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Please can someone explain the appeal of drag? ***MNHQ TWEAKING TITLE TO POINT OUT STRICTLY SPOILER IN THE OP***

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CurlewKate · 26/12/2024 08:51

Watching Celebrity Strictly last night, it was obviously set up for Tayce to win. Why? A group of celebrities of varying degrees of charm and bumble- then they are all soundly beaten by a clearly skilled dancer who's a drag queen.
There have been drag queens on Sewing Bee and Masterchef and House of Games. And loads of other shows I can't remember.
What's the appeal? And why no drag kings? Strictly has been great at featuring same sex couples- why not do more of that?

I would love it if we could discuss this in a way that doesn't get the thread deleted, so please post with care.

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LeticiaMorales · 26/12/2024 10:39

ru53 · 26/12/2024 10:33

But this is exactly what I’m saying. Personally I don’t perceive it as men ridiculing women, I perceive it as men ridiculing the expectations that are placed on women to look a certain way.

Really? So they're challenging the sexism and misogyny in society?
I'm guessing their performances must include jibes at the gender pay gap, maternity provisions, poor gynaecology outcomes, differentials in pensions etc. ?

AnyoneSomeone · 26/12/2024 10:39

Why is there a spoiler tag added my MNHQ? The programme has already aired ffs.

Brainworm · 26/12/2024 10:40

For those who love the costumes, hair and glamour etc., why does the performance need to include the males pretending to be female? Why does being male/female need to come in to it?

I think the notion of any clothes, hairstyles or names belonging to one sex or the other is ridiculous. Therefore, I am not amused nor impressed by a male or female kitting themselves out in costumes that society labels as belonging to the other sex.

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ToomanyMilesAway · 26/12/2024 10:40

That's pretty obvious @Abbyk1980.

dementedpixie · 26/12/2024 10:40

@AnyoneSomeone because someone complained early on that they hadn't seen it and the OP spoiled it for them

LeftoverTurkeyPie · 26/12/2024 10:41

Abbyk1980 · 26/12/2024 10:28

Obviously, I bow down to the fact that you are blackhowever There are two major differences between drag and blackface. One, "woman" isn't a culture, or even a cultural signifier. Race and skin color are. Second, blackface is considered socially unacceptable because of the American history of minstrel shows, which were created specifically to entertain white people at the expense of black people. They were, quite literally, supposed to be racist, and they very much were.

I never understand posts like this, because whilst women are not a race or culture, we are a whole sex class, and everything said about blackface applies to drag and the historic (and current) oppression of women.

What is drag if not deliberate sexism?

billysboy · 26/12/2024 10:42

Will not be watching on catch up now , cannot stand all the drag being shoved down peoples throats

localnotail · 26/12/2024 10:42

The drag acts I've seen in real life all were very sleazy and over the top sexual, the whole point was in "adult jokes" from someone who is obviously a guy dressed as a female. Weirdly, it was very popular performer in a proper working man pub in the very right leaning area. I think these sort of jokes would not work if performed by either straight men or females. It was like an outlet for the stull that would not otherwise be tolerated (like this guy openly grabbing men etc).

Other, more "above board" acts I've seen were fine, but still full of innuendo. I think its a big part of drag act - even in a pantomime. But otherwise I do find them entertaining, and sometimes they look stunning, they are amazing when it comes to make up. I love pantomime dames. I dont see it as anything other a type of performance, a theatre of a certain kind. But many of them are obviously not suitable for young children.

Havalona · 26/12/2024 10:43

Educated discerning people would avoid drag like the plague.

It is cringeworthy, insulting to women, and is not entertaining in the slightest.

So who does that leave as fans?

Digdongdoo · 26/12/2024 10:43

Abbyk1980 · 26/12/2024 10:38

I don’t think it is deemed as an attack on women no I don’t see it personally as an attack sometimes I see it is a bit of flattery a bit of humour. I don’t look too deep into it. I don’t think it bothers me.

Maybe you should look a little deeper into it then?

FancyNewt · 26/12/2024 10:43

I watched one on TV once who was wafting his hand in front of his crutch saying 'fishy' or similar. I'd say that's a sexist and offensive act against women

ToothHurtyAppointment · 26/12/2024 10:43

LeftoverTurkeyPie · 26/12/2024 10:41

I never understand posts like this, because whilst women are not a race or culture, we are a whole sex class, and everything said about blackface applies to drag and the historic (and current) oppression of women.

What is drag if not deliberate sexism?

Exactly.
Imagine if women suddenly started dressing up and portraying a trans woman to mock them. Would suddenly become an issue.

eightIsNewNine · 26/12/2024 10:43

Abbyk1980 · 26/12/2024 10:34

There are two major differences between drag and blackface. One, "woman" isn't a culture, or even a cultural signifier. Race and skin color are. Second, blackface is considered socially unacceptable because of the American history of minstrel shows, which were created specifically to entertain white people at the expense of black people. They were, quite literally, supposed to be racist, and they very much were.

