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The Christmas tree is down!

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ILikeMySuitcase · 26/12/2024 12:42

Just taken down the main living room tree, absolute workout getting it back in the box and as usual I found a couple of stars once I'd packed away the decorations.

Trying to get all the trees down today so I can deep clean the house before New Years.

Anyone else just want their space back and taking decorations down today?

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TrollTheAncientYuletideCarol · 26/12/2024 17:37

As usual, everyone is exaggerating- you don't have to have a tree up in November to want it down after Christmas Day.

Most people I know are more sociable in the lead up to the 25th, see a few family on Boxing Day, but are usually not doing anything festive whatsoever on 4/5/6th Jan.

Why is everyone going on about religious festivals, as that has very little to do with trees and presents? Churches worldwide celebrate Christmas at different times anyway, as they aren't even on the same dates, such as Orthodox, in fact, they don't even agree on the calendar year!

tinytemper66 · 26/12/2024 17:38

I have put the Christmas plates and glasses away but that is that until
New Year's Day.
FOI g away on 2nd for weekend and don't want to come back to all the decorations and gaffing with them before I go back to work. So a deep clean next Wednesday and pack for three days in the Big Smoke!

Mumofnarnia · 26/12/2024 17:41

notedbiscuits · 26/12/2024 17:30

Noticed a correlation between FB friends putting up their tree early (before mid Nov) and them having tree down by end of the year.

So far a quarter of these friends have put their tree and decs down.

Why put it up that early then?

Because they have to compete with all the influencers on social media and make sure they’re one of the first to put their tree up… and the first to take it down. They do it for validation and attention seeking purposes! It’ll be Valentine’s stuff on the 2nd Jan when new year is over lol.

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Mirabai · 26/12/2024 17:42

Why is everyone going on about religious festivals

Why oh why are people going on about religious festivals at Christmas eh? 😆

TrollTheAncientYuletideCarol · 26/12/2024 17:44

Why oh why are people going on about religious festivals at Christmas eh? 😆

I meant, of course, that the religious festival of Christmas is celebrated at different times and in different ways by the Christian church around the world, there's no one date they all agree on so even if you are mega-religious, this isn't a fixed event and it was shifted by the early Church anyway. Oh lordy!

Abracadabra12345 · 26/12/2024 17:44

gingercat02 · 26/12/2024 13:00

These threads make me sad. I leave all my decs up until 12th night. I love Christmas, so string it out as long as possible.

So do I

Then they'll be moaning about how long and dark end of December/ January is...

Mirabai · 26/12/2024 17:46

MurdoMunro · 26/12/2024 17:29

Oh bloody hell. Now we have to make set of rigid rules involving the only proper and correct way to display twigs to set the atheists and heathens against each other. At least our fight will probably end in a bloody great fire which will then get consumed into someone else’s winter festival.

A twig fight might do it, but I’m all in for fires.

Heggettypeg · 26/12/2024 17:48

There was another old tradition where the Christmas greenery stayed up till Candlemas. See Robert Herrick's poem "Down with the rosemaries and bays".

ShinyAppleDreamingOfTheSea · 26/12/2024 17:48

YellowPixie · 26/12/2024 16:13

This idea of "Christmas" starting on 25th December and going through to 6th January is very outdated. We just don't live like that any more for hte most part. For most people, "Christmas" as a season starts some time in December and culminates on the 25th, perhaps flowing over into today.

Nobody in my world thinks that 3rd/4th/5th January is "Christmas".

I agree that there seems to be a bit of a generational difference here- with it primarily being older people who observe 12 days of Christmas and younger people tending to get their decorations up in November and down before NYE. I'm guessing you are a lot younger than me - my adult DC thinks like you do.

Parker231 · 26/12/2024 17:48

Abracadabra12345 · 26/12/2024 17:44

So do I

Then they'll be moaning about how long and dark end of December/ January is...

December and January aren’t long and dark months - you don’t need Christmas lights to enjoy them. Too many people lock themselves inside rather than getting outside and enjoying themselves.

WhatIDoIsEnough · 26/12/2024 17:49

Mine will be the weekend, work commitments, kids etc means no other time.
However I'm itching to do it now everything suddenly feels cluttered and feeling over whelmed by it all

stargirl1701 · 26/12/2024 17:49

Goodness, no! It only went up on the 24th. Christmas only started yesterday. I cannot imagine Hogmanay without a tree, tbh! It'll come down on Twelfth Night.

I would keep it until Candlemas if DH would agree!

