Hi, name changed for this
a few years back I went to the police to report my bf at the time SA. I was advised by everyone around me to report him due to his nature of work.
The police interviewed me and then asked if I wanted to take it further and for them to contact him, potentially arrest under caution or just a warning.
I was afraid and in the end I said no and requested the case to be closed. They said that I could re-contact them at any point.
Ive seen through social media (it popped up as a friend of a friend commented on it) that he has recently been accepted for a new role, working closely with the public, and I wondered if my allegation would show on his DBS check? He was never contacted, as I had closed it. So I wanted to show if all of a sudden his DBS will come back and show him that he had been reported? I know this sounds ridiculous, but I don’t want him to suddenly be aware of the report having been unaware until now? I feel quite sick.
thank you