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Are there any courses, you would actively discourage your dc doing at uni ?

226 replies

JennyTals · 20/02/2025 21:06

Is anything a no go for you, or would you support any course

OP posts:
Snowmanscarf · 22/02/2025 14:37

exhaustedbeinghappy · 22/02/2025 14:27

I saw a clip / quote from Sylvester Stallone, which sums it up quite nicely I think...

You think anyone really cares what your major is? English literature, Biology, whatever. The whole point of a college degree is to show a potential employer that you showed up someplace four years in a row, completed a series of tasks reasonably well and on time.

But years ago, it meant so much more. A degree meant you had a certain level of academic ability, was able to think, rationalise, apply critical
theory or do complex scientific equations. It’s a shame that has been eroded.

You also used to ‘read’ for a degree. Now you seem to be taught.

AquaPeer · 22/02/2025 15:42

Cattery · 22/02/2025 14:25

I have to disagree. It’s wishy-washy. I don’t think you can far wrong with a degree in business, from an employer’s point of view

I’m an employer and wouldn’t be particularly interested in a degree in business (as indeed, I have one myself) I can’t see anyway the content relates to an entry corporate job. It’s a whistle stop of very high level corporate and consumerism - the concept of a balance sheet, what a pension is, very basic consumer law. Really not anything applicable.

I mean it’s fine, but I don’t think employers are particularly interested in it

Cattery · 22/02/2025 15:45

AquaPeer · 22/02/2025 15:42

I’m an employer and wouldn’t be particularly interested in a degree in business (as indeed, I have one myself) I can’t see anyway the content relates to an entry corporate job. It’s a whistle stop of very high level corporate and consumerism - the concept of a balance sheet, what a pension is, very basic consumer law. Really not anything applicable.

I mean it’s fine, but I don’t think employers are particularly interested in it

My son’s working in the City on the back of one

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AquaPeer · 22/02/2025 15:50

Cattery · 22/02/2025 15:45

My son’s working in the City on the back of one

So was (and am) I. again, it’s not the business degree that did it. I mean you realise millions of people work in the city with a variety of degrees behind them?!?

I know someone in the city with a degree in art history and someone in the city with a degree in women and social studies- should everyone do that too?

crouchendtigerr · 22/02/2025 15:50

I encourage mine to pursue their interests and then to do what interests them. For two of mine, that has meant mathematics, which to some is very dull but they absolutely love it. My youngest has always been very catering and has fallen into leadership positions at school, and wants to do medicine, and it suits her. I know that she won't be put off by the difficulty or the hardship, that she is academically able and stoic

crouchendtigerr · 22/02/2025 15:51

Interestingly ds2 was quite into music and drama as well as maths, but chose maths. I encouraged all his interests

Talkinpeace · 22/02/2025 15:54

Too many modern degrees are actually job training that should be funded by employers
not student loans

If your degree is also offered as on the job training
then do not take out Student Loans, go get a job instead

amigafan2003 · 22/02/2025 15:55

Cattery · 22/02/2025 14:25

I have to disagree. It’s wishy-washy. I don’t think you can far wrong with a degree in business, from an employer’s point of view

What's your degree in?

Cattery · 22/02/2025 15:55

@amigafan2003 Literature. Yours?

amigafan2003 · 22/02/2025 15:57

Snowmanscarf · 22/02/2025 14:37

But years ago, it meant so much more. A degree meant you had a certain level of academic ability, was able to think, rationalise, apply critical
theory or do complex scientific equations. It’s a shame that has been eroded.

You also used to ‘read’ for a degree. Now you seem to be taught.

Edited

It still means that and has not been eroded at all - don't buy into the media narrative. The denigration of degrees not only by the media but some politicians really winds me up.

I have taught recently at degree level - we teach to a 2:2 standard - those coming out with firsts and 2:1's all have to demonstrate the aptitudes you mentioned.

amigafan2003 · 22/02/2025 15:58

Talkinpeace · 22/02/2025 15:54

Too many modern degrees are actually job training that should be funded by employers
not student loans

If your degree is also offered as on the job training
then do not take out Student Loans, go get a job instead

You know degree apprenticeships are a thing, don't you?

No student loans on those.

BruFord · 22/02/2025 16:15

Snowmanscarf · 22/02/2025 14:37

But years ago, it meant so much more. A degree meant you had a certain level of academic ability, was able to think, rationalise, apply critical
theory or do complex scientific equations. It’s a shame that has been eroded.

You also used to ‘read’ for a degree. Now you seem to be taught.

