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Would you take a week off sick because of your mental health?

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zandae · 24/01/2025 19:20

You’re working your 8 weeks notice period. Work is very stressful and your boss is a bully who demands you work late and makes you work weekends without any additional pay.

Your mental health is taking a hit and you feel dark. Would you take a week off sick to help you get through it? You can take 5 days off without a note.

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SuperLoudPoppingAction · 24/01/2025 19:21

Yes. If I were ill, I would take time off rather than showing up and doing a poor job at work. Working when you're unwell just makes you worse ime.

Alphabet1spaghetti2 · 24/01/2025 19:21

Yes.

LittleRedRidingHoody · 24/01/2025 19:21

Yes absolutely, if you need it you need it.

GMH1974 · 24/01/2025 19:21

Do you already have another job lined up to go to afterwards?

DinaofCloud9 · 24/01/2025 19:21

Yes especially if you're leaving because of them.

Bepanthensavedmybumbum · 24/01/2025 19:23

Take the entire time off.

TraCant · 24/01/2025 19:26

your boss is a bully who demands you work late and makes you work weekends without any additional pay.

Under these circumstances I'd go to GP and get signed off for the remaining period with work related stress

123ZYX · 24/01/2025 19:31

Have you got references sorted? If so, just work your contracted hours - they can't do anything to stop you

Hotflushesandchilblains · 24/01/2025 19:37

I would be tempted to sign off sick for the rest of my notice period, if the boss is as bad as you say.

HamSandwichKiller · 24/01/2025 19:39

Just make sure you get full pay during your notice period (assuming you normally do) as
some places have different rules for notice periods.

Greenbottle123 · 24/01/2025 19:44

zandae · 24/01/2025 19:20

You’re working your 8 weeks notice period. Work is very stressful and your boss is a bully who demands you work late and makes you work weekends without any additional pay.

Your mental health is taking a hit and you feel dark. Would you take a week off sick to help you get through it? You can take 5 days off without a note.

Yes

vdbfamily · 24/01/2025 19:49

I agree with just working your contracted hours and do not do work you are not paid to do. You are working notice so stand your ground. What is the worst that can happen?

Spicykitten · 24/01/2025 19:50

zandae · 24/01/2025 19:20

You’re working your 8 weeks notice period. Work is very stressful and your boss is a bully who demands you work late and makes you work weekends without any additional pay.

Your mental health is taking a hit and you feel dark. Would you take a week off sick to help you get through it? You can take 5 days off without a note.

I certainly would, especially because it sounds like your job is pure hell.

Do you have paid sick leave? Certainly use it up since you’re at your notice period anyway.

I hope things get better for you. I know what it’s like to have a terrible time at work - it’s awful.

BobbyBiscuits · 24/01/2025 19:51

I'd take the rest of my life off sick if I needed it.

HellofromJohnCraven · 24/01/2025 19:54

Yes I would

Marylou2 · 24/01/2025 19:58

Oh bless you. Have the time off. If you have to go in just imagine being in a bubble where their behaviour slides off it. You'll be free soon. Start and finish on time and absolutely refuse to work an extra minute. You've got this. It'll all be over soon.Good luck.

XenoBitch · 24/01/2025 20:00

I would get a note for the rest of my notice. Your boss is still going to be a twat if you go back after a week.

mindutopia · 24/01/2025 20:29

I’d take the whole thing off. You can get a sick note easily from your GP. I had 3 months off work last year in similar circumstances.

supercatlady · 24/01/2025 20:50

As a PP has mentioned, check your sick pay policy. A place I worked for paid SSP only during your notice period.

MummytoE · 24/01/2025 20:53

zandae · 24/01/2025 19:20

You’re working your 8 weeks notice period. Work is very stressful and your boss is a bully who demands you work late and makes you work weekends without any additional pay.

Your mental health is taking a hit and you feel dark. Would you take a week off sick to help you get through it? You can take 5 days off without a note.

Mental health is health. So rephrase your question but take mental out of it. Would you take a week off if your health was suffering? Yes I hope it's the answer

MummytoE · 24/01/2025 20:54

You're leaving anyway and at end of the day you are just a number to them. Put yourself first

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