I found out on Thursday night partner of 4 years was cheating on me.
He's trying to reconcile, so I'm humouring him a little. I'm enjoying the squirming. A lot. One of the things he's done is show me his messaging with her since I found out to show how he's told her he can't see her.
Her responses! Hilarious!
She knew about me. She knew we'd been together over 4 years. She stupidly believed he was in an open relationship. She fucked him bareback (another issue for me, I know...). He's seen her about 5 times since June.
She's got the actual gall to try to play the pick me dance! She's demanding she meet him so she can have it out with him. She says she's done nothing wrong (err, 👋). She deserves it apparently. He owes her to meet in a neutral place where he must give her his full attention for one hour or seven, however long it takes. And after that she may, or may not, take him back.
And get this... He's never going to meet a stronger woman than her. She's a fierce mama bear. You don't want to cross her or push her. She's threatened to smear his name if he, or I, tells anyone they've been fucking. Why on earth would either of us do that? Grow up woman!
If you're so strong lady, then have some self respect. Stop trying to get him to come back to you. Stop being such a piss poor role model for your teenage daughter by fucking a stranger without a condom. Look after your sexual health. Stop wanting to take back a lying cheating cunt. Stop pleading. Stop believing a few secret shags trumps a 4 year relationship.
One girl to another, be better.