have the second date. It also goes well and you end up spending the night together and the whole day afterwards. Agree to do something next Friday aka today.

Continue to message all week but not as much. Can feel he is pulling back. Friday / meeting up again not mentioned at all.

Get to said day of date. Have heard nothing since Wednesday evening.

Like what the fuck? I feel so shit because I thought he was into me, and we spent so much time together. I really don’t know what to do or how to feel.

OP posts:
VirgosNeedGoals · 01/05/2025 16:39

Get rid

Profhilodisaster · 01/05/2025 16:44

Unfortunately , it sounds as if you are just an interim distraction, don't put yourself through this uncertainty, know your worth.

DodgersJammyAndOtherwise · 01/05/2025 16:56

Ghost him now OP or tell him you're done. The writing is on the wall.

sad34 · 01/05/2025 22:16

Is it really bad? Considering we aren’t exclusive yet?

OP posts:
SedumRoof · 01/05/2025 22:23

sad34 · 01/05/2025 22:16

Is it really bad? Considering we aren’t exclusive yet?

OP, your low standards are concerning. Just get rid, and I’d work on my self-esteem in your shoes before dating again.

PleaseGoDontGoAgain · 01/05/2025 22:42

You are being exclusive and focused on this pairing.
He isn't.
How blunt do you need this to be?

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