Need to be upbeat

[Youagain2025]

Trying to be upbeat and think of good positive things I can do . With the house and the kids . I mean with the house I know what I need to do but got myself in a bit of a slump.

I really don't know what I can do with the kids either that feels a bit upbeat and exciting . During the holidays. Ds birthday is coming up to.

Get in the habit of putting on happy music.

If you feel sad, give yourself 10 or 15 minutes to indulge in that feeling and then start doing something to distract yourself or change your mood.

Yeah that's a good idea. I don't actually feel sad though just a bit blah . Probably need more sleep

Probably not the best advice but I find caffeine really helps me to feel lively and upbeat!

How old are the children?

I di have caffeine. But I have heard to much can drain you to

14, 8,9 18 of older wants to one along.

Museums is definitely a no . And no que gardens type thing . They would hate them .

I was thinking of something that's a big treat that everyone would be excited about. But im leaning the other way now and thinking to keep it basic. Maybe bowling, bike/scooter /skates . I know there's a woodland type walk that we have never tried.

Camping
Basketball
Swimming
Silent disco
BBQ
Zoo
Beach
Escape room
Paint balling
Graffiti class
Boardgames
Model painting

Couple of nights at caravan park with a fun swimming pool, arcade, fast food dinners

That did enter my head briefly. But by the time I have done train fares , spending money, food etc its probably going to be 400-500 pounds.