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I effed up our holiday

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poppysgalore · 15/10/2024 22:53

Flying out tomorrow on easyJet - family of five - first time on easyJet- had no idea we had to book our seats in advance. Just logged in and seen there's only random single seats left. Except for two rows that are near the fire exits so can't be allocated to under 16s. I'm gutted ! What do we do now , my youngest is 7 and the flight is 6 hours long. How could I be so stupid and not know this.

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BettyBardMacDonald · 17/10/2024 20:38

EdithandSebastien · 16/10/2024 12:46

@CrispieCake You would need to be careful with this approach. If a child was sat next to me on a plane and their parent, performatively told them about people touching them etc. (as you claim you do) - I would be extremely wary of having any kind of interaction with the child at all, for fear of what allegations you may make. In a lot of situations we need to rely on the kindness of strangers - something as simple as helping to open a drink. Your behaviour here would stop people from helping.

If someone implied that I were a molester, I'd take out my phone and video the kid the entire flight, to prove I hadn't done anything.

BananaSplitSandwich · 17/10/2024 20:47

Holidaysandsunshine · 15/10/2024 23:37

You will be fine people always swap with me and I’m just an adult that’s too stingy to pay for seats together

remember there are 2 reasons people swap

  1. because they are lovely kind people
  2. because they are utterly selfish and see the trade as an upgrade

start by asking nicely if that doesn’t work get the kiddos to make some magic(mayhem/ on demand crying) and scare the other folks away. Works every time.

also there are rules about kids not being split from parents yours may already be old enough but worth a google as I’ve see cabin crew switch folk around coz of this on Ryan air

This post is a joke right?? You proudly admit that you’re a tight wad who won’t pay for seats and then berate people who will only swap for an ‘upgrade’.

Are you saying that not only should they do you a favour, there’s a chance they should downgrade as well?!! Honestly, you’ve got more neck than a giraffe.

Just to be clear, I wouldn’t swap with you.

Sennelier1 · 17/10/2024 20:48

They will try to seat a child next to a parent, but the parents could be far apart on the plane. I do believe you were not paying attention while booking but.....have you never travelled before? This is just plain common sense 🤷🏼‍♀️

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Opentooffers · 17/10/2024 20:56

Well now you know it's best to check-in asap from 30 days before the flight. So have you checked in on your return flight and picked the seats for that? Or are you leaving that till last minute too?

Molly2023 · 17/10/2024 20:57

If you try get isle or window seats you'll have a much better chance of swapping. Also if the emergency ones are left, book yourselves on.. they tend to be more roomy (and pricey) so will be more appealing to the person beside your child! I'd personally hate to be stuck beside a panicky child when I could just swap with their parent but others will feel you're being a CF🙈

Commonsense22 · 17/10/2024 21:01

I always pay for the aisle seat due to bathroom access, joint issues and needing to stretch my legs, and claustrophobia. I don't swap if asked but airlines should force passengers with children to book seats, it shouldn't be optional on those bookings.
Somehow many people end up thinking it's optional.

RogueFemale · 17/10/2024 21:35

Cosycover · 16/10/2024 08:21

My 7 and 11 year old wouldn't be okay with this at all actually. My 7 year old would be traumatised. They simply could not and would not cope with this.

Must be because all children are different and we know our own kids best eh?

Imagine that!

Yes all children are different, but OP didn't mention that her kids are neuro-divergent, so I assume they cope with being separated from their parents at school for more than 6 hours a day. I can't see much difference here, except that the parents are very nearby in the same aircraft. The average child can occupy themself with a book or tablet for hours.

RogueFemale · 17/10/2024 21:36

lololulu · 16/10/2024 11:13

Mine are 12 and 14 and I wouldn't want to be sat away from them nor them me.

How do you manage when they go to school and you're not there?

CleaningAngel · 17/10/2024 21:41

ChrisS36 · 17/10/2024 18:50

Where does EasyJet fly that is 6 hours

Sharm el sheik, 5.5 hrs I've just come back with easy jet

LoveTheRainAndSun · 17/10/2024 21:59

RogueFemale · 17/10/2024 21:36

How do you manage when they go to school and you're not there?

She said her 12 and 14 year old wouldn't like it, not that they can't. At that age I'd have loved the independence of being on my own for a flight. I don't think there's many 12/14 year olds (without any special needs) who would have a problem with it.

