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If you are someone who drives down a slip road towards a busy dual carriageway with no intention of stopping ….

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EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 30/10/2024 14:49

Where do you think the cars are going to go if they is no space to go into the outside lane?

There is a really bad junction I’m currently dealing with every day. He cars come down the slip road in convoy. No ability for me to slot inbetween and they show absolutely no sign of slowing down to wait to join the trunk road. If I have a car on my right, where do these people think I’m going to avoid a collision?

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EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 30/10/2024 16:07

Solomotree · 30/10/2024 16:02

I really don’t understand what you expect the slip road drivers to do if you won’t make space and there’s no gaps in the traffic as you say? If they stopped how would they ever join it?

I expect them to have gaps inbetween them and be trying to slot in around cars already on the dual carriageway.

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buffyspikefaith · 30/10/2024 16:08

decorativecushions · 30/10/2024 15:49

Coming to a complete stop on a motorway slip road is absurdly dangerous.

Obviously you should move over or slow down to allow merging.

Most motorways signpost to alert drivers of joining traffic well before the slip road

But that's what you have to do it you can't join
Thankfully it's only happened to me once when some dick towing a caravan deliberately blocked my from joining (I sped up, he sped up, I slowed, he slowed) and thought it was funny

spuddy4 · 30/10/2024 16:08

ShittyTitty · 30/10/2024 16:01

This is unreal how many people think that you have priority on a slip road.

Read the Highway Code people.

People already on the motorway do not have to slam their brakes on to let traffic on.

I was just thinking the exact same thing. It explains why there's so many accidents though.

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SirChenjins · 30/10/2024 16:09

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 30/10/2024 16:02

I’ll admit I’ve been driving donkeys but I thought the same. Drivers merging on the slip road should be adjusting speed to merge seamlessly. I’m just not seeing any adjustment from the slip roads. They are barrelling towards me and I don’t have a magic disappear button.

It happens all the time - and some of the posts on here show that there are drivers out there who believe that the drivers on the trunk roads are required to facilitate their merging at whatever speed they so choose. It's common sense to leave a gap for merging traffic to go into of course, no-one wants an accident, but it's not a legal requirement - the cars merging are responsible for their manoeuvre.

SatinHeart · 30/10/2024 16:09

If I am aware of a junction like this I move into the right hand lane well in advance

This what I do, I drive past one of these junctions every day and I'm always into the right hand lane pretty much as soon as I've driven past the off-slip for the junction. That's what I was taught on the Pass Plus course.

SweetSakura · 30/10/2024 16:09

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 30/10/2024 15:58

I can’t move into the right lane as there are a flow of cars in that lane moving faster than me. I also have cars baring down on the slip road to merge coming at a fast speed with no tangible gaps inbetween. I just don’t know where they think I’m going to accommodate them.

Indicate to show you wish to move. Speed up to get out into it?

I think you would benefit from some advanced driving/motorway driving lessons

rwalker · 30/10/2024 16:10

I see this all the time complete bellend drivers who make zero effort to accommodate joining traffic by moving over or adjusting speed
they’d sooner cause an accident than take action
forcing traffic to stop on a slip rd is beyond dangerous as they then have to join from a standing start

LabradorOwner9 · 30/10/2024 16:10

This thread is now posted on pistonheads so expect some new contributions here :-)

SirChenjins · 30/10/2024 16:11

SweetSakura · 30/10/2024 16:09

Indicate to show you wish to move. Speed up to get out into it?

I think you would benefit from some advanced driving/motorway driving lessons

Edited

Indicating doesn't mean other drivers are required to let you in esp if it's not safe to do so - again, so many drivers seem to think flashing their indicator means they have priority in a lane change.

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 30/10/2024 16:12

ByMerryKoala · 30/10/2024 16:07

I'm not sure I understand how you are finding this tricky, let one car in and get on with your journey.

Because the cars are trying to access the road in one long line not accounting for the fact I’m on the road already. Imagine a huge HGV coming at you from the slip road Same speed, no ability for me to move to the right as cars are flowing past. I either have to an accelerate to get in front or brake heavily to allow the length of the HGV to get in front.

My question was where do these people think I’m going? My assumption is that they believe they will push me into the outside lane but it’s occupied. Plus I’m taking the next junction which is straight after this one and I need to be in the left hand lane. It’s bizarre but then the replies on this thread explain why this is happening. Everyone thinks they are in the right.

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EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 30/10/2024 16:13

LabradorOwner9 · 30/10/2024 16:10

This thread is now posted on pistonheads so expect some new contributions here :-)

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Excellent. Link to it so I can see what the men are saying.

