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Blake Lively suing Justin Baldoni for sexual harassment

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PrettyFlyforaMaiTai · 21/12/2024 15:50

According to TMZ Blake Lively is suing Justin Baldoni for sexual harassment on the set of ‘It Ends With Us’.

According to the lawsuit, a meeting was held in regards to the hostile work environment. Blake demanded that Baldoni stop showing nude videos or images of women to her, no more mention of Baldoni's alleged previous "pornography addiction," no more discussions about sexual conquests in front of Blake and others, no further mentions of cast and crew's genitalia, no more inquiries about Blake's weight, and no further mention of Blake's dead father and no more adding of sex scenes, oral sex or on camera climaxing by Blake outside of the script Blake approved when signing onto the project.

Baldoni’s representative have denied the allegations and state this is an effort for Blake to rehabilitate her recent poor image.

www.tmz.com/2024/12/21/blake-lively-sues-justin-baldoni-sexual-harassment-retaliation-on-it-ends-with-us-set/

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Mirabai · 22/12/2024 12:30

camerasupply · 22/12/2024 11:42

It was Jamey Heath who showed BL pictures of his naked wife. She was naked because she was giving birth. Obviously this is still unacceptable and a violation of privacy.

Justin Baldoni did not show BL any naked pics or show her porn on his phone.

I'm not trying to excuse JB - I'm just trying to make sure people have their facts correct before commenting, because things like this can grow arms and legs and at the end of the day NONE of us were there so will never know the truth.

I am all for believing women - 99% of the time I do, but I'm looking at this through the lens of having followed both BL and JB for many, many years.

JB for years had been an advocate for calling out toxic masculinity, being in touch with the sensitive side of being a man, wrote a book for young boys to try to steer them away from the Andrew Tates of this world, has a podcast called Man Enough - discussing a lot of sensitive topics. I guess that just makes me very skeptical that he would put this amount of work into being a good person and an ally for women, to then throw it all away with this alleged behaviour.

And before anyone comes for me, I'll say again, I am NOT saying he is innocent. Just sharing what I know about his character.

BL has made very specific allegations against JB. Virtue signalling does not mean he is not a cnut to women, it may just help him get into more women’s pants.

Mylittlebobble · 22/12/2024 12:31

I'm interested in the timeline. Was BL's list of requirements submitted before the smear campaign?

Moonfasa100 · 22/12/2024 12:31

Why is she doing this such a long time after the film?

Tinseltuttifruitti · 22/12/2024 12:33

noblegiraffe · 22/12/2024 09:23

The list of 'demands' that Lively apparently made during the production include many requests not to be sexually assaulted and harassed in various ways that make it pretty clear that these things were happening previously on set.

It's grim reading.
https://x.com/flopfitzgerald/status/1870506349739794789?s=61&t=U9XrcF693-JpMxeIueYG7g

That is eye-popping reading. Goes to show women are never safe no matter how much fame and money they have to insulate themselves.

Also, how are people defending him, in 2024??

Radishknot · 22/12/2024 12:33

There was also going to be a fight back from Blake & engagement of PR is par for the course. He might be have done all these things & be a horrible person. The difficulty Blake has is the main criticisms of her are separate to the JB situation and can’t have been engineered by him. It’s also because her PR game was very much how relatable she & RR are.

Moonfasa100 · 22/12/2024 12:34

Tinseltuttifruitti · 22/12/2024 12:33

That is eye-popping reading. Goes to show women are never safe no matter how much fame and money they have to insulate themselves.

Also, how are people defending him, in 2024??

I'm not defending him.

Its just with the talk of smear campaigns on both sides, it's hard to know what's true and what's not

myrtleWilson · 22/12/2024 12:35

@Moonfasa100 presumably because she had to take legal action to subpoena the emails etc?

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 22/12/2024 12:35

LushLemonTart · 22/12/2024 12:26

I agree. Both can be wrong BL and JB.

Interesting response from Brandon Sklenar too when asked about BL. She pushes him to say positive things about her but he was very neutral.

I still hope JB gets his comeuppance if he has acted inappropriately.

Yep, and no one including me is saying because she’s acted like a rude bitch must mean she’s deserved what she’s alleging has happened - absolutely not and this stretching is ridiculous. But that’s all they are at this stage, allegations.

She may have been following instructions on how to promote the film but anyone could see that flogging her hair care and alcohol line and bringing your best florals to a film about DV might not have landed positively.

