The secret/visualisation

[Itsmitneymitch]

Has anyone used visualisation techniques to get what they want.

IE you visualise yourself in a new job before you get it. You visualise yourself in a new relationship.

Visualising it before you do it is meant to help it happen. It was also mentioned in the popular book "the secret"

Yes, carparking spaces. Works for me. Well most of the time.

That's magical thinking. It doesn't work. If you want a new job or relationship just go and look for them.
It could be helpful to visualize the sort of job or relationship you want, but only so you have it straight in your head what you're looking for.

I think it does help to visualise first