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Am I fooling myself? (School run & distance)

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december2020 · 20/01/2025 20:44

I wasn't sure what topic to put this under, so opted for Chat.

The first choice school I'd pick for DS is about 2.2 miles away.

Maps says it is about a 50 minute walk, 14 min bike ride and 10 minute drive.
DS will be starting reception, so 4 years old turning 5, so he has little legs and walking is boring.

We've got one car at the moment and due to work patterns between DH and I, there won't always be a car available for school pick ups and drop offs

On car days, parking will be very limited. DH can carry on to work when he's doing the school run, for me, I'd need to drive back home to then walk to the train station.

On non-car days, I need to get to the school, then carry on to the train station to get to the office. DH takes the car due to his work and hours.

We are looking to get another car, but need to have a back-up plan till then. Even so, car days for me aren't ideal with the back and forth and then walk to the station. It may even be faster for me to go to the station straight from the school.

Am I fooling myself that we can make this work? What would even be the best commute pattern? DH and I both work full time and have no family nearby to help, so it is solely on us.

I think this would be the hands down absolute best school and choice for DS, hence why I am seriously considering it.

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JoelleLane · 22/01/2025 07:02

TheGhostOfTheYearYetToCome · 21/01/2025 22:47

The fact you think this is in any way comparable shows you have no knowledge of commuting in either circumstance.

Why?

I have experience of both!

quiteathome · 22/01/2025 07:26

One advantage of the local school is you might meet people you can walk with, and who in an emergency could take or collect your child from school, and obviously you could do the same for them. Also once you child is old enough they can walk themselves to school.

You can provide enrichment yourself.

I would definitely pop to each school at pick up and drop off time to see what that is like.

december2020 · 13/10/2025 18:40

As a final update - I ended up sending DS to a school that is a 10 minute drive away, but a little bit easier with commutes to London.
I also learnt to drive and got a second small zippy car. (we would have needed to get a second care regardless due to DH's work).

Best decision ever.

I'm more independent and building up my driving confidence and DC is absolutely thriving at school and loves it.
And they have the ability for good wrap around care taking the stress away.

So a win win situation for everyone.

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birdling · 14/10/2025 21:34

That's a lovely update. Glad it all worked out well for you.

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