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Do you have online friends?

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H0P · 12/02/2025 07:40

I mean friends that you met online and that you chat to regularly? Perhaps you've met up with them.
I have some online friends, we have met twice in three years.
I really enjoy their friendship but sometimes think that perhaps I should be putting more effort into my real life friendships. Why am I putting so much energy into people I rarely see?
Just wondered about others experiences.

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Haribosweets · 12/02/2025 07:53

I used to. Met a bunch of lovely ladies on a baby chat forum back in 2009. We used to chat regularly online and became FB friends. I even met one who lived around 50 miles away. As time went on we stopped posting online and I have removed off FB as nothing in common. I didn't like seeing their children meeting milestones etc and how confident they were on FB posts when my son has SEN. It upset me do another reason I removed.

RampantIvy · 12/02/2025 07:54

No. All my friends are people I have met in RL.

Ddakji · 12/02/2025 07:55

Yes, and met them in real life. Not really through MN, more Twitter.

Esperanza25 · 12/02/2025 07:57

Yes, have online friends through a shared hobby that I message daily. Also do occasional video calls. They live in various countries worldwide and we've all gained a huge amount from our friendship. Some of us have now met in person. Never thought I'd have this, I'm not young!

ViciousCurrentBun · 12/02/2025 08:17

Yes, through gaming and I did meet up with six of them once at a group meet up I have some friends I have gamed with online since 2013. A couple live in the States, we all plan to meet up with our partners in tow next year.

EBearhug · 12/02/2025 08:23

Yes, through here and through another board. We have met up, had weekends away together and so on. I probably see about as much of them as I do friends I met IRL who don't live locally.

PetsNPaws · 04/11/2025 01:53

Yeah, I’ve got a couple of online friends I talk to more than the people I actually see in person.

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