When you say "Woman isn't a culture" what do you mean by that? Isn't gender (as roles and stereotypes, not like gender ID) a "cultural marker of women"?

Isn't drag humour (being based on member of one sex class over doing parody of the other class) supposed to be sexist? If you take sexism out of drag, what remains?

Plastictrees · 26/12/2024 10:44

Without getting too deep into the potential issues with drag, I think it’s just been rammed down our throats too much. It didn’t used to be mainstream until a few years ago (RuPaul) and then it is suddenly everywhere. There is very little critical thinking around this and if anyone dares express a less than positive opinion they are made out to be transphobic, or not ‘woke’ enough.

Hazylazydays · 26/12/2024 10:44

Abbyk1980 · 26/12/2024 10:32

No, it does not describe them perfectly. I do not believe that every drag queen are a bunch of sex abusing perverts sorry but I don’t if you think that then something is wrong with yourself.

Nope nothing wrong with me, I’m very normal thank you very much. I just live in the real word where men are men, and putting on ridiculous make up and clothing does not mean a man becomes a woman, and can be called she.
I do not wish to see these deviants on my TV on Christmas Day, oh and in case you need it the definition of deviant is

departing from usual or accepted standards, especially in social or sexual behaviour.

OnlyWhenILaugh · 26/12/2024 10:44

ru53 · 26/12/2024 10:33

But this is exactly what I’m saying. Personally I don’t perceive it as men ridiculing women, I perceive it as men ridiculing the expectations that are placed on women to look a certain way.

Are you serious?

Mymanyellow · 26/12/2024 10:45

Why did the drag act on strictly have to compete in drag? Actors don’t compete as their character in a soap opera or athletes don’t dance in running gear. He was pretending to be a woman that I find offensive.

Abbyk1980 · 26/12/2024 10:45

Digdongdoo · 26/12/2024 10:43

Maybe you should look a little deeper into it then?

It doesn’t bother me. I don’t see it as an attack on women. I see it as a bit of humour. I loved the film Priscilla Queen desert it really made me a bit upset. I have watched RuPaul in the past. I’m a bit bored by it now but I like listening to them. I don’t find it an attack on women. I just find it an art form humorous sometimes and let be let live.

Abbyk1980 · 26/12/2024 10:46

Hazylazydays · 26/12/2024 10:44

Nope nothing wrong with me, I’m very normal thank you very much. I just live in the real word where men are men, and putting on ridiculous make up and clothing does not mean a man becomes a woman, and can be called she.
I do not wish to see these deviants on my TV on Christmas Day, oh and in case you need it the definition of deviant is

departing from usual or accepted standards, especially in social or sexual behaviour.

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Absolutely disgusting so you are calling gay men that likeDressing up as women deviants now wow absolute wow and people say there isn’t any bigots about

LivelyFinch · 26/12/2024 10:47

Totally agree OP. I love Strictly but I didn't bother watching yesterday, I knew who would win because the BBC is mega biased towards anything drag.

Abbyk1980 · 26/12/2024 10:47

Hazylazydays · 26/12/2024 10:44

Nope nothing wrong with me, I’m very normal thank you very much. I just live in the real word where men are men, and putting on ridiculous make up and clothing does not mean a man becomes a woman, and can be called she.
I do not wish to see these deviants on my TV on Christmas Day, oh and in case you need it the definition of deviant is

departing from usual or accepted standards, especially in social or sexual behaviour.

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Just because I’d like to educate you drag queens don’t believe they are women at all so get that in your head

localnotail · 26/12/2024 10:47

I would also second that I dont see it as an attack on females. Drag acts are usually aiming to look beautiful, attractive, sassy and sexual. They are performers. What's wrong with that? They also never state they are actual women.

Clarice99 · 26/12/2024 10:47

AnyoneSomeone · 26/12/2024 10:39

Why is there a spoiler tag added my MNHQ? The programme has already aired ffs.

Because strangely some people were moaning they hadn't seen it yet.

I'm glad I don't watch any BCC programmes.

Abbyk1980 · 26/12/2024 10:48

localnotail · 26/12/2024 10:47

I would also second that I dont see it as an attack on females. Drag acts are usually aiming to look beautiful, attractive, sassy and sexual. They are performers. What's wrong with that? They also never state they are actual women.

Well according to somebody that’s just replied to me they are a bunch of deviants. That’s a sort of people that comment on here.

CurlewKate · 26/12/2024 10:48

I find the "skill and artistry" line puzzling too. Both of my adult children are involved to a greater or lesser degree in the theatre. Pretty sure either of them could pull off a drag look. They do much harder things on the stage!

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