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Kemi badenoch now against autistic children

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Hunnymonster1 · 14/10/2024 13:30

What is wrong with her? Just read that the children commision is saying average wait like to get diagnosed as autistic is 4 years.
So kemi banging on about how parents are pushing gor diagnosis because they see how much extra money etc autistic children get at school is wrong.
The fact is I woukd think judging by lbc many kids are not getting the support that they need.
So js this about her saying the conservatives need to save tax by not helping people or children with autism and mental health issues.
Bare in mind she said similar about maternity pay last week makes me think she's like Liz truss wants to cut alot of stuff
How the hell can anyone support this?
https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/politics/kemi-badenoch-autism-tory-leadership-buckland-b2628845.html

Kemi Badenoch faces backlash for ‘stigmatising’ autism

Tory leadership hopeful faces another row after endorsing report that suggested people with the condition get ‘economic advantages and protections’

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/politics/kemi-badenoch-autism-tory-leadership-buckland-b2628845.html

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Hunnymonster1 · 14/10/2024 14:37

murasaki · 14/10/2024 14:34

Either way, the point of the thread was to criticise Badenoch for her misogynistic and ablist views. Does anyone know Jenrick's views on those specific points?

Not that I imagine any of us are in a position to vote for the leader for obvious reasons.

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I don't like him to ever since he painted over a cartoon in asylum center

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Alexandra2001 · 14/10/2024 14:37

MrTiddlesTheCat · 14/10/2024 13:47

Of course she wants to cut a lot of stuff, she's a tory. That's what being a tory means. At the core they don't believe the state should be responsible for anything other than defence and law order. If they aren't trying to do away with something, it's only because they don't think they can get away with it ...yet.

TBH they don't even support defence or law n order, both slashed during their 14 years in office.

She is a vile woman, spreading hate just to get elected.

BananaNirvana · 14/10/2024 14:37

DrivingThePlot · 14/10/2024 14:14

I still boil with rage, even now (DS is 15 & autistic) at the message his primary school headteacher sent to all parents stating that it was her belief that parents were too quick to seek a diagnosis of ASD or ADHD for their child and should just accept that their child is just a little quirky and get on with life. She meant there would be no help or support at school from anyone and if you didn't agree, you could just remove your child and go elsewhere. I don't understand how she's still there, still unofficially showing children the door, supported by her unsympathetic staff.

Bloody hell 😳😳😳

BananaNirvana · 14/10/2024 14:40

User37482 · 14/10/2024 14:26

At one point there was a survey of teachers who thought that parents were trying to push for unwarranted diagnosis.

https://www.theguardian.com/education/2017/feb/24/parents-pushing-for-special-needs-diagnosis-for-children-survey-says

tbh though I can imagine ADHD can be confused with neglectful parenting but I’m not sure how autism can (have autistic children in my family).

There is early research emerging that some trauma behaviours can be misdiagnosed as ASD. But this supports the earlier poster who said we should be supporting on the basis of need not diagnosis. These kids still have huge needs and the diagnosis doesn’t really change anything for some. And it creates a two tier system for those who can pay to get a diagnosis that unlocks support and those that can’t 🙁.

Kta7 · 14/10/2024 14:40

Show me where all this support is for autistic girls then Kemi 🧐. The fact is, there isn’t enough support for anyone with SEN, which means high-masking autistic girls’ needs get forced to the bottom of the list until they reach crisis point. The best you get is assistance at airports, which almost makes me cry each time because you realise how it could be if everyone took it seriously and implemented teeny tweaks that could make a huge difference.

TooBigForMyBoots · 14/10/2024 14:41

DS1 was assessed at 7yo at the request of the school. I could see he was struggling and arranged for him to see school counsellor. It was after this they asked if they could refer him.

I broke down when the Ed psych told me. I felt like the worst parent in the world. How could I have not known?

He got help at school. Learned coping techniques, was given support and space. It was invaluable and the only reason he's made it as far as he has, doing his Alevels this year.

The school did not get extra staff. I did not get more money. DS got what he needed.🙏

BananaNirvana · 14/10/2024 14:42

Kta7 · 14/10/2024 14:40

Show me where all this support is for autistic girls then Kemi 🧐. The fact is, there isn’t enough support for anyone with SEN, which means high-masking autistic girls’ needs get forced to the bottom of the list until they reach crisis point. The best you get is assistance at airports, which almost makes me cry each time because you realise how it could be if everyone took it seriously and implemented teeny tweaks that could make a huge difference.

