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Accent acquisition in young children

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argyllherewecome · 10/03/2025 10:56

I'm a teacher but have been off work sick so I've had loads of time to think (for a change!). Anyway, this is something that has fascinated me for ages and I'm sure there are posters here who know about this.
My school is fairly diverse. Most children with ESL parents come into school either with no English or basic words that have a distinct mother tongue accent. They lose this within several years usually, and by then they have a local accent.

I've noticed though some children do not adopt a local accent.
Irish Travellers: despite being born and raised here they nearly exclusively all have a very thick Irish accent, and this doesn't change over time. There are a few other children that have parents or a mother at least from different parts of the country, and they keep a very strong regional accent from them, which doesn't change much over time. This is an exception rather than a rule though.

Any language experts that can explain how this happens? I'm the embarrassing sort of person that goes somewhere for a few days and I pick up accents!

OP posts:
InterIgnis · 11/03/2025 17:27

Kendodd · 11/03/2025 07:37

I have an interesting one!
My teenage daughter's friend is Polish, not sure if born in UK or not but certainly raised here and speaks English indistinguishable from anyone else local. They're doing French as school. When this friend speaks French she has a distinct Polish accent, not an English one. Polish friend says she doesn't know which one is her first language or which language she thinks or dreams in. I wonder if the accent she has in French gives a clue though ????

You can think and dream in more than one. I think and dream in whatever language I’m predominantly speaking.

Funnily enough I have a similar issue with French. I can read it and understand it when spoken, but I’ve never not mangled it when attempting to speak it
myself. It comes out very, very South Slavic.

tommyhoundmum · 11/03/2025 18:10

StillLifeWithEggs · 10/03/2025 11:08

‘Thick’ is an incredibly judgemental term. Perhaps your local accent sounds just as ‘thick’ to the Travellers? And, as a widely stigmatised ethnic group, I can’t imagine the children are mingling all that much with settled people out of school hours, so they’re less likely to be peer-influenced in terms of speech.

In this case the op means strong accent, dense, heavy or impenetrable, not stupid and she's not being judgemental. Are you?

4kids2cats · 11/03/2025 18:20

I heard a very interesting segment on a podcast recently about this. A language expert was talking about how accents converge - tests have shown that even within 6 months researchers in the Antarctic Survey begin to pick up each other’s accents. But he also said some accents are particularly resistant to this, and don’t change at all. He mentioned Glaswegian as being the most fixed!

Interested in this thread?

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Vynalbob · 11/03/2025 18:54

StillLifeWithEggs · 10/03/2025 11:08

‘Thick’ is an incredibly judgemental term. Perhaps your local accent sounds just as ‘thick’ to the Travellers? And, as a widely stigmatised ethnic group, I can’t imagine the children are mingling all that much with settled people out of school hours, so they’re less likely to be peer-influenced in terms of speech.

You're joking right..... OP means strong accent🙄

Vynalbob · 11/03/2025 18:58

I think it's a mixture of things
Individual susceptibility
Family & Friends
TV & Online (obviously some accents are more representative than others).

Incidentally I've noticed it doesn't seem related to learning languages imo.

Ilovecleaning · 11/03/2025 19:10

Thecomfortador · 10/03/2025 11:13

I once knew two sisters - one went to private school and one went to state school, they both have different accents with the state educated daughter having more of a local accent. Both parents Scottish and neither sibling had any hint of a Scottish accent. Always fascinated me that they all sounded so different to each other.

Sounds unfair. One child at private school, the other at state school. Any reason? Do tell 😊

Ilovecleaning · 11/03/2025 19:17

Vynalbob · 11/03/2025 18:54

You're joking right..... OP means strong accent🙄

Yes, ‘thick’ accent means strong accent.

paddlinglikecrazy · 11/03/2025 19:38

I’m from the North, my husband the south and we live midlands. My eldest sounds more like me and pronounces worlds like me. My youngest says things like his Dad.
think the word water… one would sounds it warter, the other wawta 🤷‍♀️
no idea how this has happened.

Beautifulweeds · 11/03/2025 19:40

I just read thick accent as just that, it's a saying, hence meaning strong in terms of pronunciation and colloquialism?

Mba1974 · 11/03/2025 19:46

StillLifeWithEggs · 10/03/2025 11:32

No, it’s highly subjective. Someone else’s accent is ‘thick’ to you. Your accent is equally ‘thick’ to other people. The late queen’s RP in her 21st birthday broadcast is more likely to be described as ‘cut glass’, but in fact is a ‘thick’ accent (all that yod -dropping, and non-rhotic pronunciation meaning ‘father’ and ‘farther’, ‘formerly’ and ‘formally’ are homonyms etc etc ), just a privileged one.

I think perhaps you need to brush the chip off your shoulder and grab a thesaurus… Thick in this context doesn’t mean “stupid” it means very clearly heavy, full, unchanged. You can equally have a thick Home Counties accent, a thick Yorkshire accent a thick Irish accent or a thick Oxford English accent. It’s not a judgement it’s an observation.

TaliaTalia · 11/03/2025 20:57

This is a really interesting thread and something I’ve wondered about.
I am Israeli, English is my third language, English is also my children’s third language. The oldest children were born in Israel, the youngest two were born here (UK). We are orthodox but well integrated into the non Jewish community. They ALL speak English with an American twang that’s been commented on in their diagnostic reports (ASD). I don’t get it. Most of the English language media they watch is British English, they learned to speak English by immersing in the (non American) community, I certainly don’t have an American accent and neither does their dad, but even the two year old has started with it recently. Where on earth has it come from?!

