A family friend is in Afghanistan he is finishing his last hospital rotations to qualify to become a Dr. One of these rotations is obg He will tell me what it is like Everyday he tells me about how bad it is there.
He is also wanted by the Taliban because of Facebook message criticising them before they came back so he only goes to the hospital by car and if no money walks but only after dark The Taliban have been to his uncle house looking for him several times family have hid him one uncle was killed because he was not able to get to Kabul airport in time to get on an emergency plane (he worked with British Army )
He is often hungry a boiled egg is a treat
poverty is very bad there our family is supporting him as his extended family can no longer afford to keep him and chucked him out
I asked him why the men are not standing up to the Taliban He told me the men that have stood up against them have been taken away and never seen again many men are the only man in the extended family so need to work long hours and if they are taken away the women are not able to support themselves and family would only have the money from boys begging Another reason it makes women more vulnerable to the Taliban because women can be taken by Taliban as wives. It’s better for men to keep their head down and support women with underhand ways buying books teaching their daughters or sisters to read and write
Afghans overseas have set up an online university courses include medicine,midwife training and nursing.
women still go to hospitals and in the department he was working in male drs did treat women and but at great risk to themselves
Taliban and religious people don’t tend to use hospitals Taliban do not see
Also he told me it’s too dangerous to say anything negative about Taliban because you can’t trust people because you never know if they are a spy
If all goes well next month he will be able to leave and start a new life and his physical and mental health will mend. He is very depressed but keeps going because he the eldest of 9 and wants to make sure his siblings get an education His parents and siblings live in Pakistan sadly he has not seen them for over 3 years because he is not able to visit them