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Kemi badenoch now against autistic children

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Hunnymonster1 · 14/10/2024 13:30

What is wrong with her? Just read that the children commision is saying average wait like to get diagnosed as autistic is 4 years.
So kemi banging on about how parents are pushing gor diagnosis because they see how much extra money etc autistic children get at school is wrong.
The fact is I woukd think judging by lbc many kids are not getting the support that they need.
So js this about her saying the conservatives need to save tax by not helping people or children with autism and mental health issues.
Bare in mind she said similar about maternity pay last week makes me think she's like Liz truss wants to cut alot of stuff
How the hell can anyone support this?
https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/politics/kemi-badenoch-autism-tory-leadership-buckland-b2628845.html

Kemi Badenoch faces backlash for ‘stigmatising’ autism

Tory leadership hopeful faces another row after endorsing report that suggested people with the condition get ‘economic advantages and protections’

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/politics/kemi-badenoch-autism-tory-leadership-buckland-b2628845.html

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Coruscations · 14/10/2024 16:39

Icanthinkformyselfthanks · 14/10/2024 15:24

@EducatingArti , I’m not sure who you are quoting at the end of your interesting post but to be clear it’s not me.
Further up in this thread I posted an article from the Guardian you may find interesting. Certainly there are and always have been people who are incapable of functioning in society because of being at the extreme of the autistic spectrum but at the other end while it’s helpful to be aware of people being a bit different I’m not convinced that labelling and medicating children is what is best for them.
The thread was started by @Hunnymonster1 in order to portray Kemi as being ‘against ‘ autistic people, I remain unconvinced that the OP has read or even cares to read what Kemi actually said.

People have actually posted extracts to show that you are incorrect in denying that she equates anxiety and ASD as both being down to neurodivergence, yet you accuse them of not reading the article in full?

Must try harder.

Reugny · 14/10/2024 16:39

Hunnymonster1 · 14/10/2024 16:19

I know you r right but what I want to know is does she really believe this or just to be elected as Tory leader. As she keeps com8ng out with in my opinion stupid opinions that can very much affect people

She wants to be elected as leader.

Her previous comments show she can't cope with being treated like any other member of society.

anniegun · 14/10/2024 16:43

Blame the immigrants, blame the mothers blame the disabled. Badenoch' s culture wars are always aimed at the easiest victims.

Echobelly · 14/10/2024 16:43

She'll basically just say anything to be 'anti woke' and if their supporters weren't mostly 70+ she'd be saying older people with no private pensions or property should be sent to workhouses, but she needs that vote.

Coruscations · 14/10/2024 16:43

You're relying on a digest of a single 14 year old paper? Just how desperate are you?

Icanthinkformyselfthanks · 14/10/2024 16:43

TigerRag · 14/10/2024 16:33

And in order to live full filling lives they may need support, no?

Being bright doesn't mean you don't need support.

Edited

@TigerRag , lots of children need support for many reasons. Their parents should support them and teachers should always be able to adjust their teaching for different children as a matter of course. I think the point Kemi was making was that some children are receiving extra support at the expense of the nation and it is reasonable to ask if all of this is necessary.

Kta7 · 14/10/2024 16:45

@Icanthinkformyselfthanks the autism spectrum isn’t linear and minimising the struggles of ‘mildly’/‘high-functioning’ (outdated terms btw) autistic people risks storing up disastrous mental health problems for the future.

Coruscations · 14/10/2024 16:45

DogInATent · 14/10/2024 16:17

If it takes 4 years for a diagnosis, then that matches the minimum time that the Conservative party must spend in the wilderness before they have a shot at a fresh election.

Kemi understands the party membership too well. Remember, she's not trying to appeal to the general public. She's trying to appeal to to a group of less than 150,000 people with an average age of 72. To say they have a rose-tinted view of raising children is to put it mildly. They will get upset about losing their winter fuel allowance. They will gladly sacrifice maternity pay, child benefit and funding childrens mental health services to keep the triple-lock on their state pension and reduce the tax they pay on their private pensions.

Too true. This is the membership that voted in Truss, after all, and I very much doubt that they learn from experience. At least it should keep the Tories away from power for a long time.

CarrotsAndCheese · 14/10/2024 16:45

pointythings · 14/10/2024 16:10

Right, so you now believe autism doesn't exist because of one article from 2011. And so you agree that autistic people shouldn't get any support.

It's not even an article; it's one person's comment on the article, which I discovered by clicking on the other 'article' tab and then clicking back to the 'responses' tab.

It's clear that that poster has an agenda!