Edited

I’m not sure that’s accurate @Snowmanscarf. DD is taking advanced Maths and Physics classes that absolutely do require complex thinking. Many students have failed these classes and had to do retakes, or transferred entirely out of the course, because it’s so challenging (we’re in the US so possible to transfer during the first two years).

Only those who survive the first two years are allowed to continue the four-year degree…she’s in her second year so if she gets through this semester, she can continue.🤞🤞

sillybillydh · 22/02/2025 17:32

Cattery · 22/02/2025 14:11

Social science. wtf does that even mean.

People do like to show their ignorance and snobbery in these threads, don't they? You've honestly never heard of social science? You don't know about economics or political science? Are you one of those who doesn't think sociology is an academic discipline? Really?

www.socsci.ox.ac.uk/departments

crankytoes · 22/02/2025 20:04

@Lorelaigilmore88
Do you tell people studying architecture or at RADA or broadcast journalism that it's unwise because it's niche?

People do study things for a variety of reasons. One is because they want to work in a specific industry. It's not always foolish to do so. Applied Golf management has a 100% employment rate.

crankytoes · 22/02/2025 20:08

MH0084 · 20/02/2025 22:03

I would definitely discourage DC to go for any degree that will limit their earnings potential. The idea of studying what you like is very romantic but sadly we live in a capitalist society.
They can do whatever they love and are interest at as a hobby!

Good grief. And slog away for 50 years at something they have no interest in? What a sad piece of advice.

Don't you realise people can make a career out of almost any passion. There are multimillionaire hair dressers, makeup artist and chefs. Follow your passion and find a way to monetise it

Talkinpeace · 22/02/2025 21:07

My degree has nothing to do with my profession.
Its a modern notion that your degree should link to your career
and not a good one

RampantIvy · 22/02/2025 22:10

Its a modern notion that your degree should link to your career and not a good one

I think it depends on what you want to do. To become a nurse you have to do a nursing degree, for example.

HeBeaverandSheBeaver · 23/02/2025 07:16

Kids are trying to get apprentices now but there are not enough out there

Govt need to incentivise employers to offer this.

Too
Many jobs expect degrees now that are simply not needed

Train on the job.

Vet nursing
Hospitality
Entry level Nursing
Criminology

To name but a few.

DamsonIcecream · 23/02/2025 07:56

yogpot · 21/02/2025 10:03

Marketing or communications. In my whole career I never encountered anyone with a marketing career. Everyone in senior positions, including myself, had degrees in things like Economics, English, History etc. It wouldn’t put me off a candidate if they had a marketing degree, but it wouldn’t make me consider them anymore favourably either so you’ve shut a lot of doors by choosing to study that. It’s very much something you learn on the job and the industry landscape changes constantly.

Ditto Business Studies.

I thought this way until our marketing department was taken over by a 27 year old marketing and business graduate, and I've had to revise my view. He's a natural leader but the principles he got from his degree gave him the extra confidence/ authority to restructure the department and our functions. It has been very impressive.

Newgirls · 23/02/2025 09:42

I’m always amazed more people don’t train in food and as chefs - it’s such a massive industry and you can choose your jobs now. It’s not all late nights - I know some very well off coffee shop owners and of course every food production factory or product development company needs chefs

KingTutting · 23/02/2025 09:54

we need more apprenticeships and more types. One of DDs friends has been looking and if you don’t want to do bricklaying etc it's just a lot of admin or finance posts round here, it’s not very inspiring.

AlphaApple · 23/02/2025 09:58

Newgirls · 23/02/2025 09:42

I’m always amazed more people don’t train in food and as chefs - it’s such a massive industry and you can choose your jobs now. It’s not all late nights - I know some very well off coffee shop owners and of course every food production factory or product development company needs chefs

I think the worst, most toxic kitchen environments as portrayed in the media put a lot of people off. Plus, it's not that well paid and hospitality career paths are ill-defined.

Newgirls · 23/02/2025 10:03

i agree about the chef dramas etc but of course that’s not the whole industry.

chefs can be very well paid. Go and work in product development for one of the supermarkets and it’s very good money and includes lots of international research trips.

Talkinpeace · 23/02/2025 14:57

RampantIvy · 22/02/2025 22:10

Its a modern notion that your degree should link to your career and not a good one

I think it depends on what you want to do. To become a nurse you have to do a nursing degree, for example.

Nursing did not used to be a degree.
It used to be on the job training without incurring debt.

Too many trades and professions now demand entirely inappropriate degrees
when day release training would give better outcomes
at lower cost to candidates and the taxpayer

but raising the effective work start age to 21 was an easy way to massage the unemployment numbers

RampantIvy · 23/02/2025 15:05

I agree with you @Talkinpeace