Radishknot · 22/12/2024 12:37

In recent texts that have been leaked. Justin baldonis agent says in the texts that she is going to start a campaign to say that Blake lively is difficult to work with

But that’s just getting ahead of the story. That’s the point of PR and opposing sides will be doing the same.

myrtleWilson · 22/12/2024 12:38

She doesn’t have an alcohol line

Mylittlebobble · 22/12/2024 12:39

Not saying this was BL's decision, just saying how the marketing strategy was off...
Playing down that it's about DV could be so triggering for someone who thinks they are going to see a romantic drama, and then are faced with a story about abuse. Not ok.

Moonfasa100 · 22/12/2024 12:39

Regarding the texts that have been "leaked " showing Justin's agents saying she is going to ruin Blake livelys reputation.

How would anyone have got those texts.

How do we know they are true?

I could easily make texts myself that say anything and that look like they are coming from a certain number.

There are apps that do this

Couldn't Blake livelys side have written these texts and pretend that they are written by Justin's agent?

myrtleWilson · 22/12/2024 12:40

@Moonfasa100 she had a subpoena to get them

Mylittlebobble · 22/12/2024 12:41

Moonfasa100 · 22/12/2024 12:39

Regarding the texts that have been "leaked " showing Justin's agents saying she is going to ruin Blake livelys reputation.

How would anyone have got those texts.

How do we know they are true?

I could easily make texts myself that say anything and that look like they are coming from a certain number.

There are apps that do this

Couldn't Blake livelys side have written these texts and pretend that they are written by Justin's agent?

Edited

Why didn't they end up in Davy Jones' locker?!
Sorry, couldn't resist the Wagatha Christie nod.

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 22/12/2024 12:41

myrtleWilson · 22/12/2024 12:38

She doesn’t have an alcohol line

She does - Betty Booze. Which was promoted at the premiere/movie events. One of the cocktails was called 'Ryle you wait'.

Moonfasa100 · 22/12/2024 12:41

myrtleWilson · 22/12/2024 12:40

@Moonfasa100 she had a subpoena to get them

But then surely the agent would delete everything before handing over her phone?

Drivingoverlemons · 22/12/2024 12:41

The Norwegian interviewer has posted a video, not sure if it’s been posted yet. She seems to believe there has been an orchestrated smear campaign but thinks BL hasn’t helped herself either. She categorically refutes being paid or involved as a freelance journalist. (I thought it was interesting though that she said she believed Amber Heard lied in court but then said she didn’t know any of these people’s personal lives. So how could she have known Johnny Depp was innocent - ie she didn’t).

I watched that interview BL did and thought she sounded like a woman on the edge, fed up of always being asked about her body and fashion.

I was a bit tetchy about people commenting on my bump when I was pregnant, and probably came across as a bit PA. I recall being utterly furious with MIL about one completely innocent comment about how huge I was. When I was, in fact, massive.

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Moonfasa100 · 22/12/2024 12:41

myrtleWilson · 22/12/2024 12:38

She doesn’t have an alcohol line

She does have an alcohol line.

buttonousmaximous · 22/12/2024 12:43

Nobody really knows what she's like as a person we know what the press say. And regardless of what type of person she is she deserves to be able to go to work and not be harassed

Radishknot · 22/12/2024 12:43

The whole wear florals, grab your friends & buy my haircare line whilst drinking my drinks was pretty tone deaf in the context of DV. Add in the past plantation wedding, celebration of the South, throw in the “rude” interviews, the plastic surgery before & after videos & that was the PR disaster.

myrtleWilson · 22/12/2024 12:43

@Moonfasa100 apologies - I saw betty buzz saying it was non alcoholic and didn’t realise she had another line

Moonfasa100 · 22/12/2024 12:44

buttonousmaximous · 22/12/2024 12:43

Nobody really knows what she's like as a person we know what the press say. And regardless of what type of person she is she deserves to be able to go to work and not be harassed

Yes. Sexual harassment is still in too many places.

Radishknot · 22/12/2024 12:45

And of course JBs PR team would push these stories to the top of internet searches, social media, etc that’s literally the point of PR. Celebs also engage in that stuff to bury stories, push things down on internet searches.

Epli · 22/12/2024 12:45

Mylittlebobble · 22/12/2024 12:31

I'm interested in the timeline. Was BL's list of requirements submitted before the smear campaign?

Yes it was submitted during filming, long before the drama.

Moonfasa100 · 22/12/2024 12:46

He doesn't sound great.

The two of them don't look good though