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Do you ever WFH in bed?

339 replies

Spocyfriedchi · 07/02/2025 21:03

I have an office job. All I need is my laptop. Yes a big screen helps, but my job is mostly excel and then some word and PowerPoint.

Someday (especially when I have anxiety) I like working in bed and feeling all cosy.

Does anyone else do this?

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blueshoes · 08/02/2025 13:01

MarkWithaC · 08/02/2025 11:12

Is that an established fact? The “deleterious effect on morale“? Or do you and your HR department just enjoy wielding power?

No, it is to weed out the piss-takers. An unpleasant but necessary role of managers.

Working from bed, like working on your phone while walking the dog, or taking calls from soft play area, add to the perception of low productivity. If this is tolerated, it will send a signal to other employees this is allowed. Therefore, if other employees are not piss-taking, they should see that the piss-takers are being dealt with.

Otherwise, the result is that the employer asks everybody to come into the office, which nobody wants. It is called balancing everyone's interests.

blueshoes · 08/02/2025 13:06

BornSandyDevotional · 08/02/2025 12:05

You definitely have that wrong. They care more about the eyebrows and the background. There's a kind of perfect mix between perfectly groomed but tousled with gel and that zen white one with implausible potted plants that hits a sweet spot. Source: many, many years of spouting utter nonsense for cash.

You do half spout nonsense. Don't think that will go unnoticed.

BornSandyDevotional · 08/02/2025 13:11

blueshoes · 08/02/2025 13:06

You do half spout nonsense. Don't think that will go unnoticed.

Okay. Thanks. Noticed by whom? I was hoping I spouted nonsense fully. But since a sense of humour bypass during COVID, I haven't been firing on all cylinders. Indeed, I often WFH in bed these days. Albeit with beautiful eyebrows.

Treesandsheepeverywhere · 08/02/2025 13:13

Playingintheshadow · 08/02/2025 00:55

Most of us manage to fulfil our roles because we work outside normal working hours!

So if there is any shortfall inside normal working hours, it gets made up for by working outside of normal working hours!

That's why I said it's the lazy few.....

There are people on SM instead of working, they say so on similar threads.

So not sure what your point is.

Treesandsheepeverywhere · 08/02/2025 13:14

Hazeby · 08/02/2025 07:28

It's posts like these with others agreeing they do they same that kills WFH for the rest of us. No matter how many people work hard at home, the perceived slacking off by working in bed or on the sofa in front of the telly, doing housework in work hours, is what's driving the push for people to be back in the office

This sums it up pretty neatly.

Precisely, and threads with such posts aren't helping the argument to keep wfh.

Treesandsheepeverywhere · 08/02/2025 13:16

blueshoes · 08/02/2025 13:06

You do half spout nonsense. Don't think that will go unnoticed.

🤣🤣, true.

Mirabai · 08/02/2025 13:23

blueshoes · 08/02/2025 12:56

Since you are self-employed, it is fine for you to be as productive or unproductive as you like. You decide how to get the job done.

Not in the case of employees who are given the privilege of WFH.

Indeed and I’m not going to fire myself.

But I don’t find working in bed to be unproductive. If I had an employee doing it it really wouldn’t bother me as long as they got the work done.

BornSandyDevotional · 08/02/2025 13:38

Treesandsheepeverywhere · 08/02/2025 13:16

🤣🤣, true.

I've already expressed my disappointment to only be half spouting nonsense. There's no need for the Mumsnet emoji mafia to be coming after me with their comments about noticing my my less than adequate nonsense output or their duo of pmsl faces. Which I imagine is done pretty easily from bed. So well done you. You can languish permanently. Until the bed sores kick in, I guess.

BornSandyDevotional · 08/02/2025 13:43

Treesandsheepeverywhere · 08/02/2025 13:14

Precisely, and threads with such posts aren't helping the argument to keep wfh.

I just assumed it was another vehemently anti WFH thread? Which is why I've been facetious. Because it's flagrantly obvious that it doesn't matter where people work if they're good at their job, right? If employers are concerned about performance, they will manage people out. It really is that simple.

MarkWithaC · 08/02/2025 13:50

blueshoes · 08/02/2025 13:01

No, it is to weed out the piss-takers. An unpleasant but necessary role of managers.

Working from bed, like working on your phone while walking the dog, or taking calls from soft play area, add to the perception of low productivity. If this is tolerated, it will send a signal to other employees this is allowed. Therefore, if other employees are not piss-taking, they should see that the piss-takers are being dealt with.

Otherwise, the result is that the employer asks everybody to come into the office, which nobody wants. It is called balancing everyone's interests.

I see. Pour encourager les autres. Great management technique, that. Really helps with management/employee relations and morale.

