Shall I ignore him

[ThePerkyCoralPoet]

Spoken to this guy on a couple of occasions. Never thought much of it. He asked if we could meet. Unfortunately I’ve been busy and every time he’s asked I’ve had a meeting called after work. Or now, I’ve got tonsillitis.

the only reason I wonder if I just need to ignore him as his suggestions after have been “shall I just come over to yours then” or “well I suppose it would just be easier to come see you this evening” or “I may aswell head to yours and cook”

Ive met up with him once many years ago. He messaged me and I figured I’d give him a chance but at this point I’m not really sure it’s worth it

I think I'd have shut him down on any suggestion to "come over and cook" etc - but yes, cut this one loose!

I said, you don’t need to come over to mine. Quite frankly I find it off putting and like you’re desperate for sex. He said “why the inquisition it’s just we can never agree a date and I’d really like to see you” who knew 30 year old men still behave this way

Coming over to someone's house to cook is not a proper date.
It just isn't.
It's minimal lazy-cock effort and merely a way get his foot in the door.
He's just looking to get laid.
I'd throw this one back in the sea.

Oh and I forget the message that said “blimey. Just invite me over at this rate” that one just made me think. This needs to go in the bin

Ok, this guy is asking for a ghosting. Do what you gotta do op, then forget him.

“shall I just come over to yours then” “well I suppose it would just be easier to come see you this evening”
“I may aswell head to yours and cook”
“blimey. Just invite me over at this rate”

I mean..you can see why he's single.

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