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Teachers to get legal support against parents who defame them amid huge rise in vexatious complaints

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noblegiraffe · 20/02/2025 11:48

Amid a huge rise in vexatious complaints against schools and teachers, a headteacher has been awarded damages against two parents who conducted a campaign of harassment against him.

https://www.theguardian.com/education/2025/feb/16/secondary-school-teacher-paid-damages-after-alleged-harassment-by-pupils-parents

An academy trust who provide sickness insurance cover will now also cover defamation https://schoolsweek.co.uk/cease-and-desist-trust-supports-staff-to-sue-online-trolls/

"Schools often end up dealing with the same complaint on multiple occasions. This is because parents wishing to complain about a school can submit their grievance to numerous agencies: the Department for Education, the Education and Skills Funding Agency (ESFA), Ofsted and the Teaching Regulation Agency, as well as their MP and local media." https://www.tes.com/magazine/news/general/majority-school-leaders-see-rise-parent-complaints

"In the meantime, the NAHT is seeing school complaints policies “being ignored, and complaints being escalated straight to the DfE or Ofsted”, according to assistant general secretary James Bowen."

Generally, this rise in vexatious parental complaints is unmanageable for schools at a time when services are already stretched to breaking. So if you have a genuine complaint about a teacher or the school

  1. follow the school complaints procedure (this should be on their website).
  2. do not fire off the complaint to multiple agencies at the same time
  3. do not try to whip up a frenzy among parents on social media
  4. do not defame teachers on social media
  5. do not stalk and harass teachers or their families
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destiel00 · 20/02/2025 11:56

When he was SofS for Education nadim zahawi told parents to go straight to ofsted!

I stepped down being a Governor a couple of years ago after 20 years - the end of the line for me was parents hand delivering complaint letters to my home.

I contacted the trust who basically shrugged, so I resigned .

I could tell you stories that would make your hair curl.

I'm staggered that schools can recruit teachers and governors tbh

It's crazy. Just crazy.

noblegiraffe · 20/02/2025 12:03

the end of the line for me was parents hand delivering complaint letters to my home.

Bloody hell that is awful. What is wrong with people?

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RaraRachael · 20/02/2025 12:05

I live in a small town where everybody knows everybody else. We had a local lady trained and did our NQT year with us. In her class were 4 girls whose parents had been at school with her. They conducted a witch hunt against her "I'm not having somebody who worked in Tesco teaching my child" etc etc. The HT was of no great support and as these women were from well known families in the town, they were believed.
The teacher had a breakdown and didn't even finish her year.

I really wish something like this had been in place for her.

Vitriolinsanity · 20/02/2025 12:08

It isn't just teachers @noblegiraffe it is anyone that works in a school.

I have had complaints raised against me for removing jacket potatoes from the menu and changing the pick up times for wraparound.

Strictly1 · 20/02/2025 12:15

How many times do we read on here ‘complain to Ofsted’. They want to complain but not follow the proper channels. Some thrive on drama sadly.

noblegiraffe · 20/02/2025 12:20

Yes, lots of minor complaints on here have 'go straight to Ofsted' as a response. People need to pack it in.

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Bitteroldshrew · 20/02/2025 12:24

Totally agreed with this post. I was a Chair of Governors and had to deal with a small group of parents submitting vexatious complaints.
Basically they wanted the Headteacher sacked and when the complaints did not result in the this they escalated.
It took so much time and emotional energy. I resigned in the end as I just couldn't take any more of these people. The Head is still in post and just had an Outstanding Ofsted. There are some proper idiots out there!

PearlClutzsche · 20/02/2025 12:26

I used to be a primary school teacher. When I started, it was a shameful thing to being trouble at school: parents would admonish their children for this. By the time I left, parent/school relations had changed for the worse, and the attitude towards teachers had deteriorated. If you dared tell off a child - justifiably - for their misbehaviour, parents came in angry to the school, demanding your blood for upsetting their pandered to little darling.

I'm glad to see that teachers' need for more support is being recognised.

noblegiraffe · 20/02/2025 12:30

Vitriolinsanity · 20/02/2025 12:08

It isn't just teachers @noblegiraffe it is anyone that works in a school.

I have had complaints raised against me for removing jacket potatoes from the menu and changing the pick up times for wraparound.

I can see why parents might want to respond to something like changing pick-up times as that could be really inconvenient, it's the tone that these complaints come in that can really make a difference here.

