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Being forced down a certain path

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TheTurnTables · 10/02/2025 18:46

Do you know of anyone who was forced/pressured/guided down a subject/career path?

If so, honestly, did they stick with the career and have success? Or did they leave it for something else?

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Fabulousfeb · 10/02/2025 19:12

Yes, knocked them off course, made them feel incredibly depressed and halted their life for several years.

NosyJosie · 10/02/2025 19:12

Not sure what the nature of your question or your situation is but the world is full of people who hate their chosen careers. Never a good idea to push kids to be one thing. Over time people tend to excel in what they find passion in. I will also say that the vast majority of people I know 40+ are not doing whatever they did a degree in.

theduchessofspork · 10/02/2025 19:13

I know people in both camps

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NosyJosie · 10/02/2025 19:12

Not sure what the nature of your question or your situation is but the world is full of people who hate their chosen careers. Never a good idea to push kids to be one thing. Over time people tend to excel in what they find passion in. I will also say that the vast majority of people I know 40+ are not doing whatever they did a degree in.

My parents tried to push me towards the financial sector. I remember getting told off for not wanting to work such hours. They didn't believe the hours were horrendous at all.

But I now do not work in finance and I genuinely like the career I've been doing.

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