The “teeny tweaks that could make a huge difference” is such an important point - I wonder how many children with sensory needs, for example, could be more successful at school if we didn’t have rigidly enforced ridiculous uniform rules!

Icanthinkformyselfthanks · 14/10/2024 14:43

@Hunnymonster1 , you may find this article from The Guardian interesting.
PS Kemi isn’t saying she’s against Autistic people. Please read the pamphlet.

amp.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2019/aug/26/autism-neurodiversity-severe

RaspberryRipple2 · 14/10/2024 14:44

Can I just say I despise these political views - whilst also accepting she has a point, because there are people who receive benefits and seek diagnoses for conditions who have only a mild need just because they are in theory entitled to receive them. I don’t think anyone thinks this is everyone but it does happen and is blocking those with real need from accessing support early.

Those that I know with diagnosed special needs certainly need access to support in school but also claim DLA which is spent on luxury holidays and taxi transport to school when self transport is no more inconvenient than for an NT child (because they are entitled to it, and hence claim). Anyone can see the public finances simply can’t afford this on this scale - not sure what the answer is mind and I know this is likely an unpopular view.

LlynTegid · 14/10/2024 14:44

TooBigForMyBoots · 14/10/2024 14:41

DS1 was assessed at 7yo at the request of the school. I could see he was struggling and arranged for him to see school counsellor. It was after this they asked if they could refer him.

I broke down when the Ed psych told me. I felt like the worst parent in the world. How could I have not known?

He got help at school. Learned coping techniques, was given support and space. It was invaluable and the only reason he's made it as far as he has, doing his Alevels this year.

The school did not get extra staff. I did not get more money. DS got what he needed.🙏

I am sure you are very proud of him and with good reason. Hope he does well in his A levels.

Flowers4me · 14/10/2024 14:46

BananaNirvana · 14/10/2024 14:40

There is early research emerging that some trauma behaviours can be misdiagnosed as ASD. But this supports the earlier poster who said we should be supporting on the basis of need not diagnosis. These kids still have huge needs and the diagnosis doesn’t really change anything for some. And it creates a two tier system for those who can pay to get a diagnosis that unlocks support and those that can’t 🙁.

Problem with basing it on need, in my experience those needs are not always obvious due to masking behaviour (which is very common with ND girls) and coupled with insufficient understanding, this then leads to needs not being supported and a risk of more complex health issues developing. This then requires more intense support and potentially a greater cost to society. Trauma can mimik ADHD symptoms so yes there can be an overlap; problem is ND people are vulnerable to abuse and/or lack of intunement with parent/carers so this is a complex area to unpick. Agree with the potential for a two tier system; we were fortunate to get an NHS assessment.

MarkWithaC · 14/10/2024 14:46

Icanthinkformyselfthanks · 14/10/2024 14:07

@Hunnymonster1 , I haven’t read exactly what Kemi said but I do believe there are some parents who for a variety of reasons seek to label their children as autistic. This is not good for society as a whole and especially not for the children concerned. I have reached this conclusion after conversations with medical doctors.

'seek to' – but do they actually go on to get their children a diagnosis ie are you saying these 'medical doctors' you've spoken to are giving false diagnoses of autism? What is the area of expertise of these 'medical doctors'?Is it autism?

PickAChew · 14/10/2024 14:48

Her comment and a diagram from a different part of the same "essay". Of course I have taken that diagram slightly out of context but it does make me smirk.

I told Ds2 that he should be working on himself but he just told me what flavour frusli bar he wanted to open next. The lad's such a shirker.

Kemi badenoch now against autistic children
Kemi badenoch now against autistic children
MrTiddlesTheCat · 14/10/2024 14:49

RaspberryRipple2 · 14/10/2024 14:44

Can I just say I despise these political views - whilst also accepting she has a point, because there are people who receive benefits and seek diagnoses for conditions who have only a mild need just because they are in theory entitled to receive them. I don’t think anyone thinks this is everyone but it does happen and is blocking those with real need from accessing support early.

Those that I know with diagnosed special needs certainly need access to support in school but also claim DLA which is spent on luxury holidays and taxi transport to school when self transport is no more inconvenient than for an NT child (because they are entitled to it, and hence claim). Anyone can see the public finances simply can’t afford this on this scale - not sure what the answer is mind and I know this is likely an unpopular view.

To get a diagnosis the needs have to be 'clinically significant'. A 'mild need' won't get you a diagnosis.

