Night out to nightmare

[Whatshappenedhere]

All over the place and getting this out. Basically came home tonight as me and ds were at a party. I opened my front door and just knew something wasn't right. Went upstairs and dh has cleared out all his stuff everything of his has gone he's left me. I texted him and said what's going on and can we talk. He said no I've left you. Obviously put a brave face on and made a excuse to ds he's sleeping. I can't breathe, my nerves have been jangling plus I am pregnancy with dc 2.

Was this completely out of the blue or have you been having problems?

He's made it clear he didn't want another dc and wanted me to have a abortion. Totally out the blue that he has just completely gone and taken everything. There has been other issues with his family and when I was pregnant with ds he left me. This pain is unbearable it hurts so much.

I'm sorry Op, that is horrible. Can you get your thread moved to Relationships you will get good support and suggestions of what to do there.
Hope you get all the help you need💐

@sparklingindignation thought this was relationships. Must have posted here by mistake will ask hq to move it in the morning hopefully they will.

The posters in Relationships are very good at helping and know all the things to help you get your ducks in a row and what types of things you might need to look in to.

You could always repost this in Relationships now and then just get MNHQ to delete this thread come morning. So if you're in need of support right now, you will be more likely to get it there. No one will mind. Posters will want you to get the help you need 💐

No wonder you're shaken up, what a thing to come home too and done in such a sneaky, cowardly manner.
Hopefully the collective experiences of others and advice you will receive can help you start to navigate your difficult situation.
Hopefully you've friends family that can help for real life support.