DrLottie · 11/03/2025 21:04

"Thick" means "strong" in this context, not "stupid". Surely you must know that.

katienana · 11/03/2025 21:08

My children haven't picked up the local accent where we live, it's mine and dh university town. We both have different accents, although all 3 are Northern. My eldest has actually been called posh at school! I assumed they would develop the accent but home seems to have influenced them more.

Sweepandmop · 11/03/2025 21:10

Mba1974 · 11/03/2025 19:46

I think perhaps you need to brush the chip off your shoulder and grab a thesaurus… Thick in this context doesn’t mean “stupid” it means very clearly heavy, full, unchanged. You can equally have a thick Home Counties accent, a thick Yorkshire accent a thick Irish accent or a thick Oxford English accent. It’s not a judgement it’s an observation.

I know people keep saying thick in this context means strong, and it more or less does.
More or less.

There is a slight difference in meaning to me, a different nuance.

And I have never heard a Home Counties accent described as thick? That just doesn’t happen. Like it or not, only certain accents are typically described as thick.

Thecomfortador · 11/03/2025 21:45

Ilovecleaning · 11/03/2025 19:10

Sounds unfair. One child at private school, the other at state school. Any reason? Do tell 😊

I'm not sure to be honest, I think it was the choice of the younger sister to go to state school but don't know the ins and outs of the decision. I wasn't aware of any animosity between them because of it, but I wasn't hugely close to the situation either.

Ilovecleaning · 11/03/2025 23:01

Thecomfortador · 11/03/2025 21:45

I'm not sure to be honest, I think it was the choice of the younger sister to go to state school but don't know the ins and outs of the decision. I wasn't aware of any animosity between them because of it, but I wasn't hugely close to the situation either.

Many thanks for replying to me on a thread I derailed slightly! 😀 I’m glad it’s possible that the younger sister possibly chose a state school because I was thinking of Chandler Bing saying to Monica “We’ll choose our favourite child and send that one to college!” 🌺

Ariadneslostthread · 11/03/2025 23:27

StillLifeWithEggs · 10/03/2025 11:08

‘Thick’ is an incredibly judgemental term. Perhaps your local accent sounds just as ‘thick’ to the Travellers? And, as a widely stigmatised ethnic group, I can’t imagine the children are mingling all that much with settled people out of school hours, so they’re less likely to be peer-influenced in terms of speech.

I don’t think she means “thick” as in stupid , I think OP means a very heavy, sometimes almost incomprehensible accent, quite hard to decipher….. I don’t think she was being judgemental

Sweepandmop · 12/03/2025 00:58

Saying someone speaks English (their first language) in an almost incomprehensible manner isn’t exactly flattering though is it? 😅

CruCru · 12/03/2025 07:44

Sweepandmop · 11/03/2025 21:10

I know people keep saying thick in this context means strong, and it more or less does.
More or less.

There is a slight difference in meaning to me, a different nuance.

And I have never heard a Home Counties accent described as thick? That just doesn’t happen. Like it or not, only certain accents are typically described as thick.

There is definitely a thick south coast (Sussex) accent. I’ve been told that there are strong Kent and Buckinghamshire accents as well but I’ve never lived there so I haven’t heard them.

Welshmonster · 12/03/2025 08:04

StillLifeWithEggs · 10/03/2025 11:08

‘Thick’ is an incredibly judgemental term. Perhaps your local accent sounds just as ‘thick’ to the Travellers? And, as a widely stigmatised ethnic group, I can’t imagine the children are mingling all that much with settled people out of school hours, so they’re less likely to be peer-influenced in terms of speech.

Thick is meaning strong in this instance as an adjective.

Sweepandmop · 12/03/2025 08:33

CruCru · 12/03/2025 07:44

There is definitely a thick south coast (Sussex) accent. I’ve been told that there are strong Kent and Buckinghamshire accents as well but I’ve never lived there so I haven’t heard them.

Ah okay, I wasn’t including Sussex. Depends on the definition of home county I suppose, it’s not a definitive list ☺️

DuchessOfNarcissex · 12/03/2025 08:39

@Sweepandmop , there are thick accents in the home counties. An Essex accent can be thick, but there are accents like a Berkshire one.

argyllherewecome · 12/03/2025 08:49

4kids2cats · 11/03/2025 18:20

I heard a very interesting segment on a podcast recently about this. A language expert was talking about how accents converge - tests have shown that even within 6 months researchers in the Antarctic Survey begin to pick up each other’s accents. But he also said some accents are particularly resistant to this, and don’t change at all. He mentioned Glaswegian as being the most fixed!

I'd love to listen to this, can you remember what it was?

OP posts:
howaboutchocolate · 12/03/2025 08:54

Sweepandmop · 11/03/2025 21:10

I know people keep saying thick in this context means strong, and it more or less does.
More or less.

There is a slight difference in meaning to me, a different nuance.

And I have never heard a Home Counties accent described as thick? That just doesn’t happen. Like it or not, only certain accents are typically described as thick.

Probably because home counties accents and RP aren't that regional and are more generic? Someone with a thick regional accent you can probably narrow down to a city that they come from, sometimes a town or village. I wouldn't hear a home counties accent and think yep they're definitely from Hertford.

CruCru · 12/03/2025 08:58

RP isn’t regional but a strong Sussex accent is quite distinct from a strong Essex accent.