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If you were 25 with a decent education, which country would you choose to live in ?

145 replies

ssd · 20/02/2025 13:26

Allowing for brexit of course

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ForZanyAquaViewer · 20/02/2025 17:12

username299 · 20/02/2025 13:34

Depends what you're into. Partying - Spain. Money - Dubai. Excellent standard of living - Denmark. Chaos - the States. Food - Italy.

I agree, but chucking ‘chaos = the States’ in there was deadpan gold. 🤣

ForZanyAquaViewer · 20/02/2025 17:13

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Same and same. No regrets, would do it again.

Failing that, either Toronto or Cape Town (not Canada or SA, those places, specifically).

Charlottejbt · 20/02/2025 17:14

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My late teen DDs would both agree with you, and they are likely to have EU citizenship by the time they are 25.

Charlottejbt · 20/02/2025 17:21

Loveduppenguin · 20/02/2025 16:32

Even better to work in Switzerland and be paid in Swiss francs but living just over the border in France 🤣 better money and living in a cheaper country

Yeah, but mildly depressing dormitory towns (I worked in one last year) and a hellish commute over the border at rush hours. Might as well live in the British provinces and commute to London! If I was going to work in Switzerland I'd want to live there eventually. Possibly not too exciting for twentysomethings though.

Mauro711 · 20/02/2025 17:38

trainermush · 20/02/2025 13:54

One of the highest suicide rates in the world

Outdated. it's reduced since the 90s and it's now only a bit higher than other European countries.

I don't even think it's slightly higher than other EU countries, it's about average. It peaked in 1990 and since then it's gone down dramatically. Same with alcohol consumption, Finns are towards the bottom within the EU. Swiss people drink more for example, and obviously Irish and British people too.

HauntedBungalow · 20/02/2025 17:43

Charlottejbt · 20/02/2025 17:21

Yeah, but mildly depressing dormitory towns (I worked in one last year) and a hellish commute over the border at rush hours. Might as well live in the British provinces and commute to London! If I was going to work in Switzerland I'd want to live there eventually. Possibly not too exciting for twentysomethings though.

Switzerland is boring. Orson Welles was right.

WatchingTheClowns · 20/02/2025 17:44

Poland. I wish I wasn't too old to move there.

ssd · 20/02/2025 18:40

Just came back to my thread...why was the first answer deleted, i didn't see anything wrong with it?

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Echobelly · 20/02/2025 18:41

Germany maybe, albeit somewhere quirky like Berlin. My oldest has just been there and quite fancies the idea of moving there at some point, and I wouldn't discourage them.

ssd · 20/02/2025 18:49

Dc fancies Berlin or Denmark/Finland. Though not sure if they could work in these places since Brexit.

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Petrine · 20/02/2025 19:01

menopausalfart · 20/02/2025 13:34

The happiest country on Earth, Finland.

Finland has a very high suicide rate and many have problems with alcohol. The problem with alcohol means that it is only available in state-owned shops.

FacingTheWall · 20/02/2025 19:08

crackofdoom · 20/02/2025 14:02

France.

I did live in Italy at that age, but behind the pretty facade the country just didn't work very well- and sexual harassment was endemic, and the government was appallingly right wing. I don't really know if it's improved much in the last 25 years- certainly the trains have, and health care looks better on the surface, but wrt the government it's same old same old.

A couple of recent tragedies (ponte Morandi, the bus crash in Mestre) certainly suggest that the road infrastructure is still in a terrible state, and the government messaging around the latter accident was certainly reminiscent of the Berlusconi years.

All of this about Italy still holds true. DS has moved there for work, and although he loves it in general, he hates anything which involves having to deal with a civil servant or government official. Nothing about the systems works at all, horrendously inefficient. Much worse than the U.K. Trains are good though, so long as they’re not on strike!

AcquadiP · 20/02/2025 19:10

Italy.

crackofdoom · 20/02/2025 21:30

ssd · 20/02/2025 18:49

Dc fancies Berlin or Denmark/Finland. Though not sure if they could work in these places since Brexit.

We'd better hope that Starmer eventually caves and allows the youth mobility scheme- for all our kids.

CheshireCat1 · 20/02/2025 21:33

This one, the UK, there’s no place like home

Paq · 20/02/2025 21:37

Ireland

SleepQuest33 · 20/02/2025 21:42

The Netherlands

LadyCrumb · 20/02/2025 21:54

SleepQuest33 · 20/02/2025 21:42

The Netherlands

me too!

WallaceinAnderland · 20/02/2025 22:04

They would need a work visa so would need to be fluent in the language. Does that narrow down the choices?

MH0084 · 20/02/2025 22:05

I would be in the next flight to Dubai if I didn't have any DC.

Carol52 · 20/02/2025 22:18

Australia definitely leave here this country finished to busy helping everyone else except the British people

DucklingSwimmingInstructress · 20/02/2025 22:24

TwoLeftSocksWithHoles · 20/02/2025 16:57

The way things are looking in the world at the moment I would plump for Atlantis.

Only trouble is, you'd better be able to swim well.

CurtainsCurtain · 20/02/2025 22:29

HauntedBungalow · 20/02/2025 17:43

Switzerland is boring. Orson Welles was right.

Yes, it’s terribly dull. I wouldn’t last six months.

I moved to the UK when I was 25. I still think it was a good decision, and living in London for a decade was great, though I left the UK again after Brexit. I’ve also lived in France, the US, Ireland and the UAE.

Sunnydays25 · 20/02/2025 22:35

I was going to say Australia or New Zealand, as probably the most likely of the english speaking democracies to ride out the global shit show of autocrats with expansionist aims, but I think I'd go for a small polynesian island instead, which hopefully no one at all would want to invade.

AustralianCrunch · 20/02/2025 22:47

Australia