Doubledded123 · 17/10/2024 22:02

My question why are you holidaying in term time ?

SophiaJ8 · 17/10/2024 22:15

Doubledded123 · 17/10/2024 22:02

My question why are you holidaying in term time ?

It’s not term time everywhere.

Ivehearditbothways · 17/10/2024 22:19

Doubledded123 · 17/10/2024 22:02

My question why are you holidaying in term time ?

It’s not term time where I am. My kids are off.

DiduAye · 17/10/2024 22:20

Ignorance is no defence and if I had paid for an allocated seat I'd be sitting on it Lesson learned I hope You haven't effed up the holiday though Maybe the kids will think it's a huge adventure sitting away from you

Sugarnspicenallthingsnaice · 17/10/2024 23:07

LoveTheRainAndSun · 17/10/2024 21:59

She said her 12 and 14 year old wouldn't like it, not that they can't. At that age I'd have loved the independence of being on my own for a flight. I don't think there's many 12/14 year olds (without any special needs) who would have a problem with it.

The question was how the poster would cope, not the children.

HansHolbein · 17/10/2024 23:14

I always pay for our seats so I don’t have any skin in the game but for example, if a parent came on with a 3 year old and 5 year old and didn’t pre-book seats, is there a chance they would all be split up?

AllHisCaterpillarFriends · 17/10/2024 23:34

ChrisS36 · 17/10/2024 18:50

Where does EasyJet fly that is 6 hours

Belfast to hurghada.

I also was surprised at a 6 hour easyJet flight. It appears this is the longest at 6h. Other Egypt flights are under 6 hours.

Ineke · 18/10/2024 00:46

You say that your youngest is 7 and the flight is 6 hours. I am sure that a 7 year old will be fine on her own for a while watching the in flight entertainment. You can keep popping over to visit and check on them all, and maybe someone will offer to swap seats so you can be together. My siblings had to fly UK to Singapore on their own at a similar age. They may actually feel quite grown up doing this, the older ones that is. And yes, even if together, there are not many happy memories to be had on board an aeroplane. Not like the old days when you could get an invitation to show your children the cockpit! If it is a night flight , maybe they will sleep a bit?

Ineke · 18/10/2024 01:09

Last week I flew BA from Vancouver to Heathrow. They had allotted me a seat, check in is 24 hours before flight and not before.I clicked the tab to change seats just out of curiosity as to what the prices were and was surprised that it was free, plus I could and did change to a window seat as I wanted to see The Aurora Borealis flying over Greenland. What a treat!

Ukrainebaby23 · 18/10/2024 04:10

Berlinlover · 16/10/2024 01:00

I always pay for my seats and would never move seats for anyone.

Well let's hope you never need a favour from me 🤣

Ukrainebaby23 · 18/10/2024 04:12

Doubledded123 · 17/10/2024 22:02

My question why are you holidaying in term time ?

What does that have to do with you?
Different terms/Home schooling/pay the fines

Jack80 · 18/10/2024 07:12

We had unfortunately years ago had this problem but on Ryan Air, I just said one of the adults needed to sit with 1 child or 1 child to an adult. The stewards sorted this out for us and some kind people moved. We now always book our seats, just let it be a lesson for the future. Have a good holiday.

MarkWithaC · 18/10/2024 08:43

Ineke · 18/10/2024 00:46

You say that your youngest is 7 and the flight is 6 hours. I am sure that a 7 year old will be fine on her own for a while watching the in flight entertainment. You can keep popping over to visit and check on them all, and maybe someone will offer to swap seats so you can be together. My siblings had to fly UK to Singapore on their own at a similar age. They may actually feel quite grown up doing this, the older ones that is. And yes, even if together, there are not many happy memories to be had on board an aeroplane. Not like the old days when you could get an invitation to show your children the cockpit! If it is a night flight , maybe they will sleep a bit?

'in flight entertainment.'
They're flying with EasyJet!

Snakebite61 · 18/10/2024 08:45

poppysgalore · 15/10/2024 22:53

Flying out tomorrow on easyJet - family of five - first time on easyJet- had no idea we had to book our seats in advance. Just logged in and seen there's only random single seats left. Except for two rows that are near the fire exits so can't be allocated to under 16s. I'm gutted ! What do we do now , my youngest is 7 and the flight is 6 hours long. How could I be so stupid and not know this.

Got to say, passengers are getting fed up with families not booking seats together, then asking strangers to move.