Reugny · 14/10/2024 16:46

CarrotsAndCheese · 14/10/2024 16:45

It's not even an article; it's one person's comment on the article, which I discovered by clicking on the other 'article' tab and then clicking back to the 'responses' tab.

It's clear that that poster has an agenda!

Maybe it's Kemi!!!

CarrotsAndCheese · 14/10/2024 16:47

Reugny · 14/10/2024 16:46

Maybe it's Kemi!!!

Haha, or one of her campaign team!

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 14/10/2024 16:48

mild end of the spectrum

the extreme of the autistic spectrum

Helpfully demonstrating you haven't the slightest understanding of what "autistic spectrum" actually refers to.

Coruscations · 14/10/2024 16:48

wickerlady · 14/10/2024 16:24

I don't think anyone, including KB begrudges the genuine disabled anything.

What she takes exception to (as do many) is the volume of parents hell-bent on getting a diagnosis for their DC, when there's absolutely nothing wrong with them.

Money related possibly? Shirking of responsibilities perhaps?

I follow some old school people on FB and the victimhood mentality is just bizarre. Not only are they seeking diagnosis for their poorly parented kids, they are seeking diagnosis for themselves!

In fact, an ex has just done the same and proudly exclaims that now he knows why his life has turned out shit, nothing to do with his poor and selfish life choices over and over again, it's the ND 🙄

It's tiresome actually and takes the focus and resource away from genuine cases.

What on earth is the evidence of a large volume of parents hell-bent on getting diagnoses for children with "absolutely nothing wrong with them"? If your evidence is a few "old school people on FB", it's not exactly conclusive, is it? How exactly do you know that either they or their children are not neurodiverse?

EdgeOfSixty · 14/10/2024 16:49

TooBigForMyBoots · 14/10/2024 13:43

Stupid woman spouts uninformed shite about stuff she knows nothing about.🙄

Is this Tory leadership contest to be fought on performative cruelty?

The Tories have been known as the Nasty Party years ago, nothing has changed. They love to sow division and set one group against another.

Thatcher said the below but it didn't last long.

Where there is discord, may we bring harmony. Where there is error, may we bring truth. Where there is doubt, may we bring faith. Where there is despair, may we bring hope." Quoting St Francis of Assisi, on her 1979 election victory.

Notonthestairs · 14/10/2024 16:50

Offering support to autistic children in schools (be that mainstream or specialist) is geared towards them being able to engage as much as they can with learning.

Necessary adaptations that will improve educational outcomes.

Pretending that taking such support away will increase their engagement in education (and therefore opportunities to work and be a part of society) is palpable nonsense.

You will reduce their chances in accessing education - and thus increase any dependence they might have on the state further along the line so its not even fiscally coherent.

Frowningprovidence · 14/10/2024 16:51

Icanthinkformyselfthanks · 14/10/2024 16:43

@TigerRag , lots of children need support for many reasons. Their parents should support them and teachers should always be able to adjust their teaching for different children as a matter of course. I think the point Kemi was making was that some children are receiving extra support at the expense of the nation and it is reasonable to ask if all of this is necessary.

But you do understand that in order to get this extra support people do 'ask if it's necessary' you go through a time consuming evidenced based process lasting over 20 weeks that involves mutliple professionals and is interrogated by a panel.

There isn't an automatic bonus for you or thr school if you get a diagnosis.

Reugny · 14/10/2024 16:51

EdgeOfSixty · 14/10/2024 16:49

The Tories have been known as the Nasty Party years ago, nothing has changed. They love to sow division and set one group against another.

Thatcher said the below but it didn't last long.

Where there is discord, may we bring harmony. Where there is error, may we bring truth. Where there is doubt, may we bring faith. Where there is despair, may we bring hope." Quoting St Francis of Assisi, on her 1979 election victory.

I give you "Big society!?!"

Shame he didn't know that it meant government and councils with a few others pay for the tangible items while people give their time and expertise for nothing.

DogInATent · 14/10/2024 16:51

Coruscations · 14/10/2024 16:30

Well, exactly. No-one gets transport to school unless they need it for the reasons set out in the Education Act 1996 (i.e. they live more than 3 miles away or are unable to walk to school due to disability), and even when they meet the relevant criteria it can still be quite a battle. You don't just rock up at your local authority offices waving a certificate saying your child has autism and wait for them to send the taxi round.

Would they rather these pesky children were just kept out of the school system altogether?

Edited

But Kemi doesn't need to point to facts, when she can point to facts on the ground and misinterpret them to appeal to her very narrow electorate. Try getting a taxi for a weekday afternoon and you'll be told, "They're all out on school contracts". Now imagine how many 72yo got a taxi to school in their day. It doesn't matter what the full facts are, just the facts on the ground and how conservative members want to interpret them.