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noblegiraffe · 20/02/2025 12:31

Thinking about it, I've had to report quite a few threads on MN over the years where posters have tried to kick off a discussion about how shitty X teacher at Y school is. Thankfully MNHQ have always deleted them.

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HollyBerryz · 20/02/2025 12:32

Ofsted don't deal with complaints generally though do they. And nor do the DfE, so saying parents can complain via multiple avenues isn't accurate. In my experience it's school, governors/trust (who in my experience label all complaints vexatious) then nothing. There's no proper independent oversight of school complaints at all. Perhaps it would been for everyone all round if there was.

noblegiraffe · 20/02/2025 12:34

Ofsted don't deal with complaints generally though do they. And nor do the DfE, so saying parents can complain via multiple avenues isn't accurate.

Parents do file complaints with those bodies though, regardless of whether it is appropriate.

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Leeto888 · 20/02/2025 12:36

I am in full support of teachers being protected but whilst this head is boasting about his ‘victory’ he appears to be a divisive character locally. His lawyer told the court his costs were £500k at which point the court had a strong word to both sides and the head settled for £10k including costs. Mediation before this point would have been much more advisable. Maybe they tried this? I don’t know how many LEAs would be willing to rack up £500k costs to support a teacher from some Facebook posts.

HollyBerryz · 20/02/2025 12:38

noblegiraffe · 20/02/2025 12:34

Ofsted don't deal with complaints generally though do they. And nor do the DfE, so saying parents can complain via multiple avenues isn't accurate.

Parents do file complaints with those bodies though, regardless of whether it is appropriate.

Your Op said:

'Schools often end up dealing with the same complaint on multiple occasions. This is because parents wishing to complain about a school can submit their grievance to numerous agencies: the Department for Education, the Education and Skills Funding Agency (ESFA), Ofsted and the Teaching Regulation Agency, as well as their MP and local media.'

This isn't true as Ofsted don't deal with complaints just log them on a system where they might get looked at next time the school is inspected. The DfE just log them to see if improvements to policies are required (which is clearly stated on their website). The TRA wouldn't even register a complaint let alone investigate it unless it's very serious. Therefore schools aren't dealing with the same complaint multiple times at all.

noblegiraffe · 20/02/2025 12:43

Leeto888 · 20/02/2025 12:36

I am in full support of teachers being protected but whilst this head is boasting about his ‘victory’ he appears to be a divisive character locally. His lawyer told the court his costs were £500k at which point the court had a strong word to both sides and the head settled for £10k including costs. Mediation before this point would have been much more advisable. Maybe they tried this? I don’t know how many LEAs would be willing to rack up £500k costs to support a teacher from some Facebook posts.

Regardless of how divisive he is locally or not, 'Much of the abuse was carried out online, with the social media account attracting individuals with grievances against the school, including previously excluded pupils, who allegedly posted insulting and offensive comments about Flanagan.'
'The couple were also accused of confronting Flanagan and the school’s co-chair of governors outside their individual family homes, and pursuing Flanagan’s partner in a “dangerous and threatening way” while driving, which they denied.'

Some of the stuff I've seen that was supposedly posted about this teacher is awful, and the couple also had to agree to multiple restraining orders. I'm glad he was supported in bringing this case.

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SuperTrooper14 · 20/02/2025 12:45

Leeto888 · 20/02/2025 12:36

I am in full support of teachers being protected but whilst this head is boasting about his ‘victory’ he appears to be a divisive character locally. His lawyer told the court his costs were £500k at which point the court had a strong word to both sides and the head settled for £10k including costs. Mediation before this point would have been much more advisable. Maybe they tried this? I don’t know how many LEAs would be willing to rack up £500k costs to support a teacher from some Facebook posts.

Did you not read what the parents did? Started up FB groups to purposely defame him and get other parents to target him, stalked him outside his home, drove dangerously while following his partner to intimidate her. You could argue that plenty of teachers are divisive figures, loved by some pupils, loathed by others, but the parents' behaviour in this case was unjustifiable. His partner could've been hurt. The Governors and the LEA impressed the parents to stop but they refused. That's why the LEA was prepared to support him.

HollyBerryz · 20/02/2025 12:46

Leeto888 · 20/02/2025 12:36

I am in full support of teachers being protected but whilst this head is boasting about his ‘victory’ he appears to be a divisive character locally. His lawyer told the court his costs were £500k at which point the court had a strong word to both sides and the head settled for £10k including costs. Mediation before this point would have been much more advisable. Maybe they tried this? I don’t know how many LEAs would be willing to rack up £500k costs to support a teacher from some Facebook posts.

