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How can I hide Facebook stalking

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Boredzebra · 30/03/2025 23:40

If I look up someone and look at their profile my own profile will come up under someone you know.
i am trying to stalk someone on Facebook but don’t want them to notice I’ve searched for them.
help

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EeewDavid · 30/03/2025 23:41

Look at them then block them after

TeapotTitties · 30/03/2025 23:42

There are many reasons to come up as 'someone you may know', and they're not all to do with searching.

fratellia · 30/03/2025 23:42

Create a blank second account, also means accidentally liking something isn’t an issue 🤣

Poonu · 30/03/2025 23:44

Or why don't you just not stalk them and focus on more productive activities.

tightfit · 30/03/2025 23:53

You can’t, but if you come up on their feed it doesn’t automatically mean you’ve been stalking!

Belshels · 31/03/2025 00:03

How do you know if someone has been looking at your profile on FB, apart from a like that's been done by mistake?

Lavender14 · 31/03/2025 00:05

Poonu · 30/03/2025 23:44

Or why don't you just not stalk them and focus on more productive activities.

This is probably the only advice you need op!

Boredzebra · 31/03/2025 00:09

Belshels · 31/03/2025 00:03

How do you know if someone has been looking at your profile on FB, apart from a like that's been done by mistake?

Cos you see them under someone you may know

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Unexpectedlysinglemum · 31/03/2025 00:11

If their number is stored in your phone or vice versa it will show you each other probably

thankyounextplease · 31/03/2025 00:30

Boredzebra · 31/03/2025 00:09

Cos you see them under someone you may know

That's not true as Facebook clarifies in their own documentation. But if it concerns you, you can block them after you've looked and then you won't be recommended at all.

Boredzebra · 31/03/2025 00:42

thankyounextplease · 31/03/2025 00:30

That's not true as Facebook clarifies in their own documentation. But if it concerns you, you can block them after you've looked and then you won't be recommended at all.

I blocked them.

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JJZ · 31/03/2025 00:44

fratellia · 30/03/2025 23:42

Create a blank second account, also means accidentally liking something isn’t an issue 🤣

Someone’s been there before 😂

TheGentleOpalMember · 31/03/2025 02:29

Since when did we start calling someone merely looking someone up 'stalking'? Stalking is a very serious thing, I wish people would stop using it where it clearly doesn't apply.

Flytrap01 · 31/03/2025 02:42

Boredzebra · 30/03/2025 23:40

If I look up someone and look at their profile my own profile will come up under someone you know.
i am trying to stalk someone on Facebook but don’t want them to notice I’ve searched for them.
help

i use fake accounts, when needed or always go under a cover name and use that profile

Flytrap01 · 31/03/2025 02:43

JJZ · 31/03/2025 00:44

Someone’s been there before 😂

me too, and it was holy pickles

Flytrap01 · 31/03/2025 02:43

can we truly say its "Stalking" on facebook when the whole point of social media is to put what you want to share with people etc ?

Belshels · 31/03/2025 08:14

Boredzebra · 31/03/2025 00:09

Cos you see them under someone you may know

You see them because you are either friends on Instagram (as two are linked) or they are friends of friends on Facebook or Instagram. Also if you are phone contacts, or email contacts outside of social media.
I have also noticed if you've looked at them on Instagram they may show up as a suggestion on Facebook. So I think it's partially true, but not enough to assume they have been looking at your profile.

Init4thecatz · 31/03/2025 08:49

Or.... don't stalk

Boredzebra · 31/03/2025 14:04

Flytrap01 · 31/03/2025 02:43

can we truly say its "Stalking" on facebook when the whole point of social media is to put what you want to share with people etc ?

Well through Facebook I have found out that the person lied to me about things so they didn’t want me to know

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