I have autism and also physical disability. I find asking for help almost impossible, worse if it because my physical disability means I can’t do something
Today I managed to ask someone to put a plaster on my arm. I didn’t manage to just ask a neighbour I think because I will see them again, but I managed with a stranger.
(And they did, I’ve asked once before and they said no)
I can’t tell anyone irl as it seems so stupid, an NT person and many ND people who function like me would just do automatically
I want to celebrate though - not think why couldn’t I just ask a neighbour- celebrate that I at least asked someone.