My divorce is complete and has been for a few years
Before my divorce I always used to think things would get better
Now I am divorced I no longer think that
They just are better
Both my kids have gone from being disruptive in school to (especially one of them) being the top of his class
The teacher's at his school all comment on how amazing they are now doing
I now have the kids 7 days a week and often do not get any payments from my ex
But we get on well together and I'm not one who goes for revenge I just wanted to get on with my life after everything
I'm financially poorer as I had to buy my ex out the house, lost an income and get little money from them (they often do not work)
But life is now simpler emotionally and I don't have them causing situations then pointing out how I'm a bad parent
How is your life now before and after divorce?
It's a massive choice to make that you can not change once done, both emotionally and financially
Most people will probably be a lot poorer (I am) and also loose some access to there kids (I didn't)