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SirChenjins · 30/10/2024 16:13

LabradorOwner9 · 30/10/2024 16:10

This thread is now posted on pistonheads so expect some new contributions here :-)

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Phew - we need the men to keep us right Grin

SensibleSigma · 30/10/2024 16:14

The lack of braking distance is a big contributor. It’s gone out of fashion, from what I can see. Damn hard to acquire and keep braking distance these days.

SatinHeart · 30/10/2024 16:14

I can’t move into the right lane as there are a flow of cars in that lane moving faster than me. I also have cars baring down on the slip road to merge coming at a fast speed with no tangible gaps inbetween. I just don’t know where they think I’m going to accommodate them

Whatever the letter of the Highway Code is, to my mind it needs to be a bit of a team effort when it's busy. The right hand lane drivers should be expecting some people in the left hand lane to want to move across to accommodate those joining from the slip road. Those on the slip neeed to be watching the speed of the carriageway and merging in turn if necessary. It does all work if everyone is paying attention.

rwalker · 30/10/2024 16:14

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 30/10/2024 16:12

Because the cars are trying to access the road in one long line not accounting for the fact I’m on the road already. Imagine a huge HGV coming at you from the slip road Same speed, no ability for me to move to the right as cars are flowing past. I either have to an accelerate to get in front or brake heavily to allow the length of the HGV to get in front.

My question was where do these people think I’m going? My assumption is that they believe they will push me into the outside lane but it’s occupied. Plus I’m taking the next junction which is straight after this one and I need to be in the left hand lane. It’s bizarre but then the replies on this thread explain why this is happening. Everyone thinks they are in the right.

They think your ether going to slow down or move across if possible

the same question to you where do u think they are going to go

spuddy4 · 30/10/2024 16:15

LabradorOwner9 · 30/10/2024 16:10

This thread is now posted on pistonheads so expect some new contributions here :-)

Edited

I agree with them, it is a disturbing read how many people believe that the ones joining a motorway have priority.

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 30/10/2024 16:15

SirChenjins · 30/10/2024 16:09

It happens all the time - and some of the posts on here show that there are drivers out there who believe that the drivers on the trunk roads are required to facilitate their merging at whatever speed they so choose. It's common sense to leave a gap for merging traffic to go into of course, no-one wants an accident, but it's not a legal requirement - the cars merging are responsible for their manoeuvre.

I pondered this in terms of an insurance claim. We are always told that if an accident occurs from pulling out onto a main road the duty of care lies with the person pulling out of the side road. Is that the same for a slip road?

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SirChenjins · 30/10/2024 16:16

rwalker · 30/10/2024 16:14

They think your ether going to slow down or move across if possible

the same question to you where do u think they are going to go

Presumably she thinks they're going to adjust their speed upwards or downwards, use the entire slip road and merge in turn - like wot they're supposed to

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 30/10/2024 16:16

rwalker · 30/10/2024 16:14

They think your ether going to slow down or move across if possible

the same question to you where do u think they are going to go

Into the bloody side of me!!!!

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EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 30/10/2024 16:16

SirChenjins · 30/10/2024 16:16

Presumably she thinks they're going to adjust their speed upwards or downwards, use the entire slip road and merge in turn - like wot they're supposed to

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thats what I thought. But seemingly no.

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SirChenjins · 30/10/2024 16:17

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 30/10/2024 16:15

I pondered this in terms of an insurance claim. We are always told that if an accident occurs from pulling out onto a main road the duty of care lies with the person pulling out of the side road. Is that the same for a slip road?

Yep - the drivers on the trunk road have priority.

RecycleMePlease · 30/10/2024 16:21

Everyone involved should be leaving enough space that they can merge in - so people on the road, seeing the junction coming up, just leave a little more space from the car in front, and people coming on, leave a bit of space so you can zip together.

When it works it's a thing of beauty, but it only takes one jerk speeding up to close a gap or nipping in where there not really room to ruin it all.

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 30/10/2024 16:22

Well thank god for some sensible replies.

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Bringbackspring · 30/10/2024 16:22

I was taught during my pass plus motorway driving lessons that the driver on the motorway/dual carriageway has the priority so it is the person joining via the slip way that needs to adjust their speed to merge safely onto the main carriageway.

I was also taught to move over to the right wherever possible when approaching a junction, in anticipation of cars merging, rather than wait to see if cars are merging and then moving over as a knee jerk reaction.

So basically, if you can move over in advance, you should. If you can't move over, the driver who is merging needs to adjust. The car on the motorway is in their right to continue as they are. The merging drivers' manoeuvre shouldn't cause other drivers to change their speed or road position. But because it's better to all be considerate of each other, if I can't move to the right I will try my best to accommodate merging cars safely so as they aren't forced into stopping.

Motorways aren't too bad as they have nice long slip roads, but some dual carriageway slip roads are hair-raising!