Mirabai · 26/12/2024 17:53

Parker231 · 26/12/2024 17:30

They are our traditions which we do at Christmas time. They mean Christmas to us. DH did them with his parents and grandparents growing up so they became our Christmas traditions when we moved to Canada.

As I said they’re winter family habits/customs and they sound good fun, but nothing to do with Christmas means the mass for the Messiah.

WhatIDoIsEnough · 26/12/2024 17:54

I've also never had mine up after nye. I can't stand starting the NY with a big task of taking the trees down and all the other stuff. I like it clear

IpsyUpsyDaisyDoos · 26/12/2024 17:56

WhatIDoIsEnough · 26/12/2024 17:54

I've also never had mine up after nye. I can't stand starting the NY with a big task of taking the trees down and all the other stuff. I like it clear

Be careful. Those of us who like it clear for going back to work are weird, miserable and joyless apparently.

SouthLondonMum22 · 26/12/2024 17:58

greengreyblue · 26/12/2024 17:32

Because they have to have everything early. Always on to the next thing and can’t seam to wait for the appropriate time for things.

Appropriate time is subjective. Hence how long this thread is.

maddiemookins16mum · 26/12/2024 17:58

Ours is up until Monday, we still have guests coming over until then! Taking the tree down on Boxing Day is just plain miserable.

SouthLondonMum22 · 26/12/2024 17:59

maddiemookins16mum · 26/12/2024 17:58

Ours is up until Monday, we still have guests coming over until then! Taking the tree down on Boxing Day is just plain miserable.

Why is it miserable today but not on Monday?

CandlesOrangesRedribbon · 26/12/2024 18:00

! Definitely not Christmas is just starting! The 12 days of Christmas.

Parker231 · 26/12/2024 18:01

Mirabai · 26/12/2024 17:53

As I said they’re winter family habits/customs and they sound good fun, but nothing to do with Christmas means the mass for the Messiah.

As I have said they are the Christmas traditions for our family. Christmas traditions which have been passed down generations and will likely continue with the DC’s doing the same for their Christmas.

Obviously you can have your own Christmas traditions which are unique to your family. What special Christmas traditions do you have?

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 26/12/2024 18:01

Parker231 · 26/12/2024 17:48

December and January aren’t long and dark months - you don’t need Christmas lights to enjoy them. Too many people lock themselves inside rather than getting outside and enjoying themselves.

Of course they are. Anyway I didn't say December, I said January and February. There's not the phrase, "January blues" for no reason. SAD can be worse at this time of the year when there's so little daylight.

Plus people are often skint after Christmas, it's a long time until payday and there's a slowdown in socialising with others, and the days are short.

The weather is often shitty too.

I make my house cosy with lots of lamps and cosy lighting but there's something so lovely about the sparkle of Christmas.

Going out for a walk doesn't change that!

IpsyUpsyDaisyDoos · 26/12/2024 18:04

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 26/12/2024 18:01

Of course they are. Anyway I didn't say December, I said January and February. There's not the phrase, "January blues" for no reason. SAD can be worse at this time of the year when there's so little daylight.

Plus people are often skint after Christmas, it's a long time until payday and there's a slowdown in socialising with others, and the days are short.

The weather is often shitty too.

I make my house cosy with lots of lamps and cosy lighting but there's something so lovely about the sparkle of Christmas.

Going out for a walk doesn't change that!

The slow down of socialising isn't necessarily a bad thing. It allows for a recharge, time with your household/family, me time etc.

Or you could socialise differently. Just coffee catch ups, time in each others homes and so on. Not everything needs to be as "festive" as Christmas plans to be joyful. It's all about how you look at it.

onwardsup4 · 26/12/2024 18:09

Only put it up on the 23rd would be a bit of a waste to take it down already!

ILikeMySuitcase · 26/12/2024 18:15

IpsyUpsyDaisyDoos · 26/12/2024 17:56

Be careful. Those of us who like it clear for going back to work are weird, miserable and joyless apparently.

Don't forget apparently we're all social media influencers who do it for attention according to @Mumofnarnia

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Mirabai · 26/12/2024 18:18

Parker231 · 26/12/2024 18:01

As I have said they are the Christmas traditions for our family. Christmas traditions which have been passed down generations and will likely continue with the DC’s doing the same for their Christmas.

Obviously you can have your own Christmas traditions which are unique to your family. What special Christmas traditions do you have?

Not sure if you’re being intentionally obtuse or you genuinely can’t understand. Christmas traditions are traditions that relate to Christmas - these are just traditional family activities in December.