Treesandsheepeverywhere · 08/02/2025 13:52

BornSandyDevotional · 08/02/2025 13:38

I've already expressed my disappointment to only be half spouting nonsense. There's no need for the Mumsnet emoji mafia to be coming after me with their comments about noticing my my less than adequate nonsense output or their duo of pmsl faces. Which I imagine is done pretty easily from bed. So well done you. You can languish permanently. Until the bed sores kick in, I guess.

Edited

Emoji mafia,
Coming after you,
Languishing?

You go & do that. 🤪

claudiawinklemansfringetrimmer · 08/02/2025 13:54

I mostly work from my dining table but have to sit on the bed if the kids are home for some reason. Occasionally even use my daughter’s bed if baby is napping in my room 😂good thing I’ve got a background on teams as definitely wouldn’t look professional surrounded by teddies!

BornSandyDevotional · 08/02/2025 13:55

CassandraWebb · 08/02/2025 12:47

And yet I have managed to have a glittering and fulfilling career without ever giving any thought to either ...

I guess I don't spout nonsense though

I thought by 'giving legal advice' you were a solicitor. Given that you don't spout nonsense, I accept this was a hasty and ill-advised judgement - without basis - and apologise unreservedly.

BornSandyDevotional · 08/02/2025 13:56

Treesandsheepeverywhere · 08/02/2025 13:52

Emoji mafia,
Coming after you,
Languishing?

You go & do that. 🤪

Good grief. *Sighs"

Playingintheshadow · 08/02/2025 14:03

blueshoes · 08/02/2025 00:47

No, I would ask them to not work in bed. And if they insisted, I would ask them to come into the office to work. If they did not, I would inform HR and my manager that I would like to start a disciplinary action with their support. Then I would implement it.

Working in bed has a deleterious effect on the morale of other employees who do not take the piss. As a manager, I am doing my job.

You are clearly one of those managers.

D'you know what, you wouldn't even know!

Imagine a disciplinary for working from bed! HR would piss themselves laughing!!

FrenchandSaunders · 08/02/2025 14:08

Not usually but I did yesterday as I was hanging.

sunshineandshowers40 · 08/02/2025 14:16

No, I don't. I have occasionally worked on my bed for an hour if the room I usually use isn't free. I like to get up, showered and dressed when WFH or it has a negative impact on my mood.

blueshoes · 08/02/2025 14:24

Playingintheshadow · 08/02/2025 14:03

You are clearly one of those managers.

D'you know what, you wouldn't even know!

Imagine a disciplinary for working from bed! HR would piss themselves laughing!!

You know HR works for the company. It is not a union for employees who piss-take.

If you feel you are productive, I am sure you will no shame in turning on your camera and letting your manager know.

I am in fact in the process of working with HR to get rid of a piss taker (also a manager no less). I don't know if this person works from their bed, but I would not be surprised if they did not even get out of it sometimes. It comes with the territory.

MarkWithaC · 08/02/2025 15:40

blueshoes · 08/02/2025 14:24

You know HR works for the company. It is not a union for employees who piss-take.

If you feel you are productive, I am sure you will no shame in turning on your camera and letting your manager know.

I am in fact in the process of working with HR to get rid of a piss taker (also a manager no less). I don't know if this person works from their bed, but I would not be surprised if they did not even get out of it sometimes. It comes with the territory.

Edited

This insistence on equating working from bed with piss taking is quite fascinating.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 08/02/2025 15:46

MotionIntheOcean · 08/02/2025 07:16

Obviously there's no way anyone could have a computer based job where they don't use Excel or Powerpoint...

This attachment to multiple screens is a new thing on me. I knew some people had them, and get how they'd be useful in certain roles, but I have never had a job where the employer routinely provided or expected staff to be using them. You'd have to ask. I don't actually have an office, but if I did, the workstations in the one that exists have one screen.

Obviously there's no way anyone could have a computer based job where they don't use Excel or Powerpoint...

What are they? Most of my work is with plain text files.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 08/02/2025 15:53

BornSandyDevotional · 08/02/2025 02:35

It is always very important to brush your hair and define your eyebrows for video calls. Little bit of lip gloss. Don't wear pyjamas. If you prefer to work in bed. Work in bed. I think it's fine.

What on earth do you mean by "define" in the context of eyebrows?

blueshoes · 08/02/2025 16:15

MarkWithaC · 08/02/2025 15:40

This insistence on equating working from bed with piss taking is quite fascinating.

We are going around in circles now, aren't we?

Spocyfriedchi · 08/02/2025 16:27

I didn't mean to start an argument.

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TwatOnAHotTinRoof · 08/02/2025 16:29

Spocyfriedchi · 08/02/2025 16:27

I didn't mean to start an argument.

Most things on mnet descend into an argument these days @Spocyfriedchi 😂.

Stealer · 08/02/2025 18:25

Spocyfriedchi · 08/02/2025 16:27

I didn't mean to start an argument.

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