Yes, I'm extremely cynical about politics. But Kemi is steering a path that will almost certainly see her the next leader of the conservatives in opposition. She's think-skinned and probably far to eager to rise to the bait to succeed in that position for long. But her present strategy is unfortunately a sound one.

Coruscations · 14/10/2024 16:53

Icanthinkformyselfthanks · 14/10/2024 16:31

@Italiandreams , I completely understand that. Of course teachers should make adjustments for students who need them but equally many people who are high functioning autistic are also I gather very bright and can and should go on to live fulfilling lives. I hope your son gets the help he needs.

Wow. How to tell us you know nothing about autism without saying so.

Define "very bright" in the context of autism. A very neurodiverse person may, to use a stereotype, have a fantastic understanding of mathematical theory or IT and yet be almost totally unable to function in society or to work with other people. Should we just assume they can work out all their issues and leave them to it without support because they're "very bright"?

Nanny0gg · 14/10/2024 16:55

Hunnymonster1 · 14/10/2024 14:02

Surely though some of these tory members may have autistic kids themselves or grandkids. Or is it that many are wealthy so use private education and so don't care what she says. I mean the pensioners got pissed off over winter fuel allowance but yet when the tories aim stuff at the youth they don't care

I'm a pensioner and I'm disgusted

I am also horrified at the two they've kept to choose between

AutismProf · 14/10/2024 16:55

PickAChew · 14/10/2024 16:18

No flaming from me. Inclusion is not inclusion for a kid who ends up working in a cupboard with very little teacher contact because a class of 30 is overwhelming for them.

They could solve a lot of school based anxiety and avoidance and burnout in neurodivergent kids by reforming the curriculum away from the ridiculous Gove curriculum, overly packed and designed for stressful summative assessment at GCSE, and stopping zero tolerance overly rigid rules in academy trusts that don't enable reasonable adjustments.

They would improve it further by ensuring all schools are capable of a wider offer than just GCSE, with vocational qualifications, ASDAN and functional skills assessments on offer to those who need examinations at a different level. Have this as an ofsted priority instead of progress 8 or baccalaureate that force schools to make children sit too many exams.

Then if they made class sizes smaller and made the space more sensory friendly, didn't have 1500 kids packed in like sardines in corridors moving between lessons, etc, that would help even more.

Much more inclusive than building loads more special schools to pick up the pieces of the children failed by an education system decreasingly fit for purpose.

Coruscations · 14/10/2024 16:57

Icanthinkformyselfthanks · 14/10/2024 16:43

@TigerRag , lots of children need support for many reasons. Their parents should support them and teachers should always be able to adjust their teaching for different children as a matter of course. I think the point Kemi was making was that some children are receiving extra support at the expense of the nation and it is reasonable to ask if all of this is necessary.

No child receives extra support in the state system unless it is proved that they need it. Ask any parent of a child with SEND just how difficult it is to get an EHC Plan, let alone to get the right provision in school as a result. You just don't get it without very good professional evidence. And, yet again, simply having an ASD diagnosis never automatically equates to extra support.

TiredCatLady · 14/10/2024 16:57

It seems she thinks these “anti-woke” comments make her look strong and she’s being terribly clever. In reality they just out her as being thick.

I’m reminded of the Kathy Burke quote. “I like being woke. It’s much nicer than being an ignorant fucking xxxx” (removed the swear as I know some on here really don’t like it)

newbeggins · 14/10/2024 17:00

Ugh she's showing herself to be so dumb. Just attention seeking like a love island contestant.

Anyone with neurodiverse kids knows how fucking hard it is for us and them. I dream of what life would gave been like without it.

Hope conservative members vote for neither of them.

pointythings · 14/10/2024 17:03

Icanthinkformyselfthanks · 14/10/2024 16:35

@pointythings , I have not said I don’t believe autism exists. I do believe that historically those on the mild end of the spectrum have largely gone on to have productive existences by learning to deal with the way they are.

And how much better would they have done if they had had the adaptations needed for them to truly reach their potential?

My DS is in the final year of a STEM degree. He has indeed done very well, and is extremely intelligent.

But it is only since understanding that he is autistic that he has been able to make the changes to how he manages life that have led him there. Until that happened, he struggled and struggled, believed he was stupid and incompetent and lazy - you name it. This is why early support is important. It's an investment in a part of our workforce that would really pay off longer term, reducing the waste of talent. But Kemi isn't smart enough to realise that, she just sees something that can be cut. Tories don't understand long term thinking or investing in people.

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