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I fancy my chiropractor

14 replies

ThePerkyCoralPoet · 02/02/2025 23:43

Totally unprofessional. I know. I’m 29 and single and quite frankly he’s beautiful. But I have a bit of a crush on him😂this is so pathetic I know. I last saw him around November last year and stopped going for obvious reasons. I’m bound to be absolutely annihilated in the comments. But I actually can’t help it.

I know I can’t ask him out and he can’t ask me out either and I need to find another chiropractor. But I do need vent this one out.

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fourelementary · 03/02/2025 07:46

You’ve not done anything wrong so I don’t see why anyone would be horrible. I’m sure you could ask him out if you wanted to- he’s not in a position of power like a teacher etc so I doubt it’s an ethical issue for him although he may have his own personal boundary of not dating clients.

If you’re not going to go back as you fancy him, you could always email or message him to say that- and ask him out. Nothing to lose!!

bomalan · 03/02/2025 07:48

I wouldn't stop going just because you fancy him.

Carry on as normal. Most of his clients probably fancy him.

Lurkingandlearning · 03/02/2025 07:51

Once you have a new chiropractor there’s nothing to stop you asking him out. I just hope the new one is as skilled and rather plain looking.😁

Duckyfondant · 03/02/2025 07:58

You don't need to be professional, you're the client! If you aren't going to ask him out or flirt outrageously then there's no reason to stop seeing him for sessions.

LovelySunnyDayToday · 03/02/2025 18:24

Ask him out!!!

ThePerkyCoralPoet · 03/02/2025 20:36

LovelySunnyDayToday · 03/02/2025 18:24

Ask him out!!!

imagine the rejection😂😂he’d probably say yeah thanks I get plenty of women asking me no thank you

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ThePerkyCoralPoet · 03/02/2025 20:43

bomalan · 03/02/2025 07:48

I wouldn't stop going just because you fancy him.

Carry on as normal. Most of his clients probably fancy him.

Exactly. Just another number😂

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ThePerkyCoralPoet · 03/02/2025 20:44

Duckyfondant · 03/02/2025 07:58

You don't need to be professional, you're the client! If you aren't going to ask him out or flirt outrageously then there's no reason to stop seeing him for sessions.

I would love to flirt outrageously with him. I would love nothing more than that. I saw his business page and honestly. For the love of god I actually need to get a grip😂

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Spicykitten · 03/02/2025 20:46

If it helps, I have a bit of a crush on my GP. She’s gorgeous. I’d never ever act on it though. We’ve all been there!

ThePerkyCoralPoet · 03/02/2025 20:54

Spicykitten · 03/02/2025 20:46

If it helps, I have a bit of a crush on my GP. She’s gorgeous. I’d never ever act on it though. We’ve all been there!

It’s hard to not act on it. I have no idea how to flirt either. I’m just thinking in my head tough me allll over

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ThePerkyCoralPoet · 03/02/2025 20:54

Touch. Ffs

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Whataretalkingabout · 03/02/2025 22:24

I totally get it OP. I really fancy my physiotherapist and he is probably half my age ! He is Argentinian and gorgeous! He gives the most fabulous massages ( a bit embarrassing when he yanks down my trousers and underwear to smear my lower back with cream!) I just try not look him in the eye and enjoy every minute! ;) I say go for it or just enjoy it while it lasts!!

fourelementary · 03/02/2025 23:21

Whataretalkingabout · 03/02/2025 22:24

I totally get it OP. I really fancy my physiotherapist and he is probably half my age ! He is Argentinian and gorgeous! He gives the most fabulous massages ( a bit embarrassing when he yanks down my trousers and underwear to smear my lower back with cream!) I just try not look him in the eye and enjoy every minute! ;) I say go for it or just enjoy it while it lasts!!

Ummm he doesn’t sound very professional- you should be in charge of removing or lowering clothing. Not him…

Whataretalkingabout · 04/02/2025 13:12

@fourelementary , I was a bit surprised the first time but he only does it just enough to not get gel on my clothes. It's not embarrassing.

I live in a southern European country though where people aren't overly prudish... He probably sees me as his dm's age.

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