Prison officer has Inappropriate relationship with the killer of Zara Aleena Jordan mcsweeney

[Noisylass]

https://news.sky.com/story/prison-officer-admits-inappropriate-relationship-with-zara-aleenas-killer-13245305

so I’m gonna be generous here I could understand possibly having a sexual relationship maybe with a burglar or any other sort of criminal in prison. However why would you have a sexual relationship with the bloody murderer of a woman? How vile is that? How would you even comprehend that as just something to even do?

I am at a loss here thoughts

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it’s more common than you think.

I think maybe certain people are attracted to working in prisons. People who might not be able to secure a job elsewhere for example, maybe they have low confidence or are low performers? As let’s be honest - prison work isn’t desirable. It’s a means to an end.

By working in a prison, they interact with criminals daily so to a certain extent may be desensitised to their crimes, else they wouldn’t be able to get through their working day.

All of that combined means is likely that sexual relations may occur more often that we might assume. The staff probably feel flattered, the prisoners get to leverage benefits. There’s an odd power dynamic at play etc.

While I understand everything you have said and everything you have said makes a lot of sense to myself what does not make sense is having sexual relations with somebody that has murdered a woman. Listen I would probably have sex with a burglar if he was fit and if I was in jail, possibly But I would draw the line at a rapist and a murderer for God sake especially one of a woman

It’s not going to make sense to you though as presumably you have your head screwed on.

It’s a category A prison, so home to the most serious offenders and subject to the highest security. The prison this man was in is likely full of rapists and murderers. It’s possible burglars aren’t there. Prison staff have to deal with these serious offenders on a daily basis. They might start out taking notes of individual crimes but it’s likely that after dealing with dozens & dozens of different criminals across their length of service, they stop caring about the details of victims etc.

It makes no difference to them if this man killed a man or a woman or if rape was involved. It’s essentially a world where normal social norms are thrown out the window because you’re dealing with the worst types of crime/people. It’s essentially an underworld.

Fair enough but wow plus Zara’s poor family having to relive the news headline

I know. I remember her death from her name alone, it really was a horrific crime. Completely senseless

She must be one fucked up individual. It's not just that he's murderer, it's the utterly horrific deprived way he murdered Aleena, the relentless stalking of women shortly before.

It's sickening 😡

Apologies that should read Zara Aleena

She's probably a prostitute, for want of a better word. There is a category of porn that is aimed at prisoners and ex prisoners - there have been other 'guards' accused of 'inappropriate relationships' who are found to be selling the images, being paid to have sex with the men or making porn films to order. I pity these pathetic women, imagine having so little self esteem you have sex with a man like that.