He's not really helped his case there is he. Especially now he looks wildly more vexatious himself!

noblegiraffe · 20/02/2025 12:48

HollyBerryz · 20/02/2025 12:46

He's not really helped his case there is he. Especially now he looks wildly more vexatious himself!

? What happened to him is terrible.

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Strictly1 · 20/02/2025 12:48

HollyBerryz · 20/02/2025 12:38

Your Op said:

'Schools often end up dealing with the same complaint on multiple occasions. This is because parents wishing to complain about a school can submit their grievance to numerous agencies: the Department for Education, the Education and Skills Funding Agency (ESFA), Ofsted and the Teaching Regulation Agency, as well as their MP and local media.'

This isn't true as Ofsted don't deal with complaints just log them on a system where they might get looked at next time the school is inspected. The DfE just log them to see if improvements to policies are required (which is clearly stated on their website). The TRA wouldn't even register a complaint let alone investigate it unless it's very serious. Therefore schools aren't dealing with the same complaint multiple times at all.

To be fair - this is accurate. It just gets batted back down to school. However, some of the complaints are ridiculous and take up so much time and go on for months as parents take it to the next step.

I fully agree there should be a right way to address concerns but when they’re ridiculous they should be shut down quickly and common sense should prevail. Rather than the stamping of feet and I’ll get my own way we seem to get a lot of now.

Demanding FOI or SAR simply to annoy you because they didn’t ‘win’. When staff are busy redacting pointless paperwork they’re not doing other things which would make a positive difference to children.

I’ve been teaching 25 years now. The difference between when I started and now, regarding relationships with parents, society etc is huge. We do not always get it right but it’s gone too far and the minority take up so much time and energy. I have staff warning me when they’ve told a particular child off so expect a lengthy email later. I suspect sometimes staff also turn a blind eye at times as they can’t face dealing with parents later. All very sad and not in the best interests of our children.

noblegiraffe · 20/02/2025 12:49

This isn't true as Ofsted don't deal with complaints just log them on a system where they might get looked at next time the school is inspected.

So you mean that Ofsted could bring it up during an inspection and the school has to deal with that?

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SuperTrooper14 · 20/02/2025 12:49

HollyBerryz · 20/02/2025 12:46

He's not really helped his case there is he. Especially now he looks wildly more vexatious himself!

How is taking legal steps to defend yourself against continued and aggressive harassment being vexatious?

HollyBerryz · 20/02/2025 12:51

@SuperTrooper14 I was referring to him trying to claim 500k in expenses and settling for 10 once the judge had a word.

SuperTrooper14 · 20/02/2025 12:55

Frankly it's about time teachers are supported to legally defend themselves. My OH is a primary school teacher and he had a situation where a parent took umbrage about their child receiving a reprimand for misbehaving in front of other kids during a lesson. They tried to whip up other parents on the class WA to complain about my OH but thankfully the class rep intervened to stop the defamation. But had any parents supported the complainers, it could've blown up and he could've ended up facing a disciplinary. Teachers are held to such strict standards by the TRA that what might seem like a minor complaint can end up being potentially career ending. Teachers need to be able to defend themselves against false slurs.

SuperTrooper14 · 20/02/2025 12:56

HollyBerryz · 20/02/2025 12:51

@SuperTrooper14 I was referring to him trying to claim 500k in expenses and settling for 10 once the judge had a word.

We don't know what costs were awarded against the parents.

TossieFleacake · 20/02/2025 13:02

noblegiraffe · 20/02/2025 12:43

Regardless of how divisive he is locally or not, 'Much of the abuse was carried out online, with the social media account attracting individuals with grievances against the school, including previously excluded pupils, who allegedly posted insulting and offensive comments about Flanagan.'
'The couple were also accused of confronting Flanagan and the school’s co-chair of governors outside their individual family homes, and pursuing Flanagan’s partner in a “dangerous and threatening way” while driving, which they denied.'

Some of the stuff I've seen that was supposedly posted about this teacher is awful, and the couple also had to agree to multiple restraining orders. I'm glad he was supported in bringing this case.

I can assure you that if your child had been a pupil at this school, and had needed any SEN support, that you would feel very differently about this case.
Don't believe everything you read in the media.

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