BananaNirvana · 14/10/2024 14:52

Flowers4me · 14/10/2024 14:46

Problem with basing it on need, in my experience those needs are not always obvious due to masking behaviour (which is very common with ND girls) and coupled with insufficient understanding, this then leads to needs not being supported and a risk of more complex health issues developing. This then requires more intense support and potentially a greater cost to society. Trauma can mimik ADHD symptoms so yes there can be an overlap; problem is ND people are vulnerable to abuse and/or lack of intunement with parent/carers so this is a complex area to unpick. Agree with the potential for a two tier system; we were fortunate to get an NHS assessment.

Oh absolutely don’t think that a diagnosis shouldn’t be sought but for those stuck in the system waiting we should be looking for alternative paths of support.

Icanthinkformyselfthanks · 14/10/2024 14:55

MarkWithaC · 14/10/2024 14:46

'seek to' – but do they actually go on to get their children a diagnosis ie are you saying these 'medical doctors' you've spoken to are giving false diagnoses of autism? What is the area of expertise of these 'medical doctors'?Is it autism?

@MarkWithaC ,
you might find this article interesting.
amp.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2019/aug/26/autism-neurodiversity-severe

Serencwtch · 14/10/2024 14:56

I think the people posting & commenting on the almost daily Labour & keir bashing threads need to take notice of what the alternative is.

TooBigForMyBoots · 14/10/2024 14:57

LlynTegid · 14/10/2024 14:44

I am sure you are very proud of him and with good reason. Hope he does well in his A levels.

I am and I know that it's down to the early diagnosis and the support that followed. He fortunately never needed 1 to 1 support. But he needed the support that he got and I'll forever be grateful for that.

My heart goes out to all those having to suffer because of delays in assessment, caused by the previous Tory government and because of ignorant, shitty prejudice like what Badenoch spouts.

yeaitsmeagain · 14/10/2024 14:58

PickAChew · 14/10/2024 14:48

Her comment and a diagram from a different part of the same "essay". Of course I have taken that diagram slightly out of context but it does make me smirk.

I told Ds2 that he should be working on himself but he just told me what flavour frusli bar he wanted to open next. The lad's such a shirker.

What flavour was it?

BestBaby · 14/10/2024 14:59

From page 8 of the report. (to add to @PickAChew ’s screenshot of p18)

Kemi badenoch now against autistic children
ARichtGoodDram · 14/10/2024 15:00

Hunnymonster1 · 14/10/2024 14:12

Blimey in the pamphlet it says that autistic children are entitled to transport to school as if that's bad . Maybe it's cos they need it like how hateful can You be that you begrudge that . Just said this on lbc Sheila fogarty program

School transport for children with disabilities is massively a target for the Tories. It's been brewing for ages.

Never mind the fact that part of the reason transport is so bloody expensive for councils is because children have to travel so far to suitable (sometimes still not even suitable) schools! It's all because of the greedy parents 🙄

20 years ago there was a specialist school just outside our village and 15 years ago one of the primary schools had a specialist unit attached. Both were closed in the name of inclusion. My DD4 now travels 50 minutes each way to school despite us having school at the end of our street.

AgnesX · 14/10/2024 15:01

She's a narrow minded, mean little b*h. Generally politicians leave a lot to be desired but she really takes the cake.

MarkWithaC · 14/10/2024 15:01

Icanthinkformyselfthanks · 14/10/2024 14:55

@MarkWithaC ,
you might find this article interesting.
amp.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2019/aug/26/autism-neurodiversity-severe

I've seen that article before. I don't quite see what it has to do with the discussion here though; it's not news that autism is a spectrum. The idea that this means it may need extra and/or relabelling follows logically.
And as a pp says, to get a diagnosis a person's needs have to be clinically significant.

Which doesn't move us on from my questions: do the parents you are aware of who 'seek to' get their children a diagnosis actually get one? ie are you saying these 'medical doctors' you've spoken to are giving false diagnoses of autism?

Kta7 · 14/10/2024 15:02

Serencwtch · 14/10/2024 14:56

I think the people posting & commenting on the almost daily Labour & keir bashing threads need to take notice of what the alternative is.

Bridget Phillipson has enthusiastically grasped the attendance baton from the Conservatives and wilfully refuses to engage with the primary underlying issue; namely that most long-term absence is among neurodivergent students whose needs are not being met.

LauraMipsum · 14/10/2024 15:04

BestBaby · 14/10/2024 14:59

From page 8 of the report. (to add to @PickAChew ’s screenshot of p18)

It takes a very particular type of politician to read something that describes a growing mental health crisis and decide the best answer is to take away support rather than - say - a flagship